@nylonfetish @TexMan It’s a public forum without private messaging. The forum is for discussion and sharing advice and tips with everyone, so one-on-one chat within the public threads is not allowed, nor is sharing contact information. Check out the Forum Rules and Welcome Thread to read more about what kind of forum this is and what is and is not allowed (here are a few snippets) 
Keep topics open to everyone, without singling out a specific group of members. Do not have private conversations in public – this includes flirting, ‘inside jokes’, and graphic public displays of affection. The Lovehoney Forum is not a place for arranging hook-ups, sex chat, cyber sex or other personal solicitations.