I’m a happily married man,But I have been looking at pegging porn for awhile now.How can I approach my wife to start playing with my ass and rimming me then trying to go to the next step???
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Hi and welcome to the forum @TxToolMan 
The first step would be communication, talk to her. Maybe make some time with no distractions and have an honest discussion about fantasies, both yours and hers and go from there 
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That’s exactly what I have been thinking at least it’s the truth and honesty 
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My husband introduced the subject in a subtle way while we were talking about trying new things with each other.
He took the moment I mentioned prostate massages to talk about pegging and showed me on Wikipedia what it was, because I didn’t even know such a thing existed. He never told me outright that he wanted it.
When I saw what it looked like I dismissed the idea - the sight of a woman with a penis was too much at that moment lol - but after 2 or 3 days I thought I would order a kit from Lovehoney 
And I ordered him a prostate massager too.
Talk honestly and openly with each other about everything, that’s the best advice I can give. Good luck
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Hi @TxToolMan 
Welcome to the forum!
I would recommend having a read through The Lovehoney Forum’s Guide to Pegging! (Wiki). It’s not a complete guide but has some useful pointers as to how to bring it up with your partner.
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Welcome!
Honestly it starts with conversations like: “hey, I am curious about trying pegging and rimming in the bedroom. I was wondering your thoughts?”
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Hello and welcome to the forum.
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Hello and welcome. As others have said just find the right time and talk to her about it.
Overthinking it is something I’m guilty of but sometimes you’ve got to bit the bullet and express how you feel.
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Hey and welcome, like others have said long conversation and communication .
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My wife and I are now experimenting with butt play after 32 years together. I’m not saying is as thrilling as our first years of sex, but we both always cum super hard.
For now it’s just small dildos. We have a strap on but have not gotten to use it.
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Hello and welcome to the forum.
As @MsSubExperimenter said communication really is the most important thing. Maybe you could try sharing some videos with her too? Do understand though if it’s not something she wants to do, or often. Good luck, and I hope it all works out 
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Helloooooo
Easiest answer is to just say it to her.
Alternatively a Hinting answer is to guide her hand down to your ass during sex and slip a finger in.
I was in the same boat a few years back, the stigma that goes with guys and anal is hard for some to admit, how I said it to mrstoysrus is I want to experience that elusive prostate orgasm, I don’t want to be dressed up, and I don’t want to be submissive or as a sissy, I just want to experience a different way of cumming, and she was down for anal play, it hasn’t happened much yet as I’d prefer to have an empty house or be away in case a kid walks in, we initially tried a strapless kit so she would have sensations with it too, but that didn’t work well for us, so we got a harness kit, I always think a good way to explore new things you’re interested in is to suggest watching porn, and say you choose a category you’d like to try and she chooses one too, she may secretly has wanted to try but not suggested because of the stigma, but if it’s something she’s dead against, you can’t push it on her, gotta be fun for both of you, outline what you like about it, you may like the dressing up or the power switch role etc, but as mentioned many times above, communication is key
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@ ToysRusDevon
I’m in the same situation as you. I’m not into the dressing up, or sissy play. I’m cock curious, so getting pegged or sucking on a strap on is as far as I’m willing to go for now.
We just started serious ass play in the last month. We have both enjoyed a finger in our asses, but nothing else yet.
She has said she wants to be fucked in the ass, but only with lots of lube and slow entry.
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As others have said, communication is the key. Ask her. Tell her what’s on your mind.
In the long run, it becomes ALL about communication if you have been together for a long time and you need to try kinky new things to keep it fresh, which is pretty much inevitable.
One way of bringing a subject up is to watch porn together and discuss whether you like what you see and what you would like to try. If nothing else, it shows what other people are up to, and you are not the only person in the world with that idea.
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@pgwinch im not interested in the sucking it either to be fair, I just want to feel a more intense orgasm, I know I can experience on my own with solo sessions, but I’d rather experience it with mrstoysrus