Okay so my sister was talking to a guy at work who has a brother on the spectrum like me and they both seemed to bond over their experiences as a sibling to someone on the spectrum and he mentioned how hard it is for him to find someone to date and I guess they decided to set us up. Now I have become friends with him on Facebook and we have been talking and are going out for drinks next Friday.
We are both the same age and I enjoy taking to him so far. My issue is that I want to know how to ask him to have sex. Like I am absolutely desperate and I feel like I have a chance to finally get some dick and I am so nervous how do I ask him. I just donāt know how to ask him.
Do I just ask him to have sex with me on the first date. I know it seems slutty but I am really desperate and canāt function anymore due to a lack of penis in my life. I just hope he will have sex with me and that he has a big fat cock and will rail me. What should I do and how should I go about hinting that I want to have sex with him.
Hi I think you just need to see how the date goes, I certainly would not ask him to have sex with you during the first date as I think that would just scare him off. Take your time and see how things pan out. I am sure you will get dick very soon.
You canāt push it, you will just need to see how the date goes and if the attraction is mutual then invite him back to your place, at that point your intentions should be fairly obvious.
If you come across as desperate then it might have the opposite effect.
Be honest with him and tell him that youāre attracted to him and wondered if he would like to go somewhere more private. Let him lead, let him decide how āprivateā he wants to be with you. You donāt want to be too forward as he may feel like youāre just after him for sex.
As others have said, masturbation also helps. If you want to explore penetration, invest in a dildo or two. Good luck
Please just take your time , you may meet him and he turns out to be a complete arsehole , just chat , enjoy each others company and see where the date takes you both , you never know he may be a bit shy and might wanna wait for a few dates , and dont worry , if he is ready for sex on the first night he WILL let you know
Keep it light and move on to the subject of previous relationships. This can move on to sexual relationships and what you both like. If he wants to change the subject you may have your answer. Otherwise you may get him hot and you have another answer that wonāt be too difficult to convert to getting dick.
Iām not sure you will need to ask him. Most men donāt need to be asked! It will probably just happen, once you start touching and/or kissing him and the bulge in his trousers starts to grow, you will have a much bigger signal than anything you could say to each other.
Some people do need to have that specifically communicated if you have a place you can invite him back to after drinks then youāre halfway there. How you invite him to the bedroom after that is up to you
āAskā ? Just say what you want .
I met a woman , after chatting onine . We went for a walk , had a light lunch , then she invited me to her place .
I asked if she had a nice time , and she said " no ,cos you havenāt Fā¦d me yet" . Being a gentleman, I righted that wrong !
if you have a place you can invite him back to after drinks then youāre halfway there. How you invite him to the bedroom after that is up to you 
. Being a gentleman, I righted that wrong !
