Who was it with? My boyfriend at the time, we'd been together about 2 years.
How did it happen? He'd been asking me for ages if we could and I'd said no because I thought we were too young and I didn't feel ready. Once we were both 15 I decided it was ok, although looking back I'm still not sure I was ready. We were at his house and we waited for his family to go out, kind of planned when it was going to happen.
Did you bleed? No
Did you enjoy it? Not really, it wasn't awful but nothing amazing. To be honest I can barely remember anything about it now.
Do you have any regrets? Like I said, I'm not sure I was ready, but I'm glad I was at least in the position to lose it to someone I really cared about at the time and who I was in a long relationship with (we were together over 5 years in total). Sometimes I think I regret it being him, but I think that's because the relationship ended badly a couple of years later.
How did it happen? We'd been building up to it for several weeks. We'd spoken about it beforehand and kind of agreed that I was ready. We didn't plan it as such, but we let it happen.
Did you bleed? Yes.
Did you enjoy it? Can't say that I did. It hurt so much I consider it a preview of childbirth. Luckily he didn't last as long as he does now. As it happened just as I was about to say we had to stop because it hurt too much, he came.
Do you have any regrets? It wasn't until afterwards that I thought that I'm not a virgin any more. It wouldn't have changed my decision or experience at all, but I just wished I had acknowledged it before it happened.
How did it happen? in my bed. Had been together for about a month, she was waiting by then. She was not a virgin. Had foreplay and oral before doing it.
Did you bleed? She didn't.
Did you enjoy it? Yes, very enjoyable, for all of about 3 seconds it lasted!
Do you have any regrets? No regrets, wanted to lose it by that time.
Who was it with? My first boyfriend (He was 15 too) we had been together 3 months, stayed together the next 3 years.
How did it happen? I dont actually remember the specific time and date :S we didn't use protection so there were a few times where he would put it in me and then I'd finish him off afterwards, looking back it was very stupid!
Did you bleed? No, may have something to do with being an avid horserider and doing gymnastics from a young age.
Did you enjoy it? I guess, I never felt truelly sexually satisfied until my third long term relationship and current partner.
Do you have any regrets? No, though I wouldnt recommend anyone doing it as young as 15, I'm quite an emotionally unconnected individual though so it didnt phase me.
How did it happen? being young and curious. waited for everyone to go out. snuck back to my house (live accross road to festival) stole a condom from the neighbours bedroom draw...
Did you bleed? No
Did you enjoy it? it satisfied the curiosity but i sort of wanted it to stop so i could know what it would feel like once i'd "lost it"
Do you have any regrets? Yes! i still sometimes feel bad for not being able to have given mine to my partner. i feel like i stole his.
i like to pretend it was my first time when i first had sex with my partner but unfortunately that doesnt make it true
How did it happen? We were in his bed and one thing led to another, I'd wanted to have sex earlier but he wanted me to be sure so made me wait a few months. He was very sweet after and ran me a candle lit bath.
Did you bleed? Yes.
Did you enjoy it? It hurt, but wasn't that bad, I've since had much better sex.
Do you have any regrets? Nope, there is no point having regrets.
How did it happen? We were in bed, we both wanted it to happen but I think she was apprehensive and a bit scared.
Did you bleed? She didn't bleed. Neither did I.
Did you enjoy it? Not especially. It was awfully mechanical. Felt like I was doing it TO her rather than WITH her.
Do you have any regrets? Not really, I think losing one's virginity is massivley over-valued in society. It's just a bit of thrusting right. The proper sex comes from the mind.
I think it's interesting how few people actually bled the first time they had sex. I don't know why but I think a lot of people expect to bleed/be in a lot of pain due to the way society/the media show it! x
