I've been on a diet since Feb this year and I've now lost 4stone I'm so chuffed with myself and starting to feel sexy again!
That's a great achievement Kr33 what's your secret !
Thank u JoJoXxX Just pure will power!
I determined to get a body stocking and look and feel sexy!
Good for you :-) now that's a good thing to aim ! I couldn't wear one of those Atm x
That's great Justthe2ofus! I have never been able to use my hands/fingers, it just squicks me, but I would like to and intend to work on it. If your husband enjoyed helping or even just watching it could be a possible middle ground solution rather than having to abstain.
My achievement is I'm now up to comfortably taking a 5.5 circumference anally, don't know that I want to go much bigger but it's feels great to take something worthwhile/realistically (perhaps generously) sized.
Justthe2ofus, I can't even deal with clit stimulation manually beyond a couple of rubs 🤣.
I often use a vibrating love egg whilst using a dildo anally and that usually has a very good result!
Glad things are a little better, sounds like a compromise can be worked on so neither of you have to feel denied or pressured.
Congratulations. 🙂 I'm genuinely pleased for you as I know you've been finding it tough. Here's hoping that this will take some of the strain off. 🥂Justthe2ofus2007 wrote:
Ok so this probably isn’t massive to you guys, but to me, it’s huge and I’m super happy,
So I’m new to solo play, I’ve never played with myself with fingers, ever. My hubby usually covers that 😂 so we’ve abstained from any sexual activity for 3 days! Jesus it was hard, but last night I asked hubby to show me how he does it. He showed me what to do and just lead kissing me and watching me as I finally managed to reach orgasm! It was amazing, finally letting down my barriers and just doing it!
Well done to everyone on your achievements this week! Sounds like plenty of new experiences are just around the corner for most.
I managed multiple orgasms last night using the Lovehoney wand and my partners hand technique, truly felt knocked out after.
I was including you in that too, not just your husband. 🙂 I think it'll be a great relief to finally be able to touch yourself and not feel guilty or self-conscious about it. Here's to many happy times to come. 🙂
Now we just need to find you a quiet bedtime toy before your husband starts having a recurring dream where he's stuck in a room with a trapped fly. 🙂
Aww well done everyone give me a much needed boost reading these xx
Congrats justthe2ofus!! 🙌🏻 Sounds like your doing an amazing job ☺️
We tried bondage for the first time over the weekend.
I have wanted to try it for a long time but my partner has always been a bit prudish and has dismissed it several times. But to my surprise we got the chance to give it a go and she loved it.
We have made it a part of our sex lives for sure.
Justthe2ofus2007 wrote: So 24 weeks ago today I started my weight
loss journey. Today I got my 3 stone. I’m really happy 💪 Many
congratulations Justthe2ofus2007.
I sunbathed nude in our garden for the first time today, in places
where hopefully we aren’t overlooked, started off in a bikini then took
the top off and eventually bottoms off as well. I then got braver and
put some washing on the line, thinking I could be a bit of an
exhibitionist Hee hee. The hubby will be most upset he missed it but
there’s always tomorrow, only problem is if he’s with me we won’t be in
the garden long we’ll be inside having lots of lovely sex, can’t wait
Justthe2ofus2007 wrote: Thank you s&m sexy times. You are very
welcome, take care and I hope you & your hubby enjoy the rest of the weekend.
I too achieved this with my hubby last night .weve had a few attempts
before but wasn’t really happening . Since then I’ve been practicing
with my fingers and toys and really enjoying it . Made me want the real
thing so much more . And wow is all I can say . Never had an orgasm
liked that before , can’t want to do it again and anally and vaginally
together .
This weekend we tried pegging properly for the first time. It was
exactly how I wanted to be, goofing around and testing things out.
Didn’t expect it to get go the whole way but we did and in the morning
too. No fuss, no build up just a mutual, “wanna try it out?” and then
away we go! We both had fun and the harness briefs were much better
than the harness which was an instant mood killer the first time!
Thanks to the forums here I knew to try different positions and it made
a difference, not so much in the stimulation but visually for my wife.
Next time we’ll try the bigger size. The beginners one was ok for
testing it all out but it didn’t hit the spot.
Being fucked with a dildo or strap on has been a fantasy of mine for a
few years now. A couple of months ago I eventually achieved both and
loved it and would love to try it again with a willing partner., Sadly
that relationship now over and it’s not something that’s easy to bring
up when looking for a new partner!
Hi everyone, a bit different to the rest of you guys. But I started
flirting with a man (online) for the first time. And I don’t feel bad
about it!! Actually feel really happy about it. Well done LittleMugs
keep it up!!!!
I remember the first time I tried anal very similar to what you’ve said I seriously wouldn’t even think of it for ages then my OH wanted to try it so badly when we first got together it took about 6 months but we got there and now I love it! Now I have a selection of anal sex toys and have anal with him almost every time things get .. you get my drift lol. I haven’t really done much new today although I have finally started my Christmas shopping (early I know but it gets expensive!!!) and also decided to sort a few health issues I’ve been having- nothing too serious more annoyances but still I’ve decided enough is enough which is a big step for me because I hate going to the doctors