Hi all,
Turning 43 tomorrow, just wondering, is it the beginning of the end or are there people older than me who still pursue fun and fantasies with their partners?
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Hiya @Coolbreeze1978 
welcome to the forum.
My own experience is since my mid 40ās Iām having the best sex Iāve ever hadā¦
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Hi and welcome @Coolbreeze1978 
Yes, there are plenty of people a lot older than you ( Iām one of them!) who still enjoy fun with their partners or solo . Thereās no cut off point as far as Iām concerned 
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@Coolbreeze1978 welcome to the forum 
Iām 35 and Iām having the best mind blowing sex of my life, weāve been together 14 years and itās so much better now than it was then, living out more fantasies, dressing up and using restraints 
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Hello and welcome @Coolbreeze1978
I doubt youāll find anyone on here who will ever tell you youāre too old for anything.
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My husband is 53 and heās showing no signs of slowing down. Iām 40 next month and, though Iāve calmed down a bit since a crazy peak in my mid-30s, Iām still just as interested in bedroom play as ever. I hope Iāll still be getting my rocks off for a few decades more too!
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Hello and welcome! 57 and still feel 17!
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Definitely, we have a few years on you and are still trying new experiences.
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I donāt think there is ever a ātoo oldā - its all about playing to your strengths! You may not be as able to do sexual gymnastics as you get older, but you can certainly partake.
This is probably oversharing - but I know that when we were clearing out my late Grandmas things after her death we found a load of toys in her bedside drawer. Shocking at first, but then I thought āgood on herā I hope that iā've still got it in me at her age. She was a legend in so many ways!
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Welcome to the forum @Coolbreeze1978
As they say ālife begins at 40ā 
@Coolbreeze1978 Bloody young whippersnapper coming on here showing off about how young there are!! 
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Hi @Coolbreeze1978 . I hate to say age is just a number, butā¦
It is.
Iām older and can confirm thereās nothing stopping you enjoying a varied and active sex life at any age.
Enjoy. 
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Hello and welcome - never too old to have fun, are us a number and a mindset, so enjoy yourself and forget about the number 
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Iām 69, sheās 68 and our sex life is wilder and more experimental than itās ever been. Weāve just embarked on a total relationship change with the dynamics completely reversed and weāre discovering new likes, dislikes and kinks all the time.
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I agree with @rockstar. Iām 54 and misses is 44 (married 20 year & together for 25) We have kids so sometimes sex is difficult but we play as often as we can even if itās just a quick fondle. Weāve definitely explored more of our kinks as weāve got older.
As long as you are still in the mood and are physically able to do and enjoy things then you are never too old.
Even if you do have joint pain etc there is always a different position to over come it.
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No age is too old! Iām older than you and donāt plan on stopping any time soon.
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Iām 50, OH is 54. 3 kids. While things can wax and wane along with lifeās joys and stresses, we have found that since our mid-40s our sex lives got better and better (it had always been good).
I think we gained confidence, experimented more, joined Lovehoney and spent a fortune on toys and lingerie, and just generally became more easily intimate (not just sex).
I donāt think there is such a thing as too old - more a case of adapting as our bodies change, and broadening the definitions of what sex and intimacy mean.
I think we were helped along by my libido taking a rocket boost after the menopause - my lapsed desire came bouncing back!
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@Coolbreeze1978 itās a number the thing is to talk try and experiment we all have things we like and dislike so give it a go if itās not something you like or your partner does not then donāt do it again remember itās supposed to be fun fun fun 
enjoy btw I am 56 my OH is 46
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As long as everyone is of sound mind and enjoying themselves, thereās is no such thing as too old imo.
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