My oh says I’m too big but I think I’m just average does anyone else have this problem
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I guess you need to say how big you are if you want others opinion.
Depends on the receiver I suppose
Trying to be modest, I have good girth and length my OH doesn’t like it if I push it all in, especially deep positions
She says she also feels stretched, I thought women liked that to be honest?
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I am about a foot taller than my wife and so naturally I am a bit bigger. Early in our marriage my wife has said sometimes she felt I was “too big”. Over time it hasn’t really been as much of an issue as we have gotten used to each other.
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To be honest not measured myself up
My penis is a normal 6" long and about 5" in girth. Doggy makes me go deeper and oh tells me to take it easy. When I cum, I can’t help but push in deep - she moans then but knows why I’m pushing. It’s pretty much a reflex
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I know some women can take a lot more than others. So I guess some depends on the woman. I personally don’t see how anyone could be to big a baby comes out of there.
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I’ve been told I’m the biggest my OH has had, which has times has been a bit tough. We’ve agreed that it means we need to work on warming up and feeling relaxed. She’s learning a lot in the process about her own body, and so am I. It’s a win-win really!
While the vagina isn’t supposed to do this every day, it’s certainly designed to be elastic and in my opinion is a lot stronger than a penis, even though that sounds counter-intuitive. I try my best to reassure my OH that evolution has built her to take a battering! Doesn’t take away from preferences though.
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I tend to think everyone sees big differently so what might be massive to some could be normal average to others 
Its length and how its “used” thats the issue, generally?
Haven’t measure myself, but expect I’m about average. My OH has at times advised I’m going too deep and its uncomfortable, especial in doggie. But there has been the rare occasion she has requested doggie and really enjoys it when I go deep. So if I’m feeling the needed to pound hard I’ve got to ensure she is in that mood, still learning all her trigger points and reading when they work and when they dont.
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Vaginas and butts can stretch but they will have limits, but with lube most sizes are possible!
It’s down to personal preference though and some people enjoy the pressure and intensity of stretching out, some people won’t enjoy it at all. So you need to be like Goldilocks and find the perfect match. Also some ladies Iv been with enjoy saying things like “your too big for me” “I can’t handle all of that” and I have also said “your too tight to take it all” feels like you haven’t ever had something this big” and that sort of dirty talk is amazing
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I am only average length but slightly gerthy. My wife is quite petite and we were virgins when we met. Definitely took some time for her to fully enjoy herself but even now after quite some time certain times or moods she has difficulty. Then others she’s begging me to go harder and deeper. The variety of life!
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We’re 18 years in, and she still doesn’t like me going all the way in.
Reading the feedback from your partner should give you some indication, and just take it slooow early on
Really depends on the girl. Vaginas are elastic but some can get painful getting stretched out or if really long and keeps hitting cervix hard. So big is just a preference. Average 5 to 6 inch up to 9 inch is comfortable for me.
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I guess this question is really aimed at the receiver. Some will love a huge penis. If your partner thinks you are too big but is willing to try then I think this is something you can work out but perhaps needs a little more patience. Foreplay I think is key to relax your partner and hopefully provide natural lubrication but use extra lube if needed. Its probably obvious but if your partner is tense/nervous about your size and penetration then this will only make it more difficult. Putting your partner in a position where they can control depth, angle and pace is always a good move, they can decide what’s pleasurable and what’s too much. Her on top is a great starting position, doggie where you stay fairly stationary and let your partner move back onto you is another. If your partner is still struggling then go back to foreplay and maybe work back to penetration or just leave that to another day. With patience I think this is something that you and your partner can work up to the more relaxed they become and learn that you aren’t going to hurt them. My partner sometimes describes penetration as pleasurable pain but some positions/practices are just too much so you just need to take a bit more care and follow their feedback. My partner likes anal play, fingers and toys, but after a few unsuccessful attempts I’ve come to accept that anal sex is not going to happen. Likewise some positions push her limits between pain and pleasure. Much like @Dearcouple48 though for my partner ‘too much’ can change from day to day and I just need to go with the flow. One other thing I’d add on the pain/pleasure side is that sometimes penetration can leave her feeling a little sore and she needs a day or two before we have sex again but this doesn’t stop us having lots of fun with other play.
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I once had sex with a woman who took me like it was nothing - she kept asking me to go deeper and I was genuinely balls deep. Another woman once asked me to stop because apparently I was too big and hurting her.
My conclusion: it depends on the receiver.
How spicy do you like your food? It’s the same question.
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My wife calls me Big John
Cos I put it in and crawl towards her 
Kidding, obviously
(My name isn’t John 
)
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This is Al’s oh. He’s the only guy I’ve ever had in me so I guess his 6" penis is just perfect. Could I take more? Of course. I saw a guy with an 8" boner on a nude area along the coast this summer. It looked HOT! His gf was having fun sucking him.
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