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I love the hotwife fantasy. I watch cuckold porn and find it a huge turn on! When I watch it I sometimes fantasise about the OH being the hotwife.
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Your not wrong here. I always fantasise about my OH. Like you aswell in whatever porn we watch or I watch alone I always imagine her in the lingerie or outfits they have on, and doing whatever porn I’m watching too.
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@Bliss-Seeker , Your last sentence is spot on . Everybody think back to when you first started having sex . A pretty good chance it was extra vanilla , about as tame as you could get . In the beginning of my sexual journey if you had told me I would ever do some of the things I do now I would have told you that you were crazy . The hardest choices is what taboo ( to you and partner ) things to keep a fantasy and which ones move into the real world . I always remember that once preformed it is pretty much out of the fantasy bank . Talk it over in depth with your wife , maybe even list the pros and cons and if the gamble will pay off . Either way , enjoy yourselves !
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It’s the implications beyond the turn on that make it taboo - not to mention the promises made in traditional marriage vows (I don’t know what you promised, so I won’t even try to speak to that). I recently read an article about open marriages and these are some of the questions that the author discussed.
How will you feel later about your wife actively desiring to seduce and then actually have sex with another person or persons? Once it’s over could you let it go or will that be hanging over both of your heads for the rest of your marriage? Once someone else has been brought into the relationship, regardless for how long, will they ever really be gone? Is that ok? Will it ever really be just the two of you again? Will you worry that she might find someone other than you she would prefer to be with? Is it possible you would resent her?
I’m not judging, this is absolutely a choice the two of you make together. I just thouhgt I would bring up the point that there are definitely long term implications to consider. You may decide the fantasy is more fun than the reality.
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Also a fantasy of mine to watch the wife take another, then I want to eat the pie to complete things for me.
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This is also a fantasy of my husbands he would love for me to go with another man and for him to watch. I dont mind him having this fantasy but that is all its ever going to be i would not want to put our marriage at risk .
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Same fantasy here… We talk about it all the time and she gets very very turned on about it… But I can’t see it happening. One day I might get her in a swingers club to at least have sex in front of others maybe.
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I’ve got the same fantasy. I’d love to see my partner with another guy.
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Massive fantasy of mine atm, we do have some pillow talk and roleplay with her toys which is great fun.
We have had two nights out so far where the missus has dressed up provocatively for me with the purposes of me taking her out to show her off, mostly to nice restaurants which get the barmen and waiters looking which is great fun, but nother more substantial then that
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Having taken this from fantasy to reality, we loved it! It was an amazing sight watching @FoxyLea87 have sex with another man, the look of pleasure on her face as he was thrusting inside her made me incredibly horny 
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I’ve often thought it would be would be hot to watch my wife with another man. See what he or she would do differently, maybe see some new skills or hear new moans. I know she wouldn’t be up for it and that’s for the best as think I would get jealous and think about it too much. I also fantasise about my wife choosing another woman to join us hehe! 
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Think great you so happy, but not sure could share such a beauty as @FoxyLea87 . I couldn’t share Mrs i don’t think.
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I love the idea but I’m not gonna just watch I’m gonna be in on the action, DP, Airtight whatever it would be, and I would like to see my wife just let loose and let it happen but I’m 99.5 percent sure it will never happen
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I would love this to happen in my life but the wife will not, unfortunately
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Never say never, talk openly to your partner. It took a bit of time before myself and @FoxyLea87 decided to try it, but we are glad we did
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Reverse situation for me. We met via a swinging site, enjoyed several 1-2-1 sessions and then had many a meet with others, often the two of us and other men.
Then we married.
We haven’t had any swinging meets since but that may at some point change. There’s no reason why things would change between a couple introducing extra parties into their sex lives. Just because you let another join you in the bedroom for a one off meet it doesn’t change the relationship between you, unless you let it. It’s perfectly possible to separate your normal life and partnership from brief moments of exploration with others. It happens all the time.
If you honestly think it will cause issues between you then don’t go there. But if you’re open with eachother and accept that it’s just fun, just something that you want to do on occasion and something that is purely physical with no emotional connection to the extra person then it can be amazing.
But it has to be something you’re both 100% comfortable with and neither party should feel under any pressure or look to do it just to please/accommodate their partner.
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I am often fantasising about this, I love watching porn scenes with a white woman taking two black guys and imagine my wife doing this but not sure if I could deal with the reality, never brought it up with her until recently, she has never been with a black guy and it came up in conversation so I shared my fantasy but still unlikely to ever happen
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I will try again in the new year.
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