You’ll have to enlighten me as to the Hot Wife kink as its not something I’ve heard of.
I also had to ask about dirty talk as its not something that came naturally to me. The good people of the forum answered very helpfully and with a bit of luck it might help you too.
I’m sure I read somewhere on the Forum that if you Google,‘hotwife gifs’ or something to that effect, you will get a plethora of sexual images with word and thought bubbles. They could possibly assist in some things that you might want to consider saying.
I agree with @Toy_Fan about using suggestive GIFS or Memes. Especially if you struggle putting what you’re thinking into words, they often break the ice. Don’t forget emojis as well.
1.observe positive attribute(s) of the other person of interest. 2. let the other person know in as vulgar terms as possible, how you feel about the positive attribute(s). 3 Make extremely good use of adjectives. 4. Don’t be too proud or take yourself too seriously.
Pretend scenario: put serious work clothes on and go up to wife. “ Sharon, your bounteous butt bent over the photocopier has my balls aching with desire. How about you have it off with me in the office toilet and video message it to your husband to watch while he’s powerless to do a thing but sit there and enjoy every minute of it.”