My wife and I masturbate regularly in front of each other, some times with toys and fantasies,it’s great, just do it!!!
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I masturbate a LOT, but it took ages for me to do it in front of my wife. Before i started, a couple of times i asked her if it was OK before i brought a toy to bed, or gave her a heads up beforehand that i was planning to bring a toy to bed later. I think she appreciated the heads up, and it helped her get used to it. Now after about a year of it, she’s totally chill about it 
and i masturbate next to her in bed almost every night.
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Sexterminatrix likes to watch me use my quickshot launch, but one day it ran out of charge so rather than mess around with charge cables I finished myself off by hand for her instead. She enjoyed it so much, we do a 50-50 hand or machine depending on her mood at the time. Although unintentional for me at the time, perhaps you could create a similar scenario to introduce your self play to her?
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Discuss it and take ownership that it’s a desire you’d like to explore to take any pressure off her that she may feel and depending on her thought process allow her to come back to you when she’s ready should she need too
I masturbate when alone or whenever I get an opportunity without really telling the wife it’s not really a secret but just don’t usually tell her although she knows I do it , but if I’m horny in bed and she isn’t in the mood she just tells me to wank myself off to which I obviously oblige , a lot of the time this turns her on so much we either end up having sex or I’ll wank her off to orgasm and then I’ll finish myself off , ends up being a win win for both of us , love to cum all over her boobs 
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So @Mr.Smith have you a conversation with your wife ?
When we first got together and it was that time of the month, she got me to masturbate all the way - I came on belly. Honestly, it was a hot turn on.
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I quite often have a wank in front of her, she’ll either rub my balls or she’ll join in and give herself a rub.
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For me, we were being playful in bed, then I pulled out my cock and starred to rub it in front of her. I teased her that I might shoot my load hehe, then after a while, with her still watching in amazement, I started to cum. She was in awe at how much shot out. I did my bow and said next time it’ll be in you lol
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My wife likes watching me use the Quickshot Launch too.
In fact she probably likes watching a little too much as she forbids me to come till she’s had enough. By this time my whole body is shaking and I’m practically begging her.
The resulting orgasm is usually spectacular though.
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My wife loves watching me masturbating in front of her … She gets so excited she starts masturbating herself. She enjoys when i release my hot juices all over her
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Well @Mr.Smith have you broached the question yet ?
@Mr.Smith we used to do mutual masturbation in front of a full length mirror a few years ago that was amazing fun and sometimes we’d just wank ourselves
These days I sometimes take a while to cum and if she’s wankin me her arm aches so finish myself off as she watches I love that too
Also in between foreplay and penetrating her I sometimes touch myself as she watches
Try introducing something like this into your routine
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Samantha loves me to wank over her while she watches. Sometimes she masturbates too.
She loves to catch my cum in her mouth.
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Do you watch porn together? One of our films is me masturbating while she sits behind me and strokes my balls. Maybe try watching that together as a hint? 
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My wife and I masturbate regularly in front of each other
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Masturbating in front of each other is our usual lovemaking nowadays. Our ages and issues of dryness bars piv as it used to be.
That said, mutual masturbation, toys and lots of lube results in the best sex we’ve ever had over 50 years 
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@Mercyun id regularly masturbate in front of my wife during the early stages of her menopause as she was really dry so we rarely had full penetration sex
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We do a lot, we would masturbate next to each other in bed, o love seeing her touching herself, although she needs a cock in her hand or her mouth any time she starts touching herself. Separately, I am more open minded than her and sometimes masturbate alone but she would normally joins. She seems more reluctant to masturbate in front of me if she is the one only in the mood, even if I insist I love seeing her. I have caught her sometime though running to take the satisfyer when I have stepped into the shower…
This morning she started me off with the wand on my penis and nipples then left me alone to finish myself off but she came back in time to see me come.
She does like watching me come.
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