Humbler

How many own or use a humbler? We have one and although things are quiet on the sex front at the moment I love when I’m in it and the tug from the restrictions it provides.

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Never heard of it

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I’ve never tried one. But it’s been on my list for a while as our BDSM collection increases.

I can definitely relate to the tug sensation though as I wear a 2.7 pound ball stretcher daily from (I suspect), the same place you got your humbler.

If it is indeed the same place. I can attest to the quality of almost all their items from firsthand purchase experience.

So I expect the humbler to be as much of an amazing item as the rest of their items are.

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On the odd occasion, Sexterminatrix will order me into one. Mine has the ankle cuffs as well, which adds to the feeling of restraint, though she does prefer me naked and caged mostly. :slight_smile:

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I have one which I have to wear occasionally.

It’s a bugger to get into but once it’s on it does exactly what she needs it to do. I am unable to walk or kneel upright.

Ours is a cheap one end the edges were quite sharp but I’ve sorted it out.

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I have no idea what this is, sorry.

It’s a wooden contraption that clamps around the testicles and sits behind the thighs. Once it’s on you cannot stand up, you can only kneel. If you move to stand up it pulls on your scrotum.

I have a homemade one, which I fashioned out of dowling. It’s a cheap alternative that does the same job.

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I built one in my early twenties…

After some time you get used to it and can stand without too much pain. By then the excitement from using the toy is gone though :frowning:

Seriously it does what…. You men…

It’s a device that enforces submission and I wear it on my wife’s orders so it’s not just a man thing.

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There are legitimate medical benefits to stretching that anatomical area though. Proven. (If done over long periods of time with consistency).

Permanent growth increase due to stress at the cellular level.

Think about a body builders bone density and strength to support the extra weight as they are forcing their muscle to adapt to more weight as an example. The bone has to adapt as well to support that extra muscle mass. It always results in increased bone density.

Yay. Bone and muscle aren’t the same as skin, ligamental tissue and spermatic tubing. Right?

They aren’t. But. They respond the exact same way to stress at the cellular level with regard to growth. Cellular stress causes cellular division and replication.

Increase in sperm production. Seminal fluid. Libido. And the tugging sensation is something that is a psychological perk. You can’t not be reminded of that area when a weight is hanging there.

It’s stimulating.

The humbler is a more BDSM related version of that. And no. I cannot imagine being able to stand like that. That’s a level of stretch I don’t think I would ever want to attain. Lol.

2.7 lbs on a daily basis (never being removed), I would say is enough for me. But I’m about to have to size (and weight up) due to what previously fit fine, not quite fitting anymore.

There are some “nut jobs,” tongue in cheek pun intended, that have been doing this for a period of decades.

With pictures. Of over 7.1 pounds hanging on the go to site for these products.

It’s interesting as a concept at the very least. As well as extreme.

I always think of the family guy episode. With Peters father in law in the bathroom asking the bathroom attendant. “Where are the nets that keep your nuts from falling in the water?!” :wink:

I am a man and now I know what it is and what it does it sounds as nice as a knitting needle in the eye. I won’t be trying either. But each to their own. @batjamboree

Describe more about what a humbler is? I’m envisioning a tight sleeping bag lol :joy:

It’s basically a clamp. Usually boarded to a heavy weight/bracket. Or bolted directly into the floor.

One clamp sits “under,” your knees and testicles.

The other sits, “under your knees,” But…”over your testicles.”

Meaning you can’t stand up without serious pain. It’s a BDSM “torture” device used to “humble” men and keep them on their knees, more or less.

This is a rudimentary explanation. But I hope it gave you some clarity as to what the humbler looks like and how it functions.

There are many variations from what I’ve seen. And depending on the level of Dominatrix/Dominant for those non heterosexually inclined…well. There is no limit to creative implementation other than creativity. :wink:

For the purpose of clarity, I’ve never used nor seen one in person. But I’ve stumbled across them many times while looking into ball stretching weights/read a lot about them.

Someone with actual usage experience may be able to correct my explanation better. If you are that person while reading this, please feel free to correct any mistaken understandings I have of it.

Ive seen these devices, but they always look a bit dangerous to me . I imagine if you were to fall , when trying to walk , the consequences could be extreme .

I think you should emphasize “trying to walk,” as they make it virtually impossible to get off your knees, from the ones I’ve seen anyway. I’m sure there are a lot of different varieties I haven’t seen though.

On what surface you’re mounted on your knees though, I agree, the danger is real.

I’ve seen some extreme BDSM fetishists who have them on hanging mounts upside down or on walls depending on how the Dom wants the “Humbled,” to suffer.

The wall trick is good for abdominal strength or back strength depending on orientation though I guess.

Until it’s not. :joy:

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In an emergency if you turn them sideways they slip between your legs and end up in front so they take all the tension off. Theyre not really dangerous. As with many BDSM toys the danger is perceived rather than real.

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That’s a good point.

However. I don’t think that applies to those bolted to walls/mounts like some of the more extreme ones I’ve seen in videos.

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Fantasy of mine. Maybe something in the future. I love the humiliation aspect.

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What is it