To all the men out there how big is your penis flaccid and erect??
To all the women out there does size really matter, what do you prefer big or small???
im an average 3.5" flaccid 5.5" erect to start you all off, I'm always worried it's not enough.
I think technique is more important than size.
My friend once hooked up with a guy who had a pretty big penis and he thought he was amazing in bed, when actually all he did was cause her discomfort. She didn't enjoy it at all. Moral of the story is that bigger is not always better.
5.5 inches is average, so I would try not to worry about your size. I'd much rather have a guy who's average and knows what they're doing than a guy who is like the one I mentioned in the above scenario.
There are plenty of threads on this topic out there, so do a quick search and you'll find loads. There's similar threads for the women too. It's a topic that's mentioned quite often as many people have insecurities about their size, but to be blunt, as long as you're communicating with your partner(s) in the bedroom and you're both having fun, why should it matter?
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This topic has been discussed several times before.
Sorry if this is a repeat topic, I've not come across one and its new to me so thought I'd post
I can only answer the second question, and I can honestly say no, it's not automatically better. I'm petite and I find bigger can often equal discomfort, and some positions are actually painful. However, just as we all have a different body, we also all have different preferences.
Here's just a few thread that might help you find answers to you questions
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/836865-what-does-average-mean-to-you/
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/690877-penis-size/
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/659117-size-does-matter/
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/406238-penis-size/
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You can always add to size with extension or sleeves ect but you can't beat someone that know how to use it 😉
Hey guys
Having a look at some of the older threads, they are over a year old so if you wish to continue the topic here I will close the old ones now and keep them for information purposes.
I don't think I have problem with how to use it as I manage to make my wife orgasm the majority of the time through intercourse, some positions better than others....I'm just a what if it was bigger kind of guy
Jimjam26 wrote:
I don't think I have problem with how to use it as I manage to make my wife orgasm the majority of the time through intercourse
Then I definitely wouldn't worry if I were you! Be confident. Easier said than done, I know.
Sorry, my bad, here's some more recent ones. Once again hope you find the answers you're looking for.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/1361215-can-a-man-be-too-big/page-2/
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/1151124-does-size-really-matter/
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/1421184-size/
Lovehoney - Leanne wrote:
Hey guys
Having a look at some of the older threads, they are over a year old so if you wish to continue the topic here I will close the old ones now and keep them for information purposes.
Hi Leanne, sorry didn't realise I'm happy for you to delete this if you want....it was purely for some quick discussion
It's not the size of the boat that matters, it's the motion in the ocean that counts....!
My fingers are smaller than my penis and they hit all the right places so wouldn't think penis size should be a worry for any man.
Stuburns wrote:
My fingers are smaller than my penis and they hit all the right places so wouldn't think penis size should be a worry for any man.
I've never actually thought of it like that. Good point!
At the end of the day women worry about the size of their boobs and men worry about the size of their penis...fact.
As long as you know how to use what God gave you, and clearly you do, you have no need to worry at all. No one is 'perfect' ...because diffent people need and want different things. You obviously bring lots of pleasure to your wife....that should be enough to answer your question xx
I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to receive my own so something that's actually significantly bigger than average? No go zone. I'd rather somebody average and maybe a bit girthy than somebody excessively hung.
I think 5.5" is the perfect size! My partner is around the same and i love it, size and all. I have had bigger and smaller than this in the past. Really small was an issue at first until we got to know each other better, then we found ways to go round it. Bigger was a nightmare, it caused stomach cramps, bleeding, it was uncomfortable and when we got rough it would be painful too. I would have a bad stomach for days afterwards which ended up resulting in me being harrassed for sex constantly, and actually wanting it half of the time but just unwilling to suffer the after effects i would have to say no. He asked me if i would consider anal, it brought tears to my eyes just thinking about it and was a flat out no. Im not talking massive porno size here either, just larger than average. I feel that 5.5" is the perfect size as we can do anything, intimate & soft, hard & fast, anal if your into that all while being pleasured and comfortable both at the time and afterwards. What you do with it obviously comes into it too.
You have nothing to worry about here x
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Biggest guy I've slept with was awful, no technique and thought he was a God in bed just because it was so big 😝most positions just hurt! I genuinely prefer girth over length any day but knowing what they are doing is so much more important than either.
Yes, bigger isnt always better. My wife also prefers girth over lenght. I'm 7'' when erect and I'm happy with what God gave me!