Yep, that is the reaction I would want. Sorry to hear that that is not what you might get. Hope you get the chance to talk about it
Thanks. Me too, but guess i do it when it’s quiet. I do it in shower now and then… but love to be caught doing it. Guess she’s respecting privacy ?
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Yep, I get that. It is quiet time activity but it is good to feel the OH would not disapprove.
@Wurger - Mrs W, would be good to hear a women’s perspective
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@CandB_Toy_Story thanks for chat. Am i right in thinking you can’t send personal messages ?
@user1767 I often talk about my masturbating to my OH when we make love, it turns her on to know what I have been up to, watching or thinking about whilst doing it
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Yep those are the Forum Rules
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@CandB_Toy_Story I love all the chat etc, but doesn’t turn her on. Love to masturbate in front of her
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I suppose we all have different things which turn us on and for your OH masturbation catching/chatting may not be it.
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@user1428 Plus the menopause thing doesn’t help. Have tried believe me, but she’s lost her appetite. Not being horrible, she’s admitted as much. I do have a higher sex drive
@CandB_Toy_Story thanks for chat/advice
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No problem at all. My wife has gone through the menopause and I probably have a higher sex drive too so I know where you are at. Chat if you can and hopefully things will pick up. Masturbation is great and an important part of my sex life, but sharing is important too and communication is key
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@CandB_Toy_Story Definitely, and thanks again. Masturbation sure is great
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It really is, and 
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If it was a partner, I would definitely finish. I’d carry on for sure, she would most definitely join in and help me finish me off, or she will climb on top or make it a mutual masturbation session.
If it was a stranger, I would most probably stop before they even realized I was masturbating. But it depends on the person, setting and ofcourse their reaction but still I would most probably stop. But at a swinger club I for sure ask them to join in!
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It would depend very much on who encountered me .
Masturbation isnt an open thing in my marriage. Dunno why for years i lied and said i dont masturbate. She refuses to believe it but i insist I dont. And its a bad lie. Very easy tell. She just rolls her eyes “ofcourse you dont’
So I’ve set a bad precedent. I dont know what would happen if she caught me.
The problem isn’t the masturbation itself, I masturbate only with porn and its the thought of what will i be watching when I get caught that bothers me.
My mood changes a lot and I watch some t girl stuff often. And being from a religious background I don’t know what my wife would think if she caught me watching that.
I dont think I have ever wanked by itself without porn.
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You should let him “catch” you on purpose. When he enters stare at. Him straight in the eyes and don’t say anything just go harder and faster till you cum.
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Welcome to the Forum @morrissette6857
As it would likely be in the shower perhaps it would be drop off the moment & stop but if it was in the bathroom assume it would be more in the open and caught red-handed. I like the idea of eye contact in the moment.
Would prefer for the OH to take over and finish the job with a BJ.
Would love to catch/watch OH with our massager and hopefully a more unbridled, enthusiastic handling to orgasm. Facial expressions most wanted to be seen..
Mutual masturbation is keenly wanted to be added but the shutters are up on that unfortunately.
Would like to wank more in front of/over the OH but that is now usually their job in tandem with the massager.
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Depends who it is. Definitely not if it was the OH
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