Men having wet dreams

I had no idea I was actually experiencing orgasms when this used to happen in my formative years. Still happens now from time to time, sometimes I remember the dreams preceding sometimes I don’t. Usually all over by the time I actually wake up enough to register ‘oh just orgasmed again’.

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Happens to me fairly regularly, maybe once or twice a month normally, and I’m in my 50’s, nothing to be embarrassed about, totally natural.

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I had one last night, not had a wet dream in ages maybe a year or two. Can remember the dream very well lol getting a blow job and shooting my load in her mouth and could literally feel the tugging at my cock then I woke up shooting my load in my boxers lol. Was abit embarrassed in front of the wife lol but then laughed it off. I can only put it down to not having a lot of sex at the moment due to the wife’s bad back. So dreaming of it instead lol

I’m 38 and have them occasionally too, also had them and woke up to the OH playing with me which is amazing like a dream cum true. However it’s not so great when you have them at the sleep clinic…

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Lol yeah at the clinic would be a bit awkward lol but wish my oh would wake me up by playing with me lol

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If i go to bed or sleep before her it’s a nice suprise to wake up to a muffled buzzing sound next to me too!

I was still having wet dreams well in to my 40’s, always surprised me when I had one that I was still having them! Think it coincided with our sex life being on full kink and depravity! It’s what I always thought about and I knew I was dreaming about what we was or was going to do. I’m now 47 and haven’t had a wet dream for a year or more and that might have something to do with our sexlife tailing of thanks to mother nature doing her worst to the OH if you get my meaning!!

My boyfriend gets them quite regularly at the moment, I’d say a couple of times a month. They started a few months after starting some medication for anxiety and him also noticing some differences in ability to get an erection and his urge to masturbate reducing a lot. He discussed it with the doctor who advised that the side effects are somewhat normal and the wet dreams are likely from not masturbating but are nothing to worry about.

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I’m 37 and still get them. Excites the OH what I’m dreaming about, sometimes I can remember. Feel it’s totally normal, have never felt embarrassed about it.

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Still never a wet dream , but years ago my wife and I would wake up going at it like rabbits . Both would swear the other had to have started it . It wasn’t usually just some petting , she was riding me or I her . Darn , I miss those days !

Still have them from time to time nothing wrong with it, normally accompanied with a hit dream. :wink:

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I find if I’ve not had sex or masturbated for a long time then I am more likely to get wet dreams

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I would love for my husband to get a wet dream but I don’t think he can go long enough without having a wank for this to happen :smile:

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36 and still get them usually after not cumming for a few days but quite often wake up in the middle of a night just before the orgasm lol never let it go to waste though :joy: nothing to be embarassed about at all

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I definitely find them sexy and a big turn on even having to wash his boxers that he has cum in!

I’ve talked to him about it and he says sometimes he doesn’t feel it all and other times he feels like he is ejaculating just as he wakes up but feels like he hasn’t orgasmed and is still very aroused. He was most bothered by actually ejaculating and cumming but I’ve reassured him this is quite normal and he seems to not be as worried now.

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I was wondering about this with my boyfriend as we have not been able to see each other as much due to the lockdowns. He said they happen now and again randomly but he is really likely to get one if he doesn’t orgasm for a week or so. I think he wanks most days so he doesn’t get them that much.

I’ve recently experienced a couple of my dreams I haven’t had them for a long time my partners was quite sympathetic but I was quite embarrassed as I had made a mess of the bedsheets

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In my early years I had plenty, but not so much now, still wake up occasionally with a rock hard penis, but there does not appear to be any associated wetness…

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I’ve had them years ago but recently nothing more than an orgasm in a dream with no dampness. :smile_cat:

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I didn’t think or know anything about this until I was staying with my boyfriend a while ago and he had one. I thought I had heard him making some noise in the night but not enough to really wake up. In the morning I asked him about it and he had definitely had cum in his pants and said they he felt like he had orgasmed, he just didn’t know when.

I asked him some more about this and he said that he does get them and has for a while since his teens. He says he normally he wakes up in the morning with a hardon anyway but once a month or so has he actually had an orgasm and cum in his sleep. He doesn’t know anything about this until he wakes up in a morning and finds a wet patch, fortunately he wears underwear to bed so there is not to much mess to clean up!

He’s not sure why or when he will get a wet dream but he said it does seem to be affected by how often he masturbates and how often he watches porn, which makes some sense.

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