I haven’t forgotten about this @AJSTAR . I just need to work from a real keyboard. Will start the new discussion Friday night. I will be curious if I can change your viewpoint.
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Stand strong @AJSTAR 
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Ooh very lovely then that makes it even better I’d think if he was already in the right place for a relationship
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Haha I was scrolling down looking thinking hmm where is this other thread 
shall look forward to reading it!
Sounds like you have feelings for her and she is trying to make you jealous by talking about this other guy?
Nothing wrong with wanting more than just sex from someone but does she want it too? Whenever there are FWB, you run the risk of getting emotionally involved. Don’t get me wrong, I know people who can do it without becoming emotionally involved but sounds like sex and emotions are interlinked with you. Again nothing wrong with that and perfectly normal.
Can you speak to this girl about your feelings?
Don’t let @Jocat scare you. It won’t be some big online bout. It’s just that the points I want to discuss are a tangent to the original topic which isn’t fair to the original post but I want to be able to do it on a computer rather than a phone. Just easier to create the links, edit the posts, and one doesn’t need to worry about spelling corrections when auto correct thinks it’s smarter than oneself.
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Why would I scare @AJSTAR?
What an odd thing to say.
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Very odd @JoCat
Or as Alice said…
“Curiouser and Curiouser”
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New thread is located HERE
You sort of implied I am a big meanie. Yes, I will disagree just as you do but just as you do, it’s always respectful dissent. I am not here to pick on anyone but have no issue disagreeing. @AJSTAR and I have a great back and forth going on. Oh my, we should both know better and we are way off topic here.
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Hello @Lg1000 . I think you are part way there for friends with benefits but you are also tied to the past. If you have any concerns about what your ex is doing elsewhere it’s not a friends with benefits situation It sounds to me you are looking to reclaim a little bit of the past with little obligation. What I mean is that past emotions can play a funny part in a future “casual” relationship.
I didn’t imply or sort of imply anything of the sort.
I read your post differently but that’s a good thing. It means we are back to agreeing to disagree. 
Was you maybe wearing a creepy clown mask? 
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God no, I’m scared of masks myself lol
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There’s always that one particular mask you see in fancy dress shops that freaks everyone out 
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The Scream mask for me, I hate it. Though any masks scare me, I don’t like not seeing peoples facial expressions!
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I get some red flags from this if im completely honest, the fact that them having another FwB is giving you a mental block then maybe you’re not ok with the casuallness of it? just my opinion.
If you go ahead i would just ask them to not mention the other person and try and forget about it.
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I tend to agree with @Mr-Mrs-Sexy for your situation. That said, I have experienced the opposite where the more real life dirty stories my partner could tell… the better. Doesn’t work with most of my relationships but that one did.
- edited typo
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long term fwb is challenging for one or other eventually in my experience. I am not against it but add even a little bit of emotion or past feelings and someone will end up in a pickle.
Seems like this has the potential for a pickle but you might have some fun short term