Enjoy going for a crafty play not bothered if oh catches me. She either joins in or leaves me to carry on
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I’ve caught the OH doing it when I got home early one day, so I finished him off. He has also caught me using a toy and just watched me finish myself. Definitely something hot about watching and being watched.
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Depends who caught me?
If partner i wouldnt stop if anyone else i would
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I would definitely finish. If it was a partner, I’d carry on for sure, if it was a stranger, I might even ask them to join in!
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Oh my last answer I was picturing being busted by a stranger. If it was my partner I would expect them to join me or enjoy the show.
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Old thread I know, but similar here w my SO…I have a high sex drive, hers much lower, so it’s kinda awkward. 
Same issue here, said to my hubby the other day ‘basically I am gagging for it all the time, so if you keen give me the wink otherwise you may find me playing with myself next to you.’ ‘So long as you don’t wake me play away’ he said…so expecting to get caught a fair bit!
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@steviefun , that’s ironically comical. I can really relate. We have been married for almost 20 years. I’ve hidden masturbation for most of that time (I won’t get into the various reasons). But within the last year I said screw it…started buying several masturbators and lubes. When I use a toy it needs to dry so I leave it on the bathroom counter to do so. She said she wouldn’t judge…and she hasn’t, at least not verbally, but it’s like the elephant in the room and gets ignored…not sure which is worse. But I’ve masturbated in the mornings with her sleeping along side of me. 
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24 years for us, but only a more recent increase in my drive… think LH are going to do quite well out of my hormones 
Also there have been plenty of times my hubby has thought he was having a silent play and I have been next to him turned on listening, but not interrupting. Mentioned this to him and he was so shocked to know I was awake 
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Me too. Especially as I like to meet the minimum shipping requirements to ship to Canada
…lol. I wouldn’t mind if she knew and pretended to be sleeping…but there is an element of ignoring what’s going on (negative), vs being an active voyeur (positive scenario)…regardless, active participation is always much more fun 
. Ah well, new toys and toy collections can be fun too. Nice chatting and finding someone with something in common.
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Depends on who I was caught by
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@Serpentwand …HAHA…Perhaps we r married to the same person - I feel ur frustration.
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Pretty much the same, my partner is always happy for me to do it but if she was in a good mood, she’d probably get hot and bothered needing to join in. 
One day OH went to visit her mother who only lives maybe 10 minutes away and would be gone for a few hours. Thought this would be a good time for some solo anal play. I had one of her suction cup dildos all the way up my ass when she walked in. I was so into it I didn’t hear the door open. She had forgot something grabbed it and walked out. I was so freaked I did not finish, cleaned everything up and waited for her to come home. That was about 15 years ago and it really changed our sex lives. We talked about it when she got home and now lots of mutual anal, pegging and kinky sex. We always had a very good sex life but this event opened up the communication that we were embarrassed to share and now the very good sex life we had is an excellent sex life.
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There is no such thing as ‘caught’ for us. We tell each other when we fancy a solo session. That way the other partner can help out, spectate or go about their own business as they wish.
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I would stop. Would be embarrassed about how the other person would see/feel about it.
When we were first married ( over 35 years ago ) , if she caught me “wasting” my cum she would not be happy . She loved sucking every last drop and swallowing . Now she has zero sexual drive and if she caught me would most likely ignore me . So , no I would not stop .
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My OH has caught me riding an 8” dildo up my ass, I stopped and he told me to carry on and then we had sex afterwords. I now kinda hope he catches me I kinda enjoyed him watching me.
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I have been caught more than once (I kinda enjoy masturbarting a lot). There were times when I stopped, but I guess most of the times I went on. Depends on the situation I guess.
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It depends who caught me and where I was at the time in the process