Hey All!
I thought it could be fun for us to all come together and curate some guides using the Wiki feature.
We’ve all got some fantastic insight into different things and I think between all of us, we could create some super helpful guides.
I think we should start with some of the more frequent topics, so first up, let’s create a guide for Pegging!
I will make this topic a Wiki, and I will edit this bit away once we’ve got it to a good place.
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What is Pegging?
Pegging is when a person uses a strap-on, or strapless dildo to penetrate their partner anally.
Why do people Peg?
Pegging can be empowering for everyone involved, whether they’re the giver or receiver. The active giver isn’t necessarily the ‘top’ as the receiver is in a perfect position to control the depth and pace.
In Dom/Sub relationships or play, it allows the Sub to be dominated as well as recieving pleasure.
If the reciever has one, it increases sexual pleasure by stimulating their prostate (Otherwise referred to as the P-Spot) essentially the male G-Spot, and can result in a sometimes handsfree or usually a more intense orgasm for the receiver. For the giver the movement and friction can also be arousing.
Pegging can also be very sensual, so don’t worry if you don’t feel that the Dom/Sub dynamic fits your lifestyle. Anyone can get pleasure from Pegging, whether they’re the giver or the receiver.
It is also one of the most intimate actions between two people as the receiver is allowing the giver to put something inside their body. It is an act requiring trust and communication as the giver doesn’t have the same level of physical feedback.
What toys are good for Pegging?
A strap-on harness and either a dildo or a vibrator that fits it or a strapless strap-on that can be worn without a harness. There are lots of kits available to get you started.
For those put off by harnesses, there are harness briefs.
Lovehoney Strap-Ons and Harnesses
And don’t forget lube and to apply it frequently during play.
How do I talk to my partner about Pegging?
Your partner may be surprised at the idea or you may be worried that they’ll assume different things about you, but don’t be. Many people have the desire for anal play and the thought of a Pegging fantasy. Have a conversation outside of the bedroom. It may help if you have any materials or product images to show them what’s involved. Discuss the positives for both of you and the reasons you’d like to try it.
How do I get started with Pegging?
Slowly. This is something that needs time for the receiver to prepare mentally and physically before getting started.
If the receiver is not experienced in anal play it may help for them to practice on their own first using some beginner toys to get used to the sensation and to understand their limits. Everyone’s body is different and it takes time to learn what angles or level of pressure work best for stimulation.
Get yourselves a basic kit. Start small, go slow and gently, and allow the person being penetrated to control the depth and speed to start with. Some people like to warm up with fingers or wear a small toy like a butt plug beforehand. Don’t forget the lube!
If getting into pegging and trying for the first few times, good communication before, during and after are essential. As this may be somewhat overwhelming for a new receiver or giver.