How do you use spanking? Is it foreplay…fun and games…disciplie or funishments?
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When we do it, its normally part of foreplay. For us its never discipline its for fun.
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@Wood-Nymph I’m thinking that’s going to be the predominat answer here.
For me it’s never been about sex, not penatrative sex, but I am a sensaul sadist. For me it’s everything else depending on my partners.
Foreplay. Our entire lovemaking begins with me spanking her. Sometimes we will interrupt our lovemaking but bringing the paddle out.
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My hubby and i only play together so no one else involved, which is why it normally ends in piv as its just a bit of fun. If he really hit me hard i would get the hump and he would be lucky to get anything for a month. 
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Well that would be motivation to stay in the proper lane! 
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Mrs W here ……
Mr W and I, and Pen and I love spanking each other as foreplay or during the main course……. it does at times sting but not to the point of real pain……. xx
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My pets enjoy a good spanking, and I enjoy giving it to them.
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Nice description
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So happiness all around.
Sadly not enough
Can there ever truely be enough @CandB_Toy_Story ?
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Usually funishment because I’ve been a smart ass. 1% punishment if i didn’t eat lunch…
Sometimes used during doggy style sex but sex doesn’t usually involve spanking for us.
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I think I need more funishments in my partners and my lives.
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I like a good smack on the arse.
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They’re great fun. Sometimes i soank my Dominants too, because I have to assert my Dominance.
It becomes like a game of kiss tag, but better 
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I can see you gigling the whole time! @Tenshadesandme
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You know me then @Spanky 
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Yes, I do!
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For us it’s a completely separate activity.
We don’t role play reward or punishment. She just canes, whips, paddles, crops, or uses the tawse on me because we both enjoy it.
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