@batjamboree Love it. These catalogues have made a huge impression on our lives in one way or another…
Do you think you developed your love of beautiful lingerie and your acceptance of males wearing lingerie during this stage of life?
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I have always bought good lingerie from an early age as it made me feel good
I never had an issue with my husband wearing lingerie as it made him feel good too
The fact it’s taboo is irrelevant to me - enjoy it
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I would love it if my OH just threw me a pair of her knickers or lingerie and said put this on 
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@Ghill1 Me too 
, but not going to happen so I’ll make do with my own knickers, bra, tights etc in secret for now…
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The only trouble is finding the time when to wear it, because I got to do on the sneak because she aint keen.
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Its a lot easier if you come clean and open up to your partner.
My wife is fully involved in my crossdressing and even buys me lingerie for presents.
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I love wearing panties. I wear thongs and tangs of all kinds. I used to wear my wife’s panties all the time. I used to buy extra for me. I still wear all the time now. She liked it at first, then she turned.
I have a few women and men who share this fetish with me.
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I love just wearing silk knickers and lingerie, anything that keeps things tucked in really. My OH was throwing her silk bodysuit out and thought mmmmm ill keep that. But never thought about wearing suspenders and stockings to be honest, wouldn’t mind trying it if the OH would let me.
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Oh yesss. Nice ay
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I was wondering how you got on with OH.
Shame she hasn’t accepted it fully.
She knows you wear tho I guess?
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@rockstar Yes I’m again on this journey talking to my OH about my journey into wearing lingerie and showing her I’m a better, happy person and I want her with me on this journey. Yesterday I sent her an article I found online about this very subject which I’m hoping she will read in the next day or so.
She just can’t get over her feelings that it’s not a good thing as she had a very strict Catholic school upbringing, one that she most definately does not live by these days (abusive religious teachers etc) so I can’t understand why she still has these moral beliefs and her lack of support for me. I’m hoping that one day very soon she openly accepts this part of me, but of course I do respect her position
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@Ghill1 Luckily my OH goes out a lot with her sister plus I’m talking to her about the many positives of my lingerie wearing and there’s no harm in it, a very gradual process so we’ll so where this journey goes…
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Fingers crossed. I’ll have to mention it again see where it goes.
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@batjamboree Thanks for the advice. Do you have any recommendations from the LH range?
I’m really looking forward to trying out this style of lingerie sometime in the near future
You may considerhttps://www.lovehoney.co.uk/lingerie/stockings-hosiery/suspender-belts-garters/p/lovehoney-fierce-wet-look-suspender-belt/a41172g75052.html
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Thanks for the recommendation @batjamboree 
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It’s been comforting to read this topic and as a very recent newbie I wanted to share my own story. My long term fwb has always put a lot of effort into her lingerie and at the start of the year I started buying your typical bedroom menswear much to her delight. Recently I gave her some money and a request to buy me some outfits that she would like to see me in. I was a little nervous when she described her order as being marketed at gay men. I was surprised upon opening of the femininity of it all. Initially I was less than comfortable but knowing it’s what she wanted I quickly decided I would give her a fashion parade without hesitation.
From the moment I slipped on the 1st lace body stocking, despite my dad bod, I immediately felt sexy. Her reaction to seeing me laid to rest any nerves I had left and filled me with a confidence and enthusiasm to give her a parade worthy of a seasoned catwalk model. Even as I type this I cannot forget with each outfit change, adding garters or stockings, frilly panties etc the intensity of the feelings of sexiness. The lust between us has never waned since our first encounters but my performance took her to a Pepe Le Pew drooling mess level.
Very soon after I ordered quite a few more men’s outfits seeking the most feminine I could find. Lots of pinks, frills, lace, stockings, skirts and halter tops etc. I surprised her last weekend with another parade, her reaction greater than the first time. For me, my “sexy” feelings that came with each new outfit was insanely addictive.
This is the first article I have found and I already have some fresh ideas. We have already explored many fetishes that neither of us had experienced in our previous vanilla lives but this 1 has been the most fun yet and we’ve only just started so I can’t wait to see where it takes us next.
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Welcome to the forum @user450500 and thank you for sharing your inspiring experiences…
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No comment ,
I’m far from being a voice of experience on this topic but would like to offer some suggestions relating my own recent steps into this world. First a couple questions just for your own detail that I’m not seeking a public answer here. Does she wear lingerie? I’m presuming you wouldn’t object to her wearing it. Is she against you wearing lingerie all together or just the more feminine stuff?
If she will wear it herself, that may be a good lead in to create some deeper conversation. Building her level of comfort at a lot slower pace maybe a much better approach. Suggest doing some online shopping together first. Start with her, let her choose, then you pick a couple for her. Ask her about her choices, why she likes that style and how wearing it would make her feel. Then you do the same…. why you would like to see her in your picks.
Next it’s your turn……. maybe start out real easy initially and go for the straight out masculine thongs etc. Approach it the same as you did for her, you make a couple picks and get her to choose a couple then have the conversation again around why those choices, feelings etc.
Finding a comfortable starting point for her I think is the most important issue and certainly won’t make things harder for you. My 2 bobs worth as a mid 50s Aussie. Hope that gives you some ideas to make your own and I sincerely hope it gets better for you
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