Me too @Oldman love ‘em.
No it’s not gay @Xdresser10
It’s just unfortunate that that’s the way some think…do what you do and don’t worry about a label. Most people cut them out so they’re not needed. Who needs to be labelled?
Just enjoy being YOU.
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ultimately you draw your own personal opinion on whats gay, or when you’d class someone as gay.
I, like others, enjoy anal play and a kinky bit of pegging from my mrs. Where do i draw the ‘line’? the fact that i know that i would never want a real mans penis entering me, not would want anything to do with another mans penis or even any part of a man, they just arnt for me. But that doesnt stop from how much i enjoy anal play with myself and with my partner.
@Xdresser10
Love to talk to you - big fan of yours and I agree big strap is better - I love wearing mine and it makes me feel so good walking around with this 8 inch dildo on 
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I’m sure it’s a magnificent sight to behold! The next time Sexterminatrix and I can set aside the day for me to be her sex slave, I may just suggest this to her, to enhance her feeling of dominance. 
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Serious respect to you and your partner- and a woman who dominates is a wonderful thing and no doubt you will feel the benefit too
Always happy to assist in any way I can - personally I suggest to take it slowly, dress in a comfortable but powerful outfit - don’t forget the boots and I always would say the man should dress up too - but in an opposite way - white / pink lingerie - soft and floaty- and don’t forget the 
tools …(strap on, paddles, crop, whip, lube , and vibrating toys)
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Many thanks, we committed to an equal partnership a long time ago, in all areas and it works for us. And oh, we have all that cool stuff already…! Her favourite outfit for me is the classic French Maid with high heels and breast inserts, the LH lace panties that open front and back (front so my chastity cage doesn’t rip the lace, and back for easy pegging access) and a wig on occasion to complete the look. She will usually content herself with a crop but has some awesome costumes and wet-look stuff to wear if she chooses. But the idea of her strutting around with her strap on is very arousing indeed.
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@Sexterminator - with pegging I dress up in a black wet look outfit - I have a load of Cotelli outfits and these are so comfy and look seriously sexy
I love him in an outfit with skirt - schoolgirl, maid or secretary- my fav is the secretary as it’s beautiful on him - white lingerie white blouse and pencil skirt (dark black wig) - love bending him over, lift his skirt and pull his knickers down - spank first then it’s penetrating time…
Always looking for new lingerie for him - currently looking for a white babydoll of chemise that is long enough to cover his bum
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I have developed a liking for pegging and plugs over the last couple of years. I also like wearing stockings etc sometimes during sex / foreplay. Never considered myself to be gay because of it. I only really started in an attempt to change the way we were having sex and add something a bit different and i think it has worked. I wouldnt go as far as full dress up (skirts and heels) etc. though.
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Ahh yes, wet look is the bomb, I love seeing her dressed in it! As for me, she recently bought me one of those long pencil skirts with the split down one side and some high heels, though I think for her visual pleasure I’ll have to get some sheer stockings to conceal my forest of leg hair! If she asked it of me, I’d probably shave it off, but she’s already demanded I keep the chest and limb hair (I keep the crotch and nipples hair free, though, and trim the armpit hair). The only thing that spoils the effect is the magnificent beard, but she forbids me from shaving that off, too haha!
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@Sexterminator
Love the skirt - and I’m trying to get my husband to wear open back knickers - but cannot find any decent ones in white as I do like the lingerie to match
The lingerie is a serious turn on for me and him and we both pay serious respect to getting it right - and i love to feel the material - nothing better than to run my hand over his firm bottom as he bends over the table in his white knickers with the suspender straps outside the knickers
As for hair - he is hair free thanks to shaving and cream - 
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I have asked myself that question too. I like to wank with other men and even suck a cock but in now way am I attracted to men. I just think men are easier and more open to sex and I enjoy the excitement.
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@Xdresser10
Its only gay if you’re gay
It’s bisexual if you’re bisexual
It’s straight if you’re straight, and so on
Everyone’s personal kinks and likes have nothing to do with sexuality even if you share it with someone sexually.
It would be a boring world if we all liked the same things. Just enjoy yourself and accept It’s just you.
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I like anal play, and often have a butt plug in place when my wife and I are having sex.
I’m not gay and do not find other men sexually attractive.
Kinks are not indicative of ‘gayness’. It’s way more complicated than that!
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I have seen similar topics come up over and over during the years I used to run adult websites and perhaps @AJSTAR can back me up on this. There are many “activities” that can be considered gay but they don’t mean you are gay. Being gay is not a bad thing BTW.
If you look at female breasts is it erotic? You are not gay.
Do you want to wake up in the morning and cuddle another male? No? You are not gay.
Do you want to feel balls and penis or give oral but don’t want to kiss passionately? You are not gay.
If you are in a pub, are you checking out the females or males? If females, you are not gay.
You mention cross dressing. This does not make you gay either. It makes you a straight guy with a kink. There are things I like to do with a same sex partner. I also like to occasionally wear knickers under my jeans. All that said, I still consider myself straight (with a few curves and open mind).
- Edited sentence
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I tested waters in college with a guy and I can agree suction cup dildo is great. Damn near sprayed everywhere
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That I just deep throated a huge dildo to the balls and slobbered all over it while I played with myself. 7in X 6in. Feels great going down
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Fun stuff but I don’t think that helps @Lord_Vetinari answer his question.
Most definitely! And on the flip side I know gay guys who find women attractive and love their breasts but don’t find them sexually attractive so defo something there
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Great point @AJSTAR but sooner or later we have to find a point we disagree on. I can’t always argue with the cat lady.
Question I have for you… in the straight swingers scene many (both female and male) claim to be bicurious. In some cases that simply means a guy wants to touch a penis or a female wants to touch breasts. It can often be more but the range varies greatly. Is the bi-curious term in the gay community a little more legitimate where someone is willing to hook up with either sex equally and spend the night?
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