Hey everyone. I am new and bought my first adult toy

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Hi it is nice to meet everyone. I am so happy that i am apart of this community.

It is a bit embarrassing but i recently bought my first vibrator/adult toy (the purple loveyhoney frolic 10 function silicone g-spot vibrator). It’s not embarrassing because i bought one but that it took me this long to get one as i am already in my late 20s.

I haven’t tried my vibrator yet. I have been busy and i am a bit nervous. As i haven’t inserted anything (beside my fingers) into my vigina.

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@Syd2 hello and welcome to the forum :blush::upside_down_face::blush::hugs::hugs:

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Hello and welcome @Syd2 :slightly_smiling_face:

I think being relaxed and in the right mood can help a lot. Reading an erotic story can be a good way to start off too, and don’t forget the lube. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Thank you for the advice :blush:

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Hi and welcome @Syd2 :+1:

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Welcome @Syd2

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Hello there @Syd2

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Welcome! I was (I think) into my 30’s when I bought my first toy and also hadn’t inserted anything except a tampon, not even my fingers! I’m sure you’ll have great fun and it will probably be the start of a toy buying addiction!

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Hi & welcome

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Hey :wave: @Syd2 and welcome to the forum :hugs: don’t be embarrassed and @Ian_Chimp sums up some great advice.

Go enjoy :cherry_blossom::hugs:

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Hi, welcome to the forum :wave:
No need to feel embarrassed, everyone does things at their own pace. people on here tried sex toys for the first time at all sorts of ages. I bought my first one in my mid 20’s but didnt really get into them till i was in my 30’s. :woman_shrugging: whenever is right for you is the right time.

Nice pick, those are good for battery powered vibes. Quite rumbly and with decent strength. You might find its not long enough to hit your g spot easily, but they make super clit vibes too.

If your a bit nervous about it, i find unpacking it and just flicking through the settings with it in your hand helps. Get yourself used to the feel of it. Maybe try it on a breast first.
Doesnt have to all be in one go. You can get used to using it externally and on your vulva and clit before you try inserting it.
Just take it at your own pace, no rush.

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Thanks Green_Eyed_girl for your advice. I didn’t even think of that. I will start doing that. Yeah i think i just need to remind myself that i shouldn’t rush and just enjoy myself.

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Hi @Syd2 :wave:
Welcome to the forum!

Great advice already posted, relax and enjoy and welcome to the world of sex toys.

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I was already in my 40s when I bought my first toy. I hope you enjoy exploring.

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Hi and welcome @Syd2 hope you enjoy your new purchase

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Hi :wave: @Syd2 welcome to the forum :slightly_smiling_face:

Great advice given already. You should never feel embarrassed, I’m in my mid 30s and only started to buy toys, lingerie, etc last year. And now we’re having plenty of fun exploring our sex life

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I’m also a recent purchaser, in my 40s. Never too old to start!

And, welcome to the forum :wave:

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Hi and welcome to the forum. There is a great mix of ages on the forum everyone is very friendly and very open minded.

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Hellooo and welcome… Get ready for the start of your toy box :wink:

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Hi welcome to the forum. Don’t be afraid to take things slow too. You said it vibrates so just using it externally 1st if you want to can also work well to get you used to the toy. And don’t worry about being ‘late’, as long as you enjoy yourself who cares when people think you should have started using/doing stuff (for example I’m in my mid 20s now and have never done anything penetrative)