For those who started practicing pegging/prostate massage with a toy, how do you incorporate this during sex?
I don’t dislike pegging my husband but I’m not a big fan. As soon as I start doing this, the pleasure for me ends. Do you think it’s reasonable for me to want things to be what they were before (vaginal/anal) until we both have an orgasm and in a second round give him a pegging/prostate massage?
I know he likes it a lot. I would like to hear your experiences on the subject. TIA
Wife and I have peen pegging for a dozen years or so. It was her idea and she thoroughly enjoys it and turns her on. When we peg, that’s all that we do for that session. That being said, every time we have sex, pegging is not always apart of it. My wife or I should say we both like other things. Sometimes it’s all about my wife’s pleasure and I focus on her and what she wants. It’s give and take, communicate and let your OH know what you are wanting and what turns you on.
For pegging, we only do during power play when wifey is in the mood to play domme (not every time she dommes, just to clarify). She really enjoys using a vibe (usually her We-Vibe Melt or Womanizer Pro40) and sometimes a dildo vaginally. The power play is part of what turns her on, and her toys do the stimulating for her physical pleasure.
Other prostate play can be part of the domme/sub scenario (she directs me to put a plug in, or use a prostate massager) or can just be a part of mutual masturbation where we both want to enjoy using toys together.
Per my record, I think we’ve only engaged in pegging 3x this year, so every other month or so, but plenty of folks engage much more regularly.
For us we tease and do some foreplay, then she puts on the strap on, uses it, and touches me to orgasm while using it (or I touch myself) then I finish her off.
Sometimes she wears it the entire time and we do some foreplay while she’s wearing it, etc.
Generally, when my wife pegs me, she wants to concentrate on giving me pleasure and if she wants to come we work on her orgasm afterwards.
We use a bullet or pebble vibrator inside her harness briefs while I take the dildo in my mouth and give her a ‘blow job’ till she comes. In the past we have used the same toys and technique to make her come while pegging me but she finds it distracting.
I love pegging my husband as it’s a power rush for me - I dress up and walk around with a massive dildo attached - it’s a power thing - and I love ordering him to get into position so I can enter
We do use naughty blue language- I find this fun too
I had already spoken to him before making this post, exactly what I wrote here, he said that there is no problem with it being like that, for when we want to include pegging.
In fact, we have tried it since then and it was great!
For me, just doing pegging would drive me crazy considering my libido is through the roof. Pegging him is a giant turn-on, I need him first!
Do you guys use these toys for her before and after? I think my husband also likes it when I give him orders, I’m going to explore that more.
My harness has a little pouch for a bullet but it crushes against me every time I get close, after 10 seconds of that, I decided that it belonged inside the dildo for him and nothing else.
But even if it didn’t hurt me, I don’t know if I could handle it and properly pleasure my husband simultaneously, to be honest!
Like @batjamboree said slowly try a little power play with it. You may not feel comfortable seeing yourself wearing it now.
Seeing my wife confidently wearing it and giving me orders to please her is so hot When she does this she admits it makes her pussy tingle like the “bad bitch” she is!
I bought him one and a few more toys 15 days ago, but my package is stuck at customs in my country (and I don’t know what else to do to unblock the situation!)
He’s birthday in 5 days and it was one of his birthday gifts , I am sad about it.
Mines long & Pink , also with a vibe for my pleasure
I love it when my OH gets ontop and rides me which also teases my clit, and the view gets me so wet
We would use this as foreplay, edging ourselves and finishing for a good fuck
We usually save our pegging session for the end or a separate one. I always make sure she is fully satisfied first and that usually plays right into her role reversal.
She does like a little bullet for her but like you said it’s hard to get it just right. It does encourage her to really grab hold and keep thrusting!
@Dearcouple48 - nice to hear you got a good partner there - it’s so good to have an accommodating partner who enjoys the pleasure it gives for a woman to be in charge (you know what I mean)
Personally I get turned on just wearing it and touching it
When she does this she admits it makes her pussy tingle like the “bad bitch” she is!
