Is it just me? But whenever a guy fingers me i never enjoy it, there no pleasure what so ever, and its not any better when i go solo =/
my lady is the same, she doesn't get a lot from it no matter what we do!
i dont like it if i do it but i love it when my bf does it.
Patience and lube!!
Plus a little alcohol is you fancy. Its taken me the best part of 20 years to enjoy it - so theres time for you yet!
Just had to say this before i went, i love to be fingered, i think there is no bigger turn on than a man slipping his fingers into your hot, wet pussy.
Then eventually getting four fingers right in, makes me cum like crazy and OH loves it too
but each to their own x
Yeh i guess its different for everyone.
It turns me on, but more the intimacy factor to be honest, no pleasure what so ever. I am hoping sex leaves a different result haha.
Pretty Blonde, you really should email me, i think i could help :)
my email is ***EDITED BY MOD***x x x
Hey each to their own so don't worry! I kinda like it but not as much as oral. Just suggest something else u enjoy more to the bf if it's an issue. Some things we come round to in time (red wine and olives!!) others we never like
Imelda..Wow...I've just started eating olives and drinking red instead of white!
Ha ha think we've all been there. I certainly was, used to hate em!
PrettyBlonde, I'm sure your fella thinks he's doing a stirling job, he can only go on the feedback you give him. You could try 20 mins or so with him just experimenting with different stuff, if it doesn't work- hey ho, you haven't lost much but you could gain a lot.
Even if you don't get that much from the act its self , if it turns your fella on so he's extra horny for you, is it not worth thinking of England so you get a bit extra later!?
Don't worry about it, even if you never do it again, not everone HAS to like everything, I'm sure he has a few of his own
Ah thanks Mucky Duck, I will try that. I feel horrible bringing up that i dont actully get any pleasure from it! lol....it will mean i have been faking pleasure for a while :S But im sure he wont mind experimenting haha
Thanks
~Don't mention it PrettyBlonde, most of us men feel that way about kissing as you do about fingering!
Speak for yourself Mucky, I have never found kisses that hard to put up with!
Walrus? what you doing online at such an hour? x x x x x
Just woke up after 7 hours sleep Morbidia, odd I know
So does that mean you can keep me company? ^_^
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sxe_couple21 wrote:
Imelda..Wow...I've just started eating olives and drinking red instead of white!
mmm i love olives x
PrettyBlonde wrote:
Is it just me? But whenever a guy fingers me i never enjoy it, there no pleasure what so ever, and its not any better when i go solo =/
its the bit about going solo that i found interesting.. could be more to do with whats happaning in your head than at your clit... you just need time to find out what you enjoy, being relaxed and content in who you are helps, if your tense and thinking you should be enjoying it you probably won't! have a look at some porn see what get's you off, see what you like the look of it.. maybe you just haven't found your 'thing' yet!!!.. also my husband and i have found that with age what gets us off changes! and we get braver and more kinky! think of it as a journey and have fun on the way...
Yeah, I agree with mama. There's that saying/general idea that you wont know what you want people to do to you unless you know what you like doing yourself. Try to really relax, get yourself mentally turned on, then just see what feels good..