I have been asking this question in many forums for a long time, but I have not found a completely satisfactory answer.
Why do most young men tend to like mature women and find them attractive and sexy and very fuckable?
For me, mature women turn me on like crazy, especially the mothers I see in public carrying their kids, and the married women with wedding rings on their hands.
Please share your opinion and what you think about this.
Most younger guys like mature women because we have experience and can show you things you would never even think about. It also comes from the fact that all men still have a tendency to seek an older womanās approval. Donāt get me wrong I am 55 and I like my younger guys just not too young
@Nymph1969 first of all thank you for your comment.
Iām agree with you, but when I look at a mature women faces I find they have hot features and sex facial expressions, to the point that I am surprised by my behavior
And when I have a younger man looking at me I find myself reacting in ways I didnāt think I would but to be honest it makes me feel good that a younger more viral man with longer stamina wants to have sex with me and if I am being totally honest I would like it too because I have an incredibly high sex drive
I grew up with older sisterās and there friends were always around our place, even first boobs I saw were a sisterās friends, so I was always comfortable with older women.
My first serious gf was 12 years older than me and even now in my 50s I find women in their 60s sexy.
For me itās a throwback to my teenage years
Iād fantasise over the neighbour who wasnāt especially sexy in any way but she mustāve been about 20 years older than me
Iād fantasise about popping round to her house with an errand and getting greeted by her at the door in a basque fishnet stockings and panties
Maybe this was the start of my lingerie wearing fascination
For me it kinda goes with the school girl type of fantasy which is obviously a little taboo but I love seeing women in stockings and suspenders and a short skirt blouse and tie
As far as matures go I loved buying the top shelf magazines in the 80ās featuring mature readers wives
Also MILF and mature porn is often a go to things like Aunt Judyās where again the mature ladies will typically be wearing stockings and suspenders and sexy lingerie and the scenario is seduction of a younger guy
I think itās a lot about kinda feeling looked after but also a little bit of naughty coercion into something taboo
My other favourite mature porn genre is sauna lesbian matures some really good stuff out there
Thanks for your comment, you are a good talker. I would like to contact you privately
@user83 I often think that about people on here
Itās kinda exciting tho knowing that you can reveal your inner thoughts and feelings and not ever know anything much about the people reading them
@chuckychester35
Yeah itās kinda hot
I wouldnāt say I strictly have a thing for it but Iām used to playing in kink scenes where the best and most experienced people are always your kink elders and as a guy in his 20ās Iām here for a good time and if the most experienced and down to earth people are older then so be it.
Hey @user83
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I have never analysed why younger men like mature women, but it seems they do⦠and its fantastic for us mature women ⦠xx
Iām 36, married for almost 12 years, also non-monogamous and a āMommyā Dom/switch. From my own experience, a lot of it comes from wanting to feel nurtured and cared for; thereās a lot of pressure on men to be protectors and providers. Some men want to feel protected and provided for, too, including sexually.
@Tenshadesandme
Best comment. Thank you
Hi mrs w, i feel as a male when I was younger it was the thought of learning and knowing they had more experience and willing to try more so to speak
I think thereās an assumption weāre experienced and can āteach them a thing or two!ā
Most of us mature ladies have learnt to love our bodies in every way so are both confident and know what we want in bed. And confidence is attractive in everyone.
I donāt know that I have much more to add to the āwhyā of it other than whatās been covered here: confidence, experience, knowing what they want.
My recent experience has been a little bizarre - my wife has just turned 40 two weeks ago, while Iām 39 until May. And something switched for me that Iām very into the idea of being with a 40-something woman now, even though weāre the same age. But itās been a very sexy transition for me.
Anyway - my wife is a MILF, a Mommy, and a Married Woman so I enjoy ticking all those boxes being with her. Pregnancy sex was especially hot, and I adored her breasts when she was nursing (before and after, too, but as a natural 36DD they went even bigger when the milk came in and I was in heaven, at least until they were off-limts).
Older women have always looked sexier to me, when I was in my teens 27-40 year olds just looked incredible, just knowing theyāve got more experience, know what they want etc was and still is a massive turn on. Shame I never managed to get with an older lady at the time .
Late to the discussion , but I have an unvalidated idea . I think it may be ingrained into DNA to breed . Especially when you see a woman with a baby or children . DNA checklist in a sub file " She had bred successfully , would like to procreate " . Of course all the other reasons above are probably correct . I also wonder if mothers emit a pheromone that draws in stiff cocks ?