Don’t need man titties to have fun with it. Fun and helpful two different issues. Easy…measure the chest below the nipples, then measure straight across. Take the size difference and look up cup size. Put your dimensions, like 42A, into google and away you go. A “belly bra” would be more helpful to be honest. C’mon! Hold me up and pack me in. A typical bra is just for entertainment on a guy.
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@be3169 and @spanking_for_fun
My husband is into hardcore spanking and pain and it’s difficult to do this as a loving wife - as in the past I spanked him until his bum went red - but now I always get him to wear full back knickers as I then cannot see the severity of spanking and I find this easier for me
I understand men like being dominated and I’m happy to do whatever my man wants and as time goes on I find it a turn on for me spanking him and using the cane on him - I also spank his cock (not punch his balls) and piss on him when he wants
As long as you are safe then it’s all good
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Weird
Just be careful with that. A cane is the most intense for spanking type play and with full back knickers you can not see what condition the skin is in. A cane can produce huge welts and also break the skin.
No, not really. Explore a little more rather than judge others. There is a lot to be said about sharing ideas and experiences even if something isn’t your thing.
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spanking_for_funAppreciate the honest reply albeit we are now way off topic.
Hey @spanking_for_fun it’s a real pity that your OH might enjoy dominating you but is frightened of hurting you:
Quote from your post:
My wife is keen to do this to me but she is scared of hurting me - but I want to be in pain (to a degree) and I’m teaching her that I’m into brutality and it’s what I want and deserve.
This isn’t my thing (yet
) but I did read an online book recently that might be of help to you both? It certainly helped me with my issue of wanting to wear women’s underwear and understanding the many different kinks that can be enjoyed:
http://brassiered.com/main.html
It’s written by a female dominatrix and author of many books on this subject and seemed to have some good advice about getting the man in their life into women’s underwear and what to do with him once in lingerie etc
I suggest it to you both to read as it might help your OH understand how to go about exploring dominatrix with you in a safe environment 
Good luck 
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Bookmarked. Love the reference Mid-50s_kiwi. Thank you. Always looking for new info.
Hey @batjamboree @Pogo69 I haven’t tried out wearing a bra so not sure if it would be my thing? However I’ve just taken a look at the recommended plunge bra via the link and would definitely try out the red bra & knicker set if I could as I simply love red for underwear.
In fact this reminds me that my OH use to have some red lingerie sets 
I wonder if she still has them hmmm maybe she has 
An update of my findings and bra wearing experience: Men wearing bras - #42 by Mid-50s_kiwi
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If you are going to try a bra be sure to get the correct cup size. I can attest that it feels funny and kind of pointless to have a big baggie bra cup and it doesn’t give you the same feel that you are likely after. Also a different feel between lace and satin.
Measure under the boobs, then straight across the boobs. Take the difference and go look up cup size.
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@be3169
I appreciate your comment but i always keep him safe and only spank with safety in mind
I use a few paddles when spanking and don’t use the cane much as you are correct and I do check his bottom from time to time
During a heavy spank I get him to put on his wet look knickers during play - these allow him to continue the spanking but the material is quite thick compared to nylon but also gives a really good sound when spanked and he loves this 
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Haha! A belly bra aye? 
You know what you’re doing and its great that you’ve worked out how to spank safely
It might help other people think a bit more about action and reaction, and how to change things up if the reaction isn’t what you hoped for.
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@spanking_for_fun
I appreciate your honesty but still would suggest you speak to your wife as it’s not easy to carry out spanking and humiliation to the one you love - however you can learn to realise it’s for your pleasure and not done in anger
I would be happy if she wanted to communicate with me via this site using your name - I can assure her she can become your own personal merciless dominatrix and no doubt save you money
All things you pay for are things I do to my husband (including making him drink my piss) and humiliation and we then return to a normal husband and wife after 
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All good with experience and research. I just didn’t want someone reading a message board and get carried away without knowing what they are doing. Pretty much all kinks are a learning curve which message boards like this help us all learn more.
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An update to my comment above.
My OH does still have her red lingerie set and I have posted pics in the lingerie photo upload forum https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/lingerie-photo-uploads/257652 
The red knicks were amazing to wear partly because I know my OH has worn these in the past, and wearing the red bra was super sexy but still not sure it’s my thing but I can now understand the attraction of why you might want to 
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Hey @Pogo69 so nice to hear that you are getting so much pleasure from being able to wear your new bra. Pleased be assured that you (or anyone else) doesn’t look ridiculous in their choice of clothing, including bra wearing!! Wear what you want and be body confident and proud 
It was seeing these images of the red bra & knicks in the LH store via the link in @Pogo69 first post (Lovehoney Flirty Underwired Plunge Bra Red - Lovehoney UK)
that prompted me to try on the matching red bra & knickers set of my OH’s whilst she was out hence my additional post above and my photo uploads yesterday.
BTW do you also wear matching knickers with your bra? or is it just a bra solo? Just curious after my solitary experience
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Hey gorgeous lady’s I’ve gotta say when a crossdress I’ve always wear a bra with my 38d false boobs
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The ‘chicken fillets’ aka stick on, soft, strapless bra’s are a great choice!
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Pogo69 I think you are correct that for most males, wearing a bra is for the “naughtiness” aspect but sissification, humiliation, and submissiveness can play a part for others. I can, however, mention one so called “function”. I have a pair of rechargeable battery powered nipple toys about the size of a small lemon that are supposed to duplicate the feeling of having your nipples licked. They are held in place by suction but I find that air very slowing leaks into them and eventually they fall off given their weight and my chest hair during winter months. A perfectly sized bra fixed this issue and firmly holds them in place until I decide I am done. Wrapping cling wrap around my chest worked but wasn’t nearly the same experience and a bit of a pain. How’s that for different? LOL
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I wear bra’s a lot, I just love the feel of the tug of the straps. My only rule is that they must have knickers to match!
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