Well well I have upset all the regulars haven’t I?
It seems I have implied that you are not real people but sex maniacs, I have been rude and presumptuous by not saying hi before launching into my post, I have linked to a ‘fake’ video and presumed that all women are the same!! Good going nudger!
I have also been known to give directions when asked by a stranger without first shaking hands and introducing myself . . . am I that strange?
I stated at the outset, that my post was intended initially as a RESPONSE to another query and therefore NOT unsolicited advice. On the same point I only suggested where someone might find the answer and never professed to know the answer. You don’t need to trust ME ‘lubyanka’, trust your own eyes, experience and knowledge.
I admit that in personally recommending the n-joy wand and liberator throw I was offering an unsubstantiated opinion, I therefore retract that statement and humbly suggest that anyone interested in this topic check out the “freddyandeddy” site where I myself found these products recommended in the ‘how to’ section on female ejaculation.
Forgive me for not realising that in a forum entitled “Orgasm Army - Sex & Sex Toys > Sex Tips & Advice” on a sex toys website that a post about sex was somehow inappropriate. In my experience a forum on a BMW owners club site has usually meant that the vast majority of the forum-ites were interested in motor cars.
Ladylara, you have expressed definate personal opinions/preferences in an attempt to ridicule my post as an ill-informed delusion, and so I will reply to it with my own personal opinion, but 1st let me ask, did I ever state that squirting was the ULTIMATE orgasm?
I am under no illusions so you cant therefore ‘spoil’ it. My lady and I followed the instructions in this video and voila! She had a very powerful, intense full body orgasm that left her shaking all over with involuntary muscle spasms JUST like the girl in the video, so if you want to go on believing that it is ‘so fake’ therefore reinforcing the widely held ignorant view that “it’s just pee” then be my guest, its you who is losing out here, not me or my lady. Unlike that girl, my lady did not ejeculate as much or as far that 1st time, but now some 6 months later is producing far more of the ejeculate as her body becomes accustomed to the process. The spectacular expulsion effect shown in the video, and more famously by the pornstar cyntherea, is, I understand, a controlled pc muscle technique, a party trick if you will, and is not in relation to the intensity or pleasure experienced. The drinking of fluids is obviously connected to the amount of fluid a boby expels, whether by sweating, peeing, lubricating or squirting and if you bother to seek out the full 30 min video that this is a clip of then he covers the subject of hydration fully, along with many other well researched advice regarding relaxation, comfort and safety, good oils, and some very typically new age’y stuff such as ‘drawing up energy’ etc which I know is not to everyones taste. Call this video, self promoting, arrogant, hippy-dippy, unerotic, clinical etc if you want but it is not fake! And I would appreciate you (and the other posters who claimed that it is fake) not spreading ill informed dis-information regarding a subject that is already swimming in it.
Need proof? Well having seen this technique in this video watch out for it in well done porn where some male ‘actors’ who know what they are doing use it to make their co-stars squirt on cue, watch amatuer sex bloggers like ‘sexwithstephanie’ use it and then decide for yourself, Don’t take my word for it, research it yourselves.
Clitoral, vaginal, g-spot, anal, erotic suggestion, squirting, by hand, mouth, tongue, penis, vibrator etc etc are ALL possible types of orgasmic pleasure peaks that women can experience. A different day/mood/partner/situation a different feeling, what is intense once isnt always as intense, there are no ‘best’ ways of achieving pleasure only the right one at the time. There are however, pleasures that can remain hidden from us by either our ignorance of them (and the mysteries of human biology) or our fear of them or the labelling of them as undesirable/dirty by society ,anal play for both men and women for example. I would have thought that the kind of people who were on a forum such as this were more open minded than the rest of society about seeking these mysterious and ancient pleasures, but if the replies to this post are anything to go by then I am mistaken.
On a final note, I joined this site to get the loyalty points on yesterdays purchases, not to join a forum. I answered a post with relevant information in what seemed like a non intrusive way. Whilst I thank you for all your ‘welcome posts’ let me just say that I have been a new visitor in many peoples homes, some have said “welcome! come in, put your feet up and make yourself at home” whilst others have said “welcome! come in, oh by the way, hope you don’t mind, but we take our shoes off in this house” . . . guess which house I most felt welcome in? and which one I returned to?
