My Darcy arrives Wednesday so I’ll let you know how I get on with it…
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Ive tried several fleshlights and other sleeve type masturbaters and so want to be blown away but have to admit a much prefer the more hands on method.
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We use a Thrust Ella. I guess you could say it’s no different to my OH using her dildo?
We use in in couple play, mutual masturbation etc. we’ve found it can bring another element to bedroom play and fun.
It’s got to be something you’re both comfortable with. But as said over a long distance relationship it may help?
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From a male perspective…if he is less than 7", then get a smaller size. The standard brand fleshlight is 10" outer dimension…the fleshlight GO is only 8"…I much prefer the smaller unit as I’m average size. The GO torque was my first toy…it is clear also. Granted there are other makes as well.
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I bought my husband one as a valentines present, I have loads of toys and he didnt have anything so I loved getting it for him! We like lots of foreplay so it works for us, and he has also finished whilst using it together. He doesn’t solo play, but it wouldnt bother me at all if he did…xxxx
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Kirroo have something similar that can be remote controlled if you’re into that kind of thing so your partner can be involved. I think lovense do too but theirs is a different design
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I’ve got a blowmotion open ended warming and vibrating masturbator. Is very good I can squeeze it for the right pressure and angles and it’s very easy quick to clean and air out.
I’ve also got a blowmotion vibrating and suction masturbator and it’s amazing and fully drains me and some positions and angles I use it in feel awesome. A little bit more fiddly to clean and air out but well worth it to increase my stamina and make my solo sessions better which my wife doesn’t mind at all.
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@Fire_Ice1 How does it help younincrease your stamina? Is it because it drains you before hand or your generally able to last longer. Reason I ask is Im looking for ways to build my stamina.
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Hi @MrDark - I use it for edging / stamina training. I try to get a nice long solo session out of it not a quick empty.
With my wife if I haven’t cumed for a while I don’t have a top level of stamina and sometimes a bit too much oral from her or her on top for one or two too many rides then I sometimes cum when not massively wanting to.
Having a few good long solo sessions a week if for example I’ve used the masturbator the day before we have sex then I have much better stamina possibly both physically and mentally.
With using the toys and vibration and suction etc can get to the very close point then take myself out of it do something else then use it again for a few more minutes and repeat and helps build my stamina.
Especially using the toy that vibrated and sucks as that really hits the spot!
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Thank you for the detailed reply. Interesting reading.
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I have also treated myself to the Darcy Thrust cup.
My aim was for more fun when the wife uses the greedy girl.
I get a little envious that she gets a toy, and I use my hand.
There has always been a taboo about mens toys but dildos and rabbits are seen as every day items for women.
I must say, it was better than I thought but still a long way of the toe curling orgasms she has.
A plus point for the Darcy is how easy it is to clean compared to how I thought.
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I just received my first test toy, the ROMP, and I was blown away, it did not disappoint. I used a basic sleeve before that wasn’t bad and I have an expensive Fleshlight model that did nothing for me and sits in the closet. But this ROMP was awesome! Thank you @Lovehoney_Brenna for letting this be my first test. Now I’m looking forward to something for the misses, since she enjoyed using it on me!
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I love watching them in use, I think it’s so sexy. If you are concerned about feeling left out, have you considered some of the app controlled ones? I think lovense and We-Vibe make some
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I’d find it quite hot if my husband used one, id actually prob get off on watching him use it, either in the same room or peeking through a crack in the door… Off to have a look on Love Honey for one now haha… Could be his valentines day gift
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This is old discussion that has been well explored. The only point I can add is getting a hands free version of using a Fleshlight is is a game changer. By removing your hands the brain disconnects leaving only the penis for pleasurable feedback. Fleshlight sells pillows and shower suction cup thingies but I find a basic carpentry quick clamp on an appriately height surface way easier. It is the only sex toy I can not control my vocales with at all. Cleaning is easy. Just run some warm water through it. If you are really into it, turn it inside out. Is one better than another? Don’t know. I own two and like them equally.
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My wife, as a parting gift to me before she took a job in another town, had a custom Fleshlight made of her pussy. Every time I fuck it, it feels like I’m fucking her.
So, yes, she knows and is perfectly OK with it.
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We blew the budget and bought the Fleshlight Quickshot Launch, the motorised mount for the Quickshot.
The combination is amazing and is one of my wife’s favourite spectator sports. It’s absolutely relentless in its action and my wife, who controls my orgasms, loves to watch me fight not to come until she gives me permission.
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Oh really! I didn’t know about that option. “Hey Google!”…
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LH sell the ‘Universal’ version at the moment.
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