I’ve only had two that I can remember. One was not that long ago in my 40s at the end of a very hot dream involving my wife. She loved the fact that she “caused” it.
Certainly nothing to feel awkward about. So you end up with wet sticky pants or underwear, so what? That’s part of the fun.
My guess is the vast majority of wives and partners would have a positive reaction to a man having a wet dream.
This does sound like my husband, I never knew he would still be able to get one until about a few years ago. He’s mid 30’s now and just stopped wanking really in a short space of time. I think he just got used to doing it, almost daily in 20’s, so there was no chance of a wet dream, but with almost no wanking, once he gets close to 2 weeks then he needs a release.
I love when he has a wet dream and he says that it is very pleasant if he wakes up just after it. He says he really feels his balls are empty after a wet dream orgasm.
Wet dreams are quite natural in men, I used to have them a lot when I was younger, and into my 20-30’s when I was first married, and not getting much sex. The last one I can remember was about. 20 years ago when I met my current wife and we were very active sexually. She was away on a trip with a friend, and I just woke up one morning with a big puddle of cum on my leg. Must I’ve been a really hot dream. These days, in my mid 70’s, I often wake up with excruciating boners. At least the equipment is still functioning. I do not ejaculate any more however, due to prostate procedure.
That’s a hot dream for sure. I very rarely dream of sexual encounters. I get a lot of crazy dreams, some really bizarre stuff. Thankfully I do not always remember them. I would absolutely love to wake up after an erotic dream with a load of cum on myself.
As a follow up, I’ve asked my husband and he says he does have very frequent sexual dreams anyway but most of them don’t result in a wet dream.
Generally he wears cycling short type underwear for bed which is quite fortunate if he gets a wet dream it is not as messy as it could be. As I do the washing, and have seen when he has had one, I can see that he either cums in a big puddle if his cock is pointed upwards or it shoots down the top of leg if it is pointed downwards!
I had them in puberty and then they stopped. Then, when I turned 27 years old, they began again. My then wife, my 1st wife, was not happy with me about them.
I had them frequently from 27 to my early 40’s. I’m just about 60 years old now and they’ve slowed down since my early 40’s but I’ll still have one like once a month or so.
Back from 27 to my early 40’s I didn’t have several each week, but there were many weeks I did have several in a week.
This next thing didn’t happen often, but it happened. There were times I had two different wet dreams in the same night.
Im 64 and have never had one, perhaps that’s why everyone calls me a wanker.
Joking aside, I’ve had the dream and the feelings but always woke up before actually cumming, I’ve probably experienced it most of my life, last time was probably a couple of years ago.
I’ve had 2 in my life, and later in my life 2. They were 2 of the best orgasms I’ve ever had. Woke up all hot and bother and panting. My second is mentioned further up this thread, when I dreamt I was getting a blowjob and when I came in my dream, I came for real. It was a proper strong orgasm and cumshot
Like @Scottishfunk I’ve only ever had one (and same dream too - getting a BJ)…would love to have more as I remembered the dream vividly and the feeling of being woken up to cumming in my boxers was unreal!! Miss not having them more often
I’d say I’d need to show restraint in either solo play or sex in general for there to be any kind of likelihood of it happening though….that in itself would be tough