I am looking to buy my first male sex toy but don’t know which one to get.
My penis is around 7.5 inches and fairly wide girth.
I am not fussed about a mechanical or manual.
One of the tengo ones allows for 6.5 insertion. Do these work if you cannot fully enter it or do I need to look for something of a similar size to me?
The flashlights look good but don’t know which one to go for. My wife pointed out the Janice Griffith one - does anyone has any experience of this fleshlight or fleshlights in general?
What would you recommend in the automatic or mechanical male sex toys?
Interestingly my favourite is the shorter Fleshlight Quickshot. I find it easier to hold and use and this is also important if my wife is using it on me.
I find the stimulation it provides ideal for edging or for a quick orgasm as needed.
It is also excellent value.
Obviously these things are very much down to personal taste but the Quickshot is a good place to start. I like it so much that I splashed out on the Quickshot Launch motorised mount too and that combination is relentless.
I used the ‘renewing powder’ (cornflour) once and it was so messy that I never used it again. I just wash the insert in warm water and leave it to dry.
The insert in the Quickshot is small enough to turn inside out which makes it even easier to wash and dry.
My partner is about the same size as you and he has these two and really enjoys them both. I’ve also done reviews on both products.
He has also got a tenga egg which hasn’t been used yet so il update on that later. He does prefer though the vibrator as it’s less messing about cleaning.
The flashlight realistic modles are a lot of fun and stimulating as they have been moulded from the person who fleshlight it is. Which does add to the pleasure of the toy alongside the textures. A favourite from the fleshlight range is the blow job one
As for cleaning I find they wash easy enough in the shower and leave them to dry overnight before adding the renewal powder the following day to help maintain the quality of masturbator.
Before deciding on a purchase I do recommend checking out the Thrust range of masturbators from Lovehoney.
I’d maybe try looking for something of a similar size as might find it to be too tight on the girth but then I’ve not had much experience with strokers or penis masturbators other than a fleshlight which for a first time I’d highly recommend
Possibly a manual toy will have a nicer desired effect as part of the pleasure is created by using your hands to stroke
The Tenga Flip toys are in a different league in my opinion. I personally really prefer these to the Fleshlight.
The Flip Zero is my all time favourite sleeve. The depth of 6.5” isn’t really a problem in spite of my having around 7” to fit inside. The toy feels amazing and should last a really long time if it’s taken care of properly, and the sides expand to handle all the girth, with pressure pads to vary the sensation.
And it’s also a much easier toy to clean and air-dry than the Fleshlight.
Here’s a link to another recent chat on sleeve toys. There’s others around too if you search for Tenga Flip, Sleeves, Masturbators.
Fleshlights are great; have heard good thinks about Quickshot too. The hot Octopuss Jett is very good in terms of value and results if you want something hands free
but then I’ve not had much experience with strokers or penis masturbators other than a fleshlight which for a first time I’d highly recommend 
but for £10 our curiosity is now cured lol