Large penis, perspective

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This thread is not supposed to be about the typically asked questions like “does size matter?”, “what do women want?”, “how big is too big?”, “how small is too small?” or about single individual experiences. It is directed towards men who actually have a large penis and how they are coping with it in real life.

For the sake of this thread let’s define large as anything above 7"/18cm length and 5.75"/14.5cm circumference. These two values will put you in the 99% percentile (or top 1%) - at least according to calcsd.info.

The question is: if you had to summarize your sex-life and all your experiences with various partners (with women or other men), what would you say? What experiences, reactions and feedback have you received so far and what problems did you have to deal with? And, all in all, has it been a more positive or a more negative experience for you?

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Hey @timtim2x

Topics should be open to all memebers, regardless of gender. From our forum rules:

Keep topics open to everyone, without singling out a specific group of members. Topics directed to a limited number of forum members like “ladies, what do you think” are not allowed.

There are plenty of partners of people with larger penises that can help contribute to the conversation! :slight_smile:

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Hi, as the owner of a 8.5”/6.5” girth penis I would describe it as a mixed blessing….

I have found most girls really enjoy the feelings it can provide however I have had to watch depth with some partners, and it can hinder or completely remove some acts from the table… ie anal and oral can be hard for some girls.

Another factor can be that I found some girls would target me because of the size of my package (can be very visible while dressed) and that would be all they were after… it’s a bit depressing

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Are you genuinely curious or are you writing a blog/article/something else on the subject?

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Genuinely and personally interested in responses as there are usually tons of posts and comments out there about individual opinions and preferences, but rarely can you find honest and unbiased testimony to the actual pros and cons of having a larger penis (same is true for “smaller penis” I guess).

But now that you say it - maybe I should write an article :rofl:

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Slightly off topic, but how do people measure there length? Is there a particular way to do it?

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Absolutely, 8.5x6.5 is really massive, in this case we’re talking more like the top 0.01% and not the top 1% ;), so I can see that this can lead to all sorts of problems, at least with some women. My experience is that girth can be more of a problem than length.

What would you say what percentage of women would really have problems enjoying your size?

Oh c’mon! Depressing, really?? :rofl:

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What you are saying applies particularly to avoiding bruising the cervix.

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Not slept with a huge number of people as always preferred to be in a relationship, but out of 35-40 I’d say only 4-5 I needed to be cautious with (in the normal vaginal way at least).
Surprisingly (to me anyway) I found body size appears to have nothing to do with it, tiny ex had no issues at all (apart from mouth).

Anyway, make sure they are really turned on (shouldn’t need to be said), add extra lube if required and avoid rear entry/go shallower and everything works :+1:t3:

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I fall into this category with both length and girth and my experience tends to lean towards negative

Many women have complained it makes their jaw ache with the girth, so bjs never tend to be enthusiastic, not all women, but most.

Penetration, in certain positions, especially if the lady isn’t warmed up properly, can be painful or uncomfortable.

Even warmed up, deep penetration just simply isn’t enjoyable so I have to sacrifice my enjoyment, as how can I get pleasure seeing her in pain.

Anal, yet again, many women have said u ain’t putting that in there!
& those who do let me, I’m not allowed to go balls deep, as pain over rules pleasure.

So, all in all, apart from looking good in nudist areas etc
(once watched a woman’s face light up as I entered a jacuzzi, as her eyes were transfixed to my penis - get how women feel about guys staring at boobs!)

And meeting new partners and their faces when they smile that your not small, everything else tends to be slightly negative, but sex is still sex, and it doesn’t overly affect things

(nothing wrong with being small btw, and many women I’ve met don’t have a problem. My current missus ex was really small and she didn’t like it, but careful what u wish for, as now it’s gone totally the other way lol)

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Hubby has a big one. 7.5 inches long and 6.5 inch girth. I know he used to get lots of good comments!! He went out with a friend of mine before we got together and his nickname was “big willy name”!! I was definely interested to find out when we first got down and drty. It’s the biggest ive ever had, and defintely fills me uip. Honestly tho, i kinda wish it was a bit smaller!! Cant give head becus my jaw hurts, tired anal but its too much, and I have to be very wet or use lube for sex, so no quickies.

Most of these are okay with me really, but i know he would get more action if itwas abit smaller! we joke that his was a holiday willy not a daily driver!!

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Have you talked about your husbands previous experiences with other partners? It’s interesting that you already knew that he was big before you got together. Do you believe he maybe wanted you or other women to know beforehand - because it can actually be a “strategy” for a man with a large penis to find a compatible partner…

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Never thought of it being.a strategy, but I know partners used to talk about it with their friends and it got around…

Not a bad plan though as you can’t tell by physique, dated a really tall girl and had to be careful, dated a girl well-under 5 foot and I was shocked that first time, both vaginal and anal, I could go balls deep… could only get the head of my cock in her mouth though

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References to information from qualified health professionals may or may not be allowed here; but Michelle Kenway, a pelvic floor therapist, has a video on YouTube which fits this topic. The title of the video is:

Does SIZE Matter? AVERAGE Male Size and What Matters Most to Women

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In my opinion, no such thing as too big or too small. All penises are great penises if you know how to use them!

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Hey! Mrs here. Just wanted to share my experience! My boyfriend is packing 8 inches with a thick girth and an upward curve that always hits just right. I love seeing his dick print when he wears grey joggers or tight clothes, it turns me on so much that I will tease him just to get him hard and make it even more obvious. It’s the best in public as he does not care and I catch others looking.

Ive been with smaller sizes before, and while they still worked, I rarely came. With him, I come twice every time without fail. But I won’t lie his size definitely has its challenges. Quickies arent always easy because I need to be really wet or use lots of spit, and when it comes to anal, I have to be completely relaxed or it’s just too much. It can be painful, but at the same time, I love how completely full he makes me feel. I’m slowly working my way up to taking it all but it’s a slow process. I’m trying my best for my daddy :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

The last ‘issue’ is giving blowjobs and deepthroating. I have sort of trained my gag reflex to the point I don’t gag anymore and with previous partners I could take the whole thing which leads to some good deep throat fucking. Whereas with a bigger dick I can only get just over half. If I hang my head of the bed I can get a little bit more but it is a real struggle and I gag mega on it. I have almost threw up on it numerous times. I do love it rough but sometimes I wish I could take it all for him :disappointed_relieved: maybe one day!

I do think size matters to some extent, but there are so many ways to make things work ”whether its incorporating toys, deep fingering, or getting creative with head. Its all about finding what works for you and making the most of it!

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Thank you for all the great answers so far! I’m in the 8+ inches category myself and my experiences are very similar. Most women like it or can easily adapt to a larger size, but for some it can be too much. Girth can be more of a problem than length, because you have all sorts of options to vary the inserted length, but if a woman experiences vaginal pain because of the girth there isn’t much you can do. I had this once in a relationship and we switched to oral instead of vaginal sex but it wasn’t great. Blowjobs are also a real challenge for women because the space between the teeth is just limited and my partner would always get these cramps from opening here mouth so wide for an extended period of time.

Apart from these problems (and I would say it’s only a minority of women with whom there are real size-related problems, about 10% of women maybe) my experiences are mostly positive. One advantage is that many women love this feeling of being completely filled up and many women can easily reach vaginal orgasms just through penetration with a large penis. I’ve had a very long relationship (> 15 years) and she would come once or twice every time even without any additional stimulation, just from the feeling of my penis in here vagina.

Another thing besides the penetration part is the “optics and haptics” of a large penis, which also plays a role.

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He’s not shy about it lol. he definitely liked people knowing!

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Great conversation topic! Often considered taboo… I have a 7 inch penis when erect, I have never measured girth. I have found it is a good size and I love when my wife of seven years tells me how big it feels… it’s a real ego boost!

We got married when I was 37 so before my wife I was able to live an interesting and varied life up to that point, enjoying g numerous sexual encounters. Any time girl told me I had a handsome cock I can confirm it only made me more confident and harder as a result. So if you do encounter one you like the look of, be sure to tell the guy! :grin:

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