@SteelA1 you a good for a woman’s ego 
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Yeap agree. Cheating in my mind.
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@The_Little_Ladybird well I try my best 
Only telling the truth though so you should have a little ego, it’s deserved
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A bit late to the party but another vote for ‘yes, it’s cheating’
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Definately! I lost my shit when i found out hubby had been talking to another women about issues we were having in our marraige. Like @Dirty-Wife says there are different forms of cheating and i classed that emotional cheating.
Many will think differently and thats fine but ot pissed me off.
When it comes to sexting I think everyone is in agreement that that is cheating unless your partner knows and is ok with that. Maybe sext with your partner. That way you get the turn on you get from it but and not risking your relationship.
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I with the cheating group sort hun it’s just not 
cricket
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Hun your young free and single so enjoy it and hope it works out you deserve some good luck and romance after the shit time you have had
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100%
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To me, that would definitely be cheating. If we weren’t exclusive, or only just dating then it wouldn’t be so bad, but once I am comitted I want my partner to be too.
Out of curiosity - would you class it as cheating if a partner was sexting someone else behind your back, or would you be fine with it?
I’d say 100 percent my hubby and I have been together for over 30 years. Even porn for me is upsetting if its not disclosed quite frankly. Thankfully its its not been an ongoing issue. Sexting with a person he knows I’d flip my lid on him
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Consensus is loud and clear.
100% cheating unless previously allowed/agreed or non monogamous relationship.
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Yes it’s cheating.
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I’m Definitely with the cheating group.
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I’m down for a lot of things, but I’d consider that cheating. And that’s one of my few limits
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They way I look at anything like this is if your OH was doing it how would you feel . I know Id consider it cheating.
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100%! I’d be furious to find my OH sexting someone else, and they’d feel the same if I was too.
There’s so many different types of cheating, and sometimes people see the ‘limits’ differently, but sexting’s definitely one on my no-go list.
And usually if you have to ask whether a specific action is cheating, then it’s already something that you know is morally wrong and/or inappropriate within your relationship 
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yes. your partner would feel totally deceived…but you knew the answer when you posted this didn’t you…
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Yes, if at least one person in the relationship sees it as such. I believe it is cheating if you have to lie to and deceive your partner to get something from another person you should be getting from that ‘in the lonely dark spouse’ you are ignoring.
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I second most people’s thoughts on the subject definitely not acceptable if your oh does not know or not consented to it but some people are in relationships where it would be allowed as long as they know about it
Been on the opposite end of this where apparently ‘it was just a bit of fun’ and ‘nothing would ever have happened’ etc. To me it is definitely a form of cheating