Hey, really new to this and need ideas to get a better sex life x
Welcome to the community @MarriedSlut
That’s quite the vast question to answer on such limited information as you say you are a bi man in a relationship, I would say open conversation with your partner and they are likely to inspire your options.
Look forward to having more of a conversation with you as time allows.
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Hello @MarriedSlut and welcome to the forum .
As my good friend @JGood here says, if we know how you want to improve your sex life, maybe we can help you? Different things work for different people, help us understand more what works for you 
You could give us three words and maybe we can get a flavour for the task eg.
Notebook
Carrot
Slipper
What3words just got spicy 
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Welcome to the forum @MarriedSlut
As others have said, if you can provide some more information about the kind of thing you’re looking for, we’ll be able to help a lot more effectively 
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G’day, you could start by buying some items from LoveyHoney, that will work 
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Morning and welcome 
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Helloooooo
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Hi and welcome to the forum.
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Welcome the club @MarriedSlut
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my wife like if i lick her pussy,she likes to watch lesbians porno , she likes big dicks.im average. she likes if i spit on her pussy,she likes foreplay, she likes doggy style. what is the best timeline and things to do to her to make her cum
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Welcome to the forum too.
Welcome to the forum dude, tell us a little bit more about yourself so we can better help with ideas? 
I don’t really know, I think maybe I’m after too much. We have been married a while now and I think she might be bored. I was looking at toys to spice things up but I have done that before.
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Think I’m just a little bored x
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Then may I truly, wholeheartedly and sincerely suggest that you find some space and time to deeply talk to each other. I’m 21 years married I try to make each day like the first when it comes to trying to please the OH. It starts with a conversation what can I do to make you happy and go from there.
If there’s nothing you can do then you need to talk about solo play, if it’s spicing things up do it together not alone. If it’s role play talk it through but surprise each other. What’s stopping you from having time together? Are you needing a little free space to find a hobby or time with friends separately so you appreciate the time together. Look inwardly and be critical.
Don’t go into the conversation with an agenda
3aome - swinging -orgy,
that’s likely to be a wedge that will break what you have up.
Find a balance and fight for each other not fight each other. Here to talk if you need many of us here are happy to chat.
There’s also other topics you might find useful like this one. And all the best. 
Also don’t disregard mental or health reasons for not engaging or interacting with you on this hence the need to talk.
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For starters what helps if finding out your needs and your partners needs.
Learn to have the sorta akward “hey this is what I like to try” conversations. Listen to what they want to try.
There’s “will want won’t” lists online that can give you some inspiration, or just scroll on lovehoney’s catalogue of toys.
Go from there: explore, communicate, get curious, stay curious, find videos on youtube or whatever.
Hmm I’d just have a browse then on the site and see what tickles your fancy and then if I decided on a few things, post them here and see what others would recommend being the best 
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You might try a bullet vibrator. It is very compact, and the partner can use it to stimulate her clitoris by pulling back the clitoral hood and tracing around the clitoris with the bullet vibrator.