Nipple play.... how rough do you like it?

I absolutely love it when my wife plays with my nipples during sex…

For the last couple of years, I’ve been occasionnally asking her to really pull/pinch them… :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

Last night she beat all her records…
She pinched and pulled so hard…
It was both quite painful and exquisite!!!

We discussed it after, i told her i wasn’t sure what was the most disturbing, how hard she went for it, or how much i actually enjoyed it! A mix of pain and pleasure i didn’t know I’d enjoy.

She was surprised herself at how much i moaned and how positively i reacted to her extremely rough handling… :rofl:

What about yourself?
How do you enjoy nipples being played with?
Have you been surprised by someone doing something you didnt expect them to do and enjoying it (or not!)?

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This has become a very unexpected turn-on for me the last couple of years. The wife can get me hard within seconds when she starts sucking and biting my nipples. When we are having piv or she’s masturbating me and then she starts sucking my nipple the urge to cum is there almost instantly.

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I really like my partner sucking hard on or biting my nipples and she seems to enjoy doing it as well. However I have to be carful when kissing and sucking her brests and nipples as she is very sensitive there, which is easier said than done as I do tend to get carried away!

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I wear nipple clamps (some with chains) for almost all our sessions. I love the pinch they generate. Some are quite mild and some are really vicious. I love the pain of the really nasty ones but most if all I love it when she pinches or bites my clamped nipples as they are already ultra sensitive from the clamps so the pain is exquisite.

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Nipple play is fairly new to me, but I’m liking it more and more. OH has got quite firm at times, I found it fantastic. Thinking about nipple clamps, any recommendations for beginners @rockstar ?

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I love nipple play too but especially when they’re tickled. Weirdly I can never seem to find anyone else other than myself what can do it right for me lol :joy:

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That does sound pretty rough… :rofl:

Its good to know what you like though.

When one has been pleasing himself for a number of years, one becomes an expert at it.

It’s unrealistic to expect others to do the same for you.
I’m glad that, with communication, my wife now does things i enjoy a lot… and she knows me enough to take it to a level I’ve loved without asking for it.

That’s it, my nipples are a shortcut to an erectiin with me too. It’s usually finger play from her, and gosh… she’s good to me!!!

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Yes, i quite like giving her nipples a good tugging too… but she isn’t always keen…

Apparently, I’m the nipple bitch in this house. :joy:

Very true! Plus I think it helps that I can’t physically bite my own nipples unlike what others seem to love doing to me haha :joy:

I like it rough, we use bitey clamps, binder clamps, he bites and tugs on them and pinches them and when he’s about to orgasm he gets a bit more torturous amd slappy, I love when we both orgasm together when he does that. I love when he puts needles through my nipples as well.
We like it rough and I’m so happy to have found someone that will indulge me and is as turned on by it as I am.

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The needles bit… has me all eeeeek!!!

Funnily, i felt the slapping someone tits in porn is very disrespectful… as is hair pulling…
But recently, I’ve found that my wife seems to like that hair pulling quite a bit.

She’s always been keen for me to pass my hand through her hair when watching TV, and after reading of women here explaining why they liked their hair pulling during sex, i tried it. She became incredibly wet straight away, like i was sloshing in her pussy when stroking in and out.
Needless to say… that’s been repeated quite a few times already.
I perceived it as degrading, but she likes it - I’m happy to do what she likes.

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I think it depends on the type of porn you’ve watched, if the intent was to be degrading then thats how you’ll view it. Degradation is not my kink and nothing I do will ever be degrading to me or my partner.

I used to think water sports was degrading because when I’ve seen it in porn it was to be degrading. Its actually very sensual and intimate when its done with that intention.

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I’ve seen it in a number of settings, and some of thebporn i find nasty and move on (generally degrading) some seems to be more about submission… but my own perception has been that of degradation.

Minds can change!

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Some people will have a degradation kink, fair play to them.
But what is degrading to one, will be very sensual to another.

I like it rough sometimes. For years I used to leak a dribble of milk from my nipples when I was turned on. I used to need a partner to press than stuff out of me every day, or I’d get mastitis. My nipples itched a lot, and the only relief was intense scratching or whipping them till they would bleed. Thankfully, the testosterone cream I use to enlarge my clit also made the milk go away, so I itch less. I still like the pain of the leather strap, though.

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I would start with the tweezer type. They hold well on male or female nipples and the pinch is adjustable.

These are the ones I have. You may need to glue the silicone rubber pads on though as they start to slip off after a while.

Fifty Shades of Grey The Pinch Adjustable Nipple Clamps - Lovehoney UK

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I love playing with my nipples and having them played with. My wife immediately started to incorporate some of that play after I told her I liked it a few years ago, and I recently bought some nipple clamps with a chain that I’m excited to try out soon.

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Love mine being licked and flicked not keen on biting, has suggested nipple clamps not sure on that

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