ideal amount of girth

when discussing penis size length is always mentioned with numbers in mind. (my husband is 8 inches etc)

At the same time a lot of women say girth more important than length.

what exactly would an ideal girth be??

Erhm, would be round 5.5 in circumference. Rather not over 6 inches. I am afraid that would be too much for me to take. I could probably take more, with practise, and warming up, but could be bit uncomfortable for me.

But this can vary between women. Some like lot of girth. If you look at some toys...

I think girth preference varies much more than it does for length. With length, if it's too long you just don't penetrate fully whereas with girth it can add considerable discomfort if it's too large. Though most women should be able to accommodate most girths with lubrication and sufficient warm up there can be cases where particular girths are too large for penetration full stop. It is that way for me because I have nerve damage that causes pain upon pressure - larger girth = more pressure = more pain. In terms of toys I can handle nothing more than 4inches though my partner is considerably larger than that and I could cope up until this last year when it has kind of fallen off the radar a little.

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I require a penis to be precisely 3.98 inches in girth. I keep a tape measure with me at all times to ensure that this is met.

I have just measured my with string and then marked it, the uses my caliper gauge and came to 5.3inch? and about the same in lenght too when hard! I would say thats small!

I prefer girth to length. It makes me feel more 'full'

alwayssingle:( wrote:

I have just measured my with string and then marked it, the uses my caliper gauge and came to 5.3inch? and about the same in lenght too when hard! I would say thats small!

About average. Average girth is about 5inches and length just under 6 inches!

There are more men below 6 inches long than there are above.

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alwayssingle:( wrote:

I have just measured my with string and then marked it, the uses my caliper gauge and came to 5.3inch? and about the same in lenght too when hard! I would say thats small!

average is just over 4.5 inches so u above that

Always single@ your above average babes so don't you worry there ok xxx

Plus it's not the size that matters its how you use it, I can honestly say the worst sexual experience I EVER had was with a guy who was about 9 inches he just rammed it in thinking his size would make him a god, it didn't. He didn't listen to a word I said and ignored my pleas when I said it hurt. I punched him in the face and walked out lol

Learning to respect your partners needs and " read " her body's signals is far far more important than size I promise you that xxx

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Always single@ your above average babes so don't you worry there ok xxx

Plus it's not the size that matters its how you use it, I can honestly say the worst sexual experience I EVER had was with a guy who was about 9 inches he just rammed it in thinking his size would make him a god, it didn't. He didn't listen to a word I said and ignored my pleas when I said it hurt. I punched him in the face and walked out lol

Learning to respect your partners needs and " read " her body's signals is far far more important than size I promise you that xxx

love the punch

Hehehe I actually broke his nose im not proud of it but when a girl says stop a guy should stop he didn't. I later found out he raped his ex girlfriend so I feel justified in my actions my parents were also very proud of me for fighting back in that situation lol x

aww Hellkat! I fully endorse your actions!! as with anyone if they ask to stop, you should stop! or its rape!

I surpose 9inch would hurt! I hope for the day a girl would shorten that down by 2inch when give bj to him and spit it back in his face!!

Awww thanks always single xxx

And for most women girth is far more important than length anyway so I would say with a girth of 5.3 you would be perfect x

thanx Hellket! if that girth is perfect I hoping my first time will be nice and the lady on the receiving end will enjoy! but I will wait not go looking for it!

Awwww AA never ever be sorry these things happen to girls ( and boys ) far more than most people realise but it's something that we don't talk about for many reasons but iv learned if you bottle it up it will haunt you for ever

I was also drugged and raped at 17 and my very first boyfriend beat me for months but I'm now greatful that these thing happened as I wouldn't be the person I am today if these things didn't happen

I have helped a lot of people male and female recover from traumas like these so I'm hugely greatful my experience has led me to help others xxx much love babes xxx

god thats so bad hun

Always single xxx you wait for the right girl darling many men and women rush into sex and always regret not waiting, you should be proud of yourself, you are an amazing guy and you will make a lucky lady very happy be true to yourself and never change your great just the way you are xxx hugs xxx

aww AA,hellkat! *hugs* there are some men with no respect! I hate women beaters! and rapists! If I could I have them on their knees and shot! I couldn't do that to someone!

I would do anything to keep my OH safe!

@ AA big hugs babes I'm always here if you need to talk darling xxx

@ always single one again your an amazing guy xxx

Back to the topic at hand

Big ones, small ones, thick ones, thin ones girls love them all 3 cheers to the willy woop woop ;-) xxx

looks like we have gone a little off topic but i agree, it shapes who you are when bad things happen and certain bad things that have happened to me have shaped who i am now so i would never make them have not happened if i could. a cobination of misenterpreted one night stands, messing around and relationships that didnt work out left me in a place where i couldnt be kissed without crying. it took a lot of patience before my partner could toch me or i could suck his Co*k without being remided of those bad experiences. those experiences however have made me truely value a stable, long term relationship and encouraged me to settle down.

bac on topic though, me and my partner had this descoution and we decided he was just the right size as he is just the right size to satisfy me vaginaly and analy. girth is amazing vaginaly but if you want to be able to enjoy anal aswell an avrage girth is best.

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