Partners of forum members should take a few minutes to read the “Welcome to the Lovehoney Forum” page and the Forum Rules before making any judgements on what this place is about.
Partners should also be aware that, in the rare event that somebody comes on here and starts saying stuff that makes another member feel uncomfortable, anyone here can flag that content for attention by the mods - and we do. Some flagging options remove the offending message from view until it is dealt with.