Hello and welcome @catawbaguyr 
You can fire up your own Intro topic if you fancy? You questions may get a little lost in the middle of this one (and it’d give us a chance to give you your very own Lovehoney Forum welcome ). If you click on the blue ‘Create Your Intro!’ link below it will even half start one off for you. 
And, just as an FYI, if your profile picture keeps disappearing it’ll be because you can see nipples in it. I’m afraid there’s a ‘no nipples’ rule that’s applied across the board out of fairness. But if you pop a couple of emoji/blurs over them it’ll be fine.