I have to point out for continuity sake that I was originally posting under the screen name 'nothere but that email account was corrupted so I had to register under a new email and username. Trying to get the I.T. people to get all posts under same original name of nothere.
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I am trying all new things and this is one of them just waiting fowhiye is more sexy them red with stockings fishnets is sluty can’t go wronf either way
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Thank-You @nothere1 for sharing more of your journey with us.
You experiences with your OH is very similar to my experiences so yes I agree that time will hopefully bring a form of acceptance. It’s a real pity really that as a couple we are potentially missing out on a lot of fun possibly sharing lingerie or doing lingerie try-on sessions etc.
One day maybe 
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@batjamboree . Its a very nice suspender , but id far prefer viewing on yourself or other female members rather than your husband.
Im sure he has a handsome pair of legs none the less.
If i was to wear lingerie , id be more likely to look like Les Dawson’s drag character.
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The weirdest thing is, and I spoke with wife about this last night; is she can do some outrageous things to me that I never dreamed she would BUT she absolutely cannot talk about them. If I even say the day after having had sex that “Honey you were a star last night.” she’ll shush me and say I don’t like talking about it. Me: but why not? Her: “I’m English!”
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My wife is almost as reserved vocally. The things she does to me are amazing, kinky as hell and well into perverse but she can’t bring herself to say “vibrator”, “dildo” or even “wand” and even the proper names for male and female genitalia are taboo. If I try to tell her what an amazing time she’s just given me all she ever says is “Good”.
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So I have been following this thread all week and then - with perfect timing - comes the following…
Before she went to work this morning, my wife and I had a discussion about how little sex we have had over the last few weeks (for one reason or another) and agreed that we will DEFINITELY have some fun tonight. So I ask her if she has any ideas (which she normally doesn’t, leaving it to me), and amazingly she suggests I put on her red knickers!
“Really?” “Yes.”
It hasn’t been prompted by this thread, but with it in mind, I decided to probe her further, asking for an honest breakdown of why she wants me in her knickers, and can she give me a percentage between her being turned on by it, compared with doing it because she knows how much fun I get out of it?
Her answer: 50-50.
“Really?” “Yes.”
So there’s a lesson for all those men wondering whether they should ‘confess’ this particular fantasy (and others) but are hesitating.
And it also got me thinking that it says something about women who can’t admit to fantasies or even talk about sex (as per other posts in the thread) despite the enjoyment they get from indulging their partners’/husbands’/whatever fantasies.
In other words: there must be a lot of couples out there who haven’t yet enjoyed the erotic joy of men wearing panties for sex - not just because the men hesitate to suggest it, but sometimes because women won’t admit it, too.
Come on, people: life is short, so go for it!
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Yes, love wearing silky feel knickers / strings as the sensation against smooth skin is a real turn on. Going out in them adds to the appeal as others do not know you are wearing them.
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Glad you’re getting your desires fulfilled. Here’s hoping it continues to grow.
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A really insightful experience @2xtourists and something which may help understand our OHs and their reticence towards openly discussing their needs, desires and kinks…
I know that my OH finds it difficult to talk about any bedroom activities, doesn’t like using any vibrating toys etc but is happy to join in my love of male toys and offers to use them on me at times. Guess we’re all different in small ways…
Enjoy those red knickers 
you lucky boy 
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You just need to choose the right style for you, and to work out the right size. Also remember some styles of lingerie will always look a little awkward on a male frame because it’s just not designed to fit a male body. Personally I like the slight awkwardness of trying to fit in to female underwear but not to the extent it gets futile and, frankly, stupid. Thongs and g-strings for example are a waste of time. Padded bras can be a bit hit or miss. Sometimes the padding can make up for a lack of actual boobs in maintaining the shape of the garment, other times it just won’t fit right at all.
Simple Brazilian or high-waist knickers and a fairly plain non-wired bra or bralette is the place to start.
Give it a try 
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@marbles1 . Im sorry , i was not suggesting doubts i might have had regarding wearing lingerie. It was merely a throw in comment to the thread.
Wearing “womens” lingerie is not something i have any desire for. Be that wearing or having any appreciation of other blokes wearing.
If thats someone’s kink , crack on, have fun. I understand a lot of guys get off on wearing it, just not my thing.
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I wore a silky black thong and seemed sheer stockings with a silky suspender belt for a surprise for my partner when she pulled my joggers down
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I did put on a nice tiger print thong from Lovehoney yesterday. I also have dabbled with g-strings as there is just something sexy about them.
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Hey @stuarthartley240 what a great way to surprise your partner.
What was there reaction? 
And did you enjoy the experience?
Cheers
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She loved it and the surprise just adds to the excitement she put her arms around me and in the back of my joggers and felt them and then pulled my joggers down and ended up taking the thong off and finishing me into her mouth
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My wife has just presented me with the most feminine pair of knickers i have ever seen.They Must have been designed with Sissies in mind.They are a lovely see thru peach and white mixture,reasonably full at the front with an adorable deep peach bow at the top which is surrounded by three layers of small beads/pearls on either side.There are frills on both sides too and a wonderful ribbon and lace patterning round the waitband and the legs too.The material feels awesome to the touch.Apparently her friend has also bought a pair for her Sissy Husband to wear too.She tells me i will have to beg her in order for me to be allowed to wear them and beg i will.I have been told we are both going to be photographed with pictures being exchanged to give the girls a good laugh and us Sissies being made to pay tribute.This has really made my Sissy side explode again putting “Penelope” in the background for the weekend whilst I totally immerse myself in Sissiness.Tonight and all day tomorrow in Complete Sissified Bliss,Life is Wonderful.
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@HappyInPanties - they sound lovely- like to wear them myself 
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@stuarthartley240
Now that sounds wonderful- you cannot fault the full suspender knickers and stockings- I do like my husband wearing these but I don’t allow black for him
Secondly- knickers over or under the suspender belt - if you want to look sexy - knickers always under the suspenders- but if you wear them all day you need to wear the knickers over the suspenders 
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Why thank you and I’ve never worn silky before I usually prefer lace but I’m glad I tried them nowI’m going to see what other colours there are in the silky ones,my partner was more than happy to see them on me I had them under the suspenders even she said she liked that she had to unclip the suspenders to pull them off me then clip them back on
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