@CheekyDad
Men’s sexy underwear is a great turn on and I recommend more see through mesh type over a pouch with a zip - I have experience as my husband about 10 years ago bought the zip type and in the heat of passion I unzipped him and caught the zip in his penis skin - instantly killed the fun and took about 10 minutes to get him free - as you can imagine that was the end of fun
I too have personal painful experience of accidents with zips and the skin of my frenulum. I would not, in any way, recommend any underwear incorporating a zip.
My personal choice of LHM underwear (given Mrs H’s reaction), would be either:
So, let me share two stories with you here, and then I think (I hope) I’ll kind of answer your question.
The first is about my neighbour, he’s both deeply insecure and incredibly arrogant: A few days ago he was talking to me about dressing sexy for his “girlfriend” (yes, I’m still certain that she isn’t real because she still hasn’t been round yet) and I openly said “fair enough, it wouldn’t do anything for me personally”, and he was certain that it would. Honey, believe me when I tell you this, if I say a guy can go overkill, he can go overkill. No man wants to be laughed out of the bedroom, I’m quite sure!
Now, on the flipside, my husband bought some funny cotton boxers for our wedding night that simply read “sex god” on the thigh - it’s an inside joke and a reference to an ancedote he once read from my diary. It was so unexpected and it completely caught me off gaurd, but I fell for him over again in that moment. To boot, I think his normal Fenchurch everyday boxers are far sexier on him than something wet look would be, but then, he knows I don’t find strippers attractive!
Ultimately, you know your OH, we don’t. Do you think she would like them, or would she find it cheesy and cliche? If I’m going to hand on heart here, then a smartly dressed gentleman with a good cologne is simply unforgettable to many women, and underwear wouldn’t really matter.
Interesting opinions on this. I’m male and in a heterosexual relationship with my wife.
I personally love buying male lingerie, it really helps to get me in the mood and feel sexy. What does my OH think? She says she likes them and they’re ‘naughty’ but deep down I suspect she wouldn’t be demanding I wore them if I wasn’t wearing them. However, I think she knows it makes me feel more sexy and turned on so is happy to indulge me in them
Exactly the same for me. I know Mrs GFA feels very sexy when she dresses up (and I just happen to love it too ) and I know she wants me to feel the same sense of arousal and confidence that I get when wearing sexy underwear because we’ve discussed if. I suspect that despite never asking me specifically to dress this way, she’s come to really enjoy my tight PVC boxers under my suit or under my trousers when we are in a high end restaurant as she knows the thrill of being dressed “as nobody would expect” is part of the pleasure for me.
I have a bit of a dilemma. I ordered some black lace suspenders belt type piece with an inbuilt thong.
Took me about five minutes earlier trying to work out how to get into it but once I did and saw myself in the mirror i absolutely loved it.
The piece is aimed at men but it does feminine so im not sure how my OH would react to that so I might leave that to for a bit until I build up the courage
have fun!
) and I know she wants me to feel the same sense of arousal and confidence that I get when wearing sexy underwear because we’ve discussed if. I suspect that despite never asking me specifically to dress this way, she’s come to really enjoy my tight PVC boxers under my suit or under my trousers when we are in a high end restaurant as she knows the thrill of being dressed “as nobody would expect” is part of the pleasure for me.