Jelqing

Sex Tips & Talk
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For those who don't know, jelqing is a technique used to enhance penis size and from my research online, seems to be the most effective and safest out there. It's basically an exercise similar to milking an udder that is used to stretch the penis, resulting in a permanent increase in length and girth.

I've recently ordered some Largo gel off Lovehoney (has 2 very good reviews) and decided to give this a go because basically I'm not happy with the length of my penis - just 5.5 inches when fully erect. From whatI've read, I should be doing about 30 minutes of these exercises every day and I can expect to see results within 3 months. To me, this seems an awful lot of work and the size increases reported are quite modest. Does anyone out there know of a more effective technique or do you have any experiences to share to do with Jelqing. Did it work for you? And did you need to do this much exercise? Did you use any creams? Any feedback would be much appreciated.

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Like your photos you posted wearing your pouch. Sorry cant help with your question. Hope to see you around.

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Sorry if this seems a derisory comment but isn't it another word for wanking?

On another note, my hubby started doing some pelvic floor exercises (a google search will bring up loads of them) , they can be done anytime anywhere. Both have us have noticed that his erections are a little longer and harder but it's the girth that seems to have benefited most.

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5.5 - 6 inches is the average penis size anyway, apparently.

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Mistress D wrote:

Like your photos you posted wearing your pouch. Sorry cant help with your question. Hope to see you around.

Thank you mistress, glad you like the pics!

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sharry wrote:

Sorry if this seems a derisory comment but isn't it another word for wanking?

On another note, my hubby started doing some pelvic floor exercises (a google search will bring up loads of them) , they can be done anytime anywhere. Both have us have noticed that his erections are a little longer and harder but it's the girth that seems to have benefited most.

No, it's not wanking. Apparently you shouldn't do these exercises when fully erect and the action is quite different - you just use your thumb and forefinger to grip the penis very firmly from the base and slowly slide along the shaft until you get to the head where you hold it. You then use your thumb and forefinger of your other hand to do the same thing, and then you keep alternating like this for 30 mins, all the while trying to stretch the penis as much as possible. The idea is to manually transfer (with application of pressure) blood into the end of the penis. Thanks for the advice on the pelvic floor exercises, although I never have problems with my erections (they're always very hard and I've never gone soft during sex or foreplay); it's more my overall size (when floppy and erect) that I'd like to improve. But if you think they've improved girth, it's got to be worth a go.

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Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

Um.. If its a technique to stretch the skin, then it will take time and dont ecxpect massive s results. I dont like the though t of stretching with permenant results though. Pplease be very carefull not to cause damage or tearing.

5.5 inches sounds fine to me. Despite what men believe, size really doesn't mean a lot to us women. And that issn't just szaid to make you feel better, its the truth! There are a few threads scattered on the forum to back this up too! So there is little need to worry about your penis xsize.

There are penis pumps which increase blood flow, and pills that can do the same thing that czan give a stronger, larger erection temporarily, but from what I've heard, they aren't great. If you have partner and she is making you feel inadequate, then you must talk to her about your feelings, ad if it's just that you want to please her, then I'm sure you can do fine with what you have, but there are penis extenders that you wear over your penis to add girth and or a bit extra length.

Of course, Avrielle you're right - 5.5 inches is about average and apparently size doesn't matter to women. But still, most men want a larger than average penis because of our stupid ego! And although most women say size doesn't matter, it's hard to believe when you see some girls talking excitedly about how big their new partner is. And I think because us men are very visual with regards to arousal, we automatically assume women are the same. And therefore we assume that having a big penis and large, round testicles would be desirable. Therefore, many men including myself, will always want the extra couple of inches that sets them apart from average Joe. We want to see the delight in a girl's eyes when she takes down our underwear and sees our impressive floppy willy hanging in front of her face.

The silly thing is my girlfriend is fantastic and has always told me that she's never had any complaints about my size. And she regularly tells me that she's having the best sex of her life with me which is amazing to hear. But still, for some reason my stupid ego wants to hear her say "Ooh John, you're so big, it's hurting me". Ridiculous, I know! But I am interested in these penis extenders. I'd like to see if they increase the pleasure for my girlfriend. And also, from the look of some of the designs, they'd introduce a new sensation for me which would be cool.

Either way, I'm still gonna give the exercises a go for a month or so just to see if it makes any difference. Don't worry, I won't do any damage down there! And I'll carry on using the cream too. The feedback reviews left on this site are very positive but then I've always heard creams never work. So maybe someone's playing dirty here and writing fake reviews? Surely Lovehoney wouldn't allow this?

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pinksex wrote:

5.5 - 6 inches is the average penis size anyway, apparently.

I know I'm technically average but it really doesn't look it. It's quite thin, and when floppy it looks like a little boy's willy! Especially considering I'm 6ft 3 with size 12 feet; I think girls normally expect me to be well endowed. I'm gonna carry on doing the exercises for now and see where I am in a couple of months. Anyway, what man wants to be "average"?

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John1986 wrote:

But still, for some reason my stupid ego wants to hear her say "Ooh John, you're so big, it's hurting me". Ridiculous, I know!

Are you actually saying that your insecurities matter more than her comfort?

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rose hip wrote:

John1986 wrote:

But still, for some reason my stupid ego wants to hear her say "Ooh John, you're so big, it's hurting me". Ridiculous, I know!

Are you actually saying that your insecurities matter more than her comfort?

Of course I don't want to actually hurt her. I didn't make my point very well. What I meant was that I and probably most other men like the idea that they are physically desirable because of their large penis and that their partner is relishing the thought of having her pussy completely filled with it. Of course, this shows a lack of understanding of female sexuality but we can only imagine what it's like of course!

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Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

I'm with rose hip n this one. You really don't want to hear your partner say she is hurting during sex. My man is about average too, but he can still hurt me when we have sex if I'm not fully ready. It's not a very nice experience when you have been torn inside and you are rushing to the bathroom because your bleeding!!

No, I wouldn't want any one to think that hurting during sex is a good thing.

I understand some womaen can talk to her friends about the size of peniseses, but I think they just read too much cosmopolotin. Men talk about their cokcs a lot, its man talk, do you believe those guys who talk about shagging a porn star in the pub toilets? Lol..

As for most women, we don't like huge penises. We like them to be comfortable and enjoyable! I remember when me and a friend were comparing notes on our partners once when we were both dating. We talked about sex a lot, and I was giving her notes on the great sex I was having, and when she told me about her sex life she claimed she was so jealous because her boyfriend was too big for her!

As fior flaccid penis size, well you should have nothing to worry about. My man can have a very large erection sometimex, and can o9ccasionally be as long as 7inches! But normally it is around 6ish. But when it is normal, it kinda dissapears inside him to an inch or sometimes less. Fun when I tease him to get him hard and watch/feel it grow! It's like one of those foam toys that expand in water!

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I don't want to make assumptions about you at all, but from what I've heard about men who activly try and make themselves bigger, they are never satisfied about what "Big" means, so even if you managed to increse yourself to seven inches, you'd want to go to eight, and then when you got to eight you'd want to go to nine.

From what i've heard, you can increase the size of your penis, at least temporarily, but it takes a long time and a lot of different methods and it might work for some and not others.

I know that I have wished my knob was bigger every now and then, but really, I get a lot of enjoyment out of it, and i've never had complaints, and even if I did I'd just consider that person to be insensitive and rude. Wanting a bigger knob, when you are in the average range already, isn't correcting a problem, it's more in your mind.

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Hi Avrielle,

Please see my comment to Rose about this pain issue - I didn't make my point very well here. But what you said about women talking to their friends about penis sizes is quite interesting - as men we tend to have a pretty poor understanding of female sexuality so in our minds we keep it simple - "well we like large boobs so I guess they must like big packages". And so the thought of a group of giggly girls discussing the szes of their lovers' penises is interesting to us. We like the idea of our girlfriend's saying "you should see my John down there - it's massive! Love the way it fills my pussy." It's not as erotic as "my John has a very comfortable penis. It's pretty small compared to my previous boyfriend's so doesn't cause any problems."

I know flaccid penis size really shouldn't matter as it's all about erect size when it comes to physically stimulating the lady. But again, as men we imagine women to be like us and get sexual thrill from the visual appearance of their lover as they stand naked in front of them. Therefore, I think most of us like the idea of our girl's face lighting up as she pulls our underwear down and sees a 6 inch thick floppy dick hanging in front of her face. Dunno about other men but I get turned on imagining the filthy thoughts going through her mind. Maybe she's thinking "Wow! Look at that! How big is it gonna be when I get him hard?" Of course, I know you'll tell me that this is not the way the female mind works and obviously you're right but there are girls out there who like well-endowed men. A couple of my female friends spring to mind. And it's these girls plus the media (magazines like cosmopolitan are the worst!) and of course porn that put significant doubt in our mind. We're left feeling confused and end up thinking "well if I had this 6 inch floppy then I wouldn't have to worry!" Surely you don't find many girls who don't like big willies, unless of course they're 12 inch monsters. And even then, surely they find that visually appealing?

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Honestly? I find Monet's waterlilies visually appealing, but I wouldn't want to shove it up my bum.

In porn, I sometimes find myself in the mood for seeing massive knobs, but it really is more of a mental stimulus. In my experience, an average cock is sooo much more fun for sex. Sure, some people like really big and some like smaller, but average is where it's at for me. Big ones may be great to look at and fun to play with, but for practicality sake they just turn into a hasstle.

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I'd also like to point out that "attractiveness" for cocks isn't all about size either. it's also about shape and proportion and colouration and all sorts of stuff. Plus, I find the more you like a person, the more you like their knob.

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If you're smaller you can make yourself temporarily bigger (using cock rings, sleeves whatever) or make her temporarily tighter (e.g. using the We-Vibe) - if you're larger then it's always something you have to be careful of, plan and be cautious of!

My partner is around average but I have problems so I'm very petite and difficulty. We can't have spontaneous sex (I have to do kegals before and we need lube so no outdoor sex plus positioning is crucial so against the wall is a no no), we can't have quickies as he has to gradually, slowly enter me and then once he's inside he has to hold still whilst I adjust. Sure some women find they can gradually acclimatise to a larger penis but it still requires work of stretching and manipulating the skin and muscles to get there. It's a lot less simple.

If you're on the small side you have the best of both worlds and it's easier to deep throat ;).

You can always add with sleeves and cock rings but you can't take away if you permanently change the size!

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Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

Oh, and 12inches of penis is not visually appealinb to me at all. I know there is a range of large dildo's on this site, and I honestly wouldn't know whzat to do with one! They wouldn''t fit at all! Who wantx a cock that can't be ussed? Don't get me wrong, I'm ssure there is a market for them, but there is also a market ofr anal toys and electro stimulation toys. Not everyone likes them.

My OH loves the feel of my lips on his pubic mound and balls - he wouldn't get that if he were any longer - he already hits my cervix!

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Pixieking wrote:

I don't want to make assumptions about you at all, but from what I've heard about men who activly try and make themselves bigger, they are never satisfied about what "Big" means, so even if you managed to increse yourself to seven inches, you'd want to go to eight, and then when you got to eight you'd want to go to nine.

From what i've heard, you can increase the size of your penis, at least temporarily, but it takes a long time and a lot of different methods and it might work for some and not others.

You're probably right. In my mind I'd like to be considered above average. Which to me is about 7 inches. But then if I ever got there, would that be enough? I dunno. It's the same with men who lift weights. Do they ever get to a size they're happy with/ And appraently, most girls hate muscles! There are definitely obvious comparisons!

I know that I have wished my knob was bigger every now and then, but really, I get a lot of enjoyment out of it, and i've never had complaints, and even if I did I'd just consider that person to be insensitive and rude. Wanting a bigger knob, when you are in the average range already, isn't correcting a problem, it's more in your mind.

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Take it from women, they do not generally like a large penis, when it is too big it hurts, I repeat hurts. No woman wants to feel pain during penetration.

My partner is about your size and I am completely happy with his size and do not feel like he should be bigger or anything.

It is men that worry about bigger penis' not women.

If a man was anymore than 7 or 7.5 I would not want to have sex or give him a blow job. When he is smaller then it is easier to go deeper during oral.

Women do not want men with big penis'

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Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

Actually, I'd be scared if I found six inches of flaccid penis in a mans underwear. And my face lights up whenever my man takes his underwear off anyway. Size isn't everything. I think I agrree with pixieking that you mentally feel unsatisfiesd with your appearance and I fear thzt you may find you want to keep fgoinb bigger even if you don't think so right noew.

I also don't think a lot of men like the idea of giant boobs either. My man always says he likes bigger boobs, but certainly not massive or fake. I think a lot of men think the same too. There are some size gluttons out there who do feel that bigger is better, but I feel the majority are happy with average Joe, Jane. or John if you will. x

I agree with PixieKing - see my earlier reply to his comment.

But I disagree with your comment about boobs. I think most men like girls with big boobs. However, you're definitely right with one aspect - no one really likes grotesquely oversized fake tits. But I think you'll find most men would love their girlfriend to have a well-shaped, firm pair of natural 34FF boobs. Someone back me up here!