Every night with out fail whether me and the Misses have sex or not we have the same ritual when we’re in bed, we’ve done it for as long as I can remember, my Misses is a good 10 inches shorter than me so when we spoon she fits on me perfectly. With my legs under hers spooning, her head is the same height as mine, so we spoon, heads on the same pillow always on our right side, and I put my arm over her and hold her left boob, she loves me holding her boob, it will be out of her nighty waiting, we lie like this till she falls asleep.
Anyone else have a little ritual that they do when in bed together? Apart from the obvious of course! 
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That sounds great, any repetitive thing you do before sleep will assist with going to sleep. I also live a good snooping in bed with breast being held. But she overheats me after not too long and I have to let go 
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I give my cat a kiss on her head and say ‘night baby’ 
Couldn’t possibly share my bed with another human, gives me the heebie jeebies just thinking about it. I’m very selfish when it comes to my bed.
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Awwww that’s sweet @Yes_man
We are often spooning when it’s sleep time.
I love being wrapped up in his arms, feeling happy, loved and perfectly content. With all parts of our bodies touching 
It’s not something we have to do every night without fail, but we naturally do it most nights.
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@Cupc8kes I don’t know why it’s become something we do every night but it just has.
Only problem for me I can fall asleep like this as much as I try. I can lie there for hours and just can’t drop off, I’ve tried a few times now and nope! As soon as I roll over I fall asleep almost instantly, my only problem if she rolls over with me and cuddles me! Then I can’t sleep like that too. For some reason I can’t fall asleep unless I’m in my own space and we’re not touching. 
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Yeah I’m similar, don’t like being touched whole sleeping, best I can do is I more a hand over and it slides under her butt where it is held in place by butt power lol
I love our night time ritual, we get into bed watch tele for a a bit, I lay on his chest. I sometimes play with him before we go to sleep. He’s taller than me fit nice and snug when we spoon, I lay on his right arm, his left is on my chest and our legs wrapped around each other and to finish it off, his penis is sat perfectly between my bum cheeks 
sounds weird I know but I love it. I can’t fall asleep any other way
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@Dirty-Wife Perfect when you fit together isn’t it? 
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My OH is the same…can’t sleep if I so much as drape an arm over him or my feet are touching him! He’s happy to cuddle up to me to get warm when he gets into bed but then he has to shift into his own space to actually sleep 
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@Yes_man yeah definitely is, and it just makes feel safe too 
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Oh I know how you feel.
After having cuddles and gropes we sometimes both have to face the opposite way to actually sleep - both of us at the edge of the bed with a huge space in between sooooooo romantic!
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@Cupc8kes We’re exactly the same Cups! We always end up with big space between us facing opposite ways! Like you say goes from being sweet and romantic to like we’ve had a huge barney!! Although have to admit that is all me, she would have no problem with us spoon sleeping all night. XxX
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She lays on her back. I lay on my right side and wrap my legs round hers then put my left hand on either her pubic bone or her right breast. We always fall asleep like this. Unfortunately, if she’s sleeping on her back she snores so at some point we wake up, uncurl, separate and go back to sleep.
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holding hands, spooning, holding my boobs too yes
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I like being little spoon to fall asleep I think the weight of my partner’s body helps me relax. If it gets too hot he rolls over and I’ll play solitaire on my phone until my eyes are sleepy 
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Would love to be able to fall asleep spooning but I just can’t! I love a cuddle in bed but I just can’t go to sleep if my OH is touching me. We have cuddle on my side of the bed and then after, I have to make sure he’s fully over the ‘invisible line’ and on his side and then I can finally nod off. It’s ridiculous really. I find it hard to sleep if he’s not in bed with me but he also can’t be touching me if he is. Can’t win! 
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We 95% of the time fall asleep spooning. His left arm under me, right arm across my body so he can hold my left boob. I like to trap his penis between my bum cheeks 
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@Mrs.John It amazing how many of us go to sleep in the same position!! XxX
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I’m exactly the same with my wife. We tried spooning but after a few minutes we turn around with our backs to each other. We can’t even face each other when it’s time for sleep
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Yeah breathing on each other never works well lol. I’m a left side sleeper and she is a right Side so it works out fine. Switching sides never goes well.
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