Turning 43 tomorrow, just wondering, is it the beginning of the end or are there people older than me who still pursue fun and fantasies with their partners?
Hiya @Coolbreeze1978 welcome to the forum.
My own experience is since my mid 40’s I’m having the best sex I’ve ever had…
Hi and welcome @Coolbreeze1978
Yes, there are plenty of people a lot older than you ( I’m one of them!) who still enjoy fun with their partners or solo . There’s no cut off point as far as I’m concerned
@Coolbreeze1978 welcome to the forum
I’m 35 and I’m having the best mind blowing sex of my life, we’ve been together 14 years and it’s so much better now than it was then, living out more fantasies, dressing up and using restraints
Hello and welcome @Coolbreeze1978
I doubt you’ll find anyone on here who will ever tell you you’re too old for anything.
My husband is 53 and he’s showing no signs of slowing down. I’m 40 next month and, though I’ve calmed down a bit since a crazy peak in my mid-30s, I’m still just as interested in bedroom play as ever. I hope I’ll still be getting my rocks off for a few decades more too!
Hello and welcome! 57 and still feel 17!
Definitely, we have a few years on you and are still trying new experiences.
I don’t think there is ever a “too old” - its all about playing to your strengths! You may not be as able to do sexual gymnastics as you get older, but you can certainly partake.
This is probably oversharing - but I know that when we were clearing out my late Grandmas things after her death we found a load of toys in her bedside drawer. Shocking at first, but then I thought “good on her” I hope that i’'ve still got it in me at her age. She was a legend in so many ways!
Welcome to the forum @Coolbreeze1978
As they say ‘life begins at 40’
@Coolbreeze1978 Bloody young whippersnapper coming on here showing off about how young there are!!
Hi @Coolbreeze1978 . I hate to say age is just a number, but…
I’m older and can confirm there’s nothing stopping you enjoying a varied and active sex life at any age.
Hello and welcome - never too old to have fun, are us a number and a mindset, so enjoy yourself and forget about the number
I’m 69, she’s 68 and our sex life is wilder and more experimental than it’s ever been. We’ve just embarked on a total relationship change with the dynamics completely reversed and we’re discovering new likes, dislikes and kinks all the time.
I agree with @rockstar. I’m 54 and misses is 44 (married 20 year & together for 25) We have kids so sometimes sex is difficult but we play as often as we can even if it’s just a quick fondle. We’ve definitely explored more of our kinks as we’ve got older.
As long as you are still in the mood and are physically able to do and enjoy things then you are never too old.
Even if you do have joint pain etc there is always a different position to over come it.
No age is too old! I’m older than you and don’t plan on stopping any time soon.
I’m 50, OH is 54. 3 kids. While things can wax and wane along with life’s joys and stresses, we have found that since our mid-40s our sex lives got better and better (it had always been good).
I think we gained confidence, experimented more, joined Lovehoney and spent a fortune on toys and lingerie, and just generally became more easily intimate (not just sex).
I don’t think there is such a thing as too old - more a case of adapting as our bodies change, and broadening the definitions of what sex and intimacy mean.
I think we were helped along by my libido taking a rocket boost after the menopause - my lapsed desire came bouncing back!
@Coolbreeze1978 it’s a number the thing is to talk try and experiment we all have things we like and dislike so give it a go if it’s not something you like or your partner does not then don’t do it again remember it’s supposed to be fun fun fun enjoy btw I am 56 my OH is 46
As long as everyone is of sound mind and enjoying themselves, there’s is no such thing as too old imo.