Love

Welcome to this thread: tell me… what do love about yourself?

It is always easy to think about what we dont like, to skip this topic, avoid answering the question… however… it is always important to think about why we are incredible!

So, I’ll ask again- what do you love about yourself?

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That is such a great question @Natalie which is very difficult to answer. I would answer my outlook on life rather than any physical attributes.

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Awesome question I would like too add. I have been told my personality is the best thing about me. Also apparently I give good advice :man_facepalming:t3: either way I’d go with my ears ! :rofl:what’s your @Natalie

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While it can be a hindrance I’m a deep-thinker, and always consider how others feel.

In intimacy terms it means I’ve always tried to give a lot, and sex is more about the other person’s experience.

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I’m pretty good at thinking about questions that encourage others! I hope others find that I am kind, inclusive, encouraging and maybe, just maybe, a little cute or attractive?

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I love nothing about me . I despise myself. I hate looking in the mirror, because I hate myself so much .
Im really not a nice person.

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@Weeradge

No…please don’t hate yourself…
Talk to someone…life is way way too short…

:hugs::hugs::hugs:

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Bah! Everyone has at least some good stuff going on.

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@Weeradge, thank you for sharing encouraging words to others! You have a great heart!

@be3169 and @CurvyJilly, you’re both amazing! What do you love about yourself?

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Hey @Weeradge please don’t feel like that about yourself. We all have self doubt and question our looks, personalities, self confidence etc. I’m sure you have plenty of good qualities. We are all different and are special and valued as human beings.
There’s plenty of people here who feel the same as you to varying degrees, and there’s always someone here if you need to talk.

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Im ok , honest. I enjoy life , and want to live as long as I can. I just don’t rate myself :sweat_smile:

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Im fine , i promise

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Omg yes!!! I live in doubts all the time. Which is all the more reason to focus on something positive about ourselves.

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I like my hair and my height…
Also my ability to talk to strangers and make them feel comfortable and welcome in new environments…

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Thanks for making me feel comfortable! Your hair sounds amazing! :kissing_heart: @CurvyJilly How would you describe your hairstyle?

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I gave up caring what people thought about me years ago.
I’m me. I try to be good, kind, helpful etc, and I love sex. And if you don’t like that, then it genuinely doesn’t bother me any more. That’s what I love about myself.

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Oh wow. I will have to think about that for a couple days @Natalie . I need to separate what I am proud of versus what I like about myself.

:kissing_heart::heart:

I’ve never liked the way look, but that’s starting to change. There’s still some days that I think my god how disgusting.
But he’s taught me how to start loving my myself, and not to give a crap about what other people opinions are, because they’re not important.
So I’m slowly but surely starting to love myself. I’ll get there though.

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I’m on such a similar journey! I find it so hard to think of positive parts of myself. I think many people have so much self doubt but I’m hoping, at least, we can prompt, even just for a moment, the value of shifting our attention towards self love and not self doubt. At least, that’s the hope and prayer.

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