Let's create a guide to Threesomes! (Wiki)

Hey All!

It has been a little moment, so I thought it would be a good time to create another Lovehoney Forum guide! First we started with the The Lovehoney Forum’s Guide to Pegging! (Wiki), Then we covered Squirting in the The Lovehoney Forum’s Guide to Squirting! (Wiki). Now - let’s chat about Threesomes!


I will make this topic a Wiki, and I will edit this bit away once we’ve got it to a good place.

If you have any questions you would like to know the answer to, or questions you think may be helpful to future readers, pop them down below.

If you have helpful information, or answers to the questions, hit the ‘edit’ button on this post to contribute to the guide :slight_smile:

Hopefully this makes sense!

Happy Wiki-ing!

Information / Tips:

Communication is vital, you need to discuss everything in detail beforehand and set boundaries prior to any play.

Respect the third, they aren’t a piece of meat! Be sure to ask their preferences as they too will have boundaries and likes/ dislikes.

Never rush anything, be sure to have plenty of time to enjoy the event.

Fantasy can be entirely different from reality. Prepare for feelings of jealousy and how to work through these in the moment. This is natural and not always needed, be sure to reassure one and other.

Discuss safe words and use them if needed.

Clubs are great places, ideal for exploring open fun but each club has different expectations in terms of clothing and such-like. Read up on the club first and be sure you are comfortable with the protocols. Websites such as Fab are also another viable option but can take a lot longer to navigate.