As I've mentioned in other threads, my wife of many years has recently been surprising me with hints that her "good girl" external persona conceals a "bad girl" inside who wants to come out and play in the bedroom.
I suggested to my wife this morning that we should take a look together at some outfits on LH which might help her to express her hot and sexy side. To my surprise, she didn't go for something vanilla like a sexy nightie as I expected, but quickly pointed out this PVC mini dress:
Whew... that got me excited! I think I now have a mandate to purchase her something like that.
I did a bit more searching and found another PVC mini dress and a PVC corset -- both with suspenders (to open up the possibility of adding stockings, if I'm a good boy):
My wife also hinted that she wants to express a powerful and confident persona. Any ideas on some accessories for the outfit which would help her to do that?
Is it okay for PVC as well as latex? I don't have any previous experience of either material.
My wife did also say that she was keen on something which she could change into and out of easily. Does that mean that the corset isn't such a good option? I'm keen on the idea as they look so good, but I don't have any practical experience of them.
I'm also thinking of getting a flogger as a prop for my wife, so that she can test out whether she feels good taking a dominant role. At the very least, it'll make her laugh! I'm not sure which one yet, but probably one in black to go with the rest of the outfit.
I guess it depends on how the items are done up - buttons, zips etc
I've just re-read Scarlot's review for the PVC corset and it says:
"This corset is great in the fact that it fastens at both the front and back, meaning once you've worn it once you can easily put it on yourself (not having to re-do the back lacing) and surprise him where ever and when ever you want!"
So... it sounds as if it isn't significantly more difficult to change into and out of it than the mini dress once it's been fitted. That's another tick in the box for the corset, which is rapidly becoming my favourite option.
Miss teach&nurse wrote:
I guess it depends on how the items are done up - buttons, zips etc
As for the flogger get one that has a little colour in it - red or pink - as it's femine, sexy and she will then know it belongs to her
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Thanks! That's a really good point, which will help me to narrow down the options.
My eyes are starting to pop from this virtual trip into the unfamiliar yet exciting world of PVC, corsets, crotchless briefs and floggers. I'm hoping they'll pop even more soon to the sight of my wife exhibiting them in the real world.
Crotchless panties r fab - they add a kink factor while still keeping part of your womanly area covered. Also means the panties dont have to come off. I have a couple pairs that have little mini skirts on - they r so comfy and sexy
Whew... I hope my wife likes them! One of the great things about her, though, is that when she drops a hint like that, it usually means that she's up for going the distance with them. There should be enough options there to get the attention of her "bad girl" inside.
Well.. the LH parcel arrived yesterday morning as promised (well done LH, once again!), and my wife had the opportunity last night to try it out.
We're having problems with the PVC corset. I wanted to ask about it here first, as neither my wife nor I have any previous experience with corsets, so we might be doing something silly.
The good news is that the corset looks fantastic from the rear (I think my wife can take part of the credit for that!). The problem is at the front. No matter how we try to adjust it, the shaped cups at the top won't align with my wife's boobs, which are trapped lower down in the corset so that we see a couple of empty flaps of the corset sticking up and outwards noticeably. My wife is in the correct bust range for the size of corset (large) but is petite in height -- I wonder whether this might be the reason. The only way that we've found to improve the situation is to use a push-up bra underneath to lift up my wife's boobs a bit -- although this only helps slightly and still looks somewhat unnatural.
Does anyone recognise this problem? Are we missing something? I'm reluctant to have to return the corset, but it looks a bit silly unless we can find a solution.
My wife wasn't keen on the pearl crotchless knickers, at least at first. She said that the pearls were digging in to her in the same way as a thong (which she hates), and that she didn't notice any pleasant sensations. She's keeping an open mind, though, and wonders whether there's a particular way in which she should be wearing them. I'm clueless on this point as well! Any tips?
The surprising good news is that the tickler, flogger and whip went down really well with my wife. It wasn't long before we were chasing each other around the bedroom administering cheeky punishments and giggling about it. There was more than a hint of my wife's bad girl persona in the seemingly expert way that she handled these devices. I think we may have to invest in some even more kinky props soon!
I'm also small and have never found a corset that fits well. I think I'm just too short. (5'4" which can't be that unusual) Plenty of other lingerie options, but I like the sexiness of being laced in so it's annoying.
Good to hear you had fun! I think your wife may like a blindfold, I've recently bought The LH tease me blindfold and wrist restraints. I like the purple silky fabric, they look and feel lovely, and I wonder if your wife may like them too.
i think your wife is a very lucky girl to have all that bought for her.
Of course! Ignore any cynics who might suggest that my wife is not the only one who benefits from her getting a new sexy outfit.
Sleazysue wrote:
I'm also small and have never found a corset that fits well. I think I'm just too short. (5'4" which can't be that unusual) Plenty of other lingerie options, but I like the sexiness of being laced in so it's annoying.
That's useful to know. You may be correct -- my wife is another couple of inches shorter than you. Maybe we'll just have to return the corset and try another option.
Sleazysue wrote:
Good to hear you had fun! I think your wife may like a blindfold, I've recently bought The LH tease me blindfold and wrist restraints. I like the purple silky fabric, they look and feel lovely, and I wonder if your wife may like them too.
Have fun :)
Thanks! We'll have to take it one little step at a time, but I think it's significant and promising that, for the first time, we both started to have fun together with bondage-related props.
ooo gotta love a bit of shiny. my mrs has loads of various outfits. wish she'd wear them more though. they have a very noticable effect on me! she has started wearing her leather skirts out n about though.
CH just a thought. I wonder if your wife would enjoy reading some erotic fiction. I think that this "works" for a lot of ?omen and it might help her to release herbed girl imagination.bit tricky to recommend anything as very individual, but you will know the sort of thing she may like! Not everyone's cup of tea and may seem rather dated now, but I remember reading Nancy Friday My Secret Garden sometime ago, and it did the trick for me. Not fiction but collection of women's fantasies.
It's never worked for me. Annoying, but maybe i'm just not curvy enough so corsets are wrong for me in every way. Some other short but curvy gals may have better experience.
is there any way you could fit the corset lower on the abdomen?
Sleazysue wrote:
It's never worked for me. Annoying, but maybe i'm just not curvy enough so corsets are wrong for me in every way. Some other short but curvy gals may have better experience.
Thanks! We tried all sorts of ideas -- loosening the laces, trying to pull the corset down, re-tightening the laces -- but nothing seemed to help. I suspect that Sleazysue is right and it's just that my wife's petite frame doesn't match the shape of the corset.
I think we'll probably have to take advantage of the LH returns policy on this occasion. I think this alternative PVC (non-corset) dress ought to be a better option:
I'm thinking of ordering it straight away so that we don't have to wait for the return to be sorted out first.
Sleazysue wrote:
CH just a thought. I wonder if your wife would enjoy reading some erotic fiction. I think that this "works" for a lot of ?omen and it might help her to release herbed girl imagination.bit tricky to recommend anything as very individual, but you will know the sort of thing she may like! Not everyone's cup of tea and may seem rather dated now, but I remember reading Nancy Friday My Secret Garden sometime ago, and it did the trick for me. Not fiction but collection of women's fantasies.
Thanks! It seems that My Secret Garden is out of stock until the end of March, but there's another one by Nancy Friday (Women on Top) in the same vein which I'll consider getting:
my personal favourite is tartan! a tartan bra set/ tartan skirtgives the cutesy look but its so naughty aswell! i fink tartan incredibly sex and a little bit more original than latex etc.. latex is typical bad girl and kinda reminds me of cat woman... a tartan bra set looks feminine and sexy especially if its red but thats just my opinion :) i have a tartan bra set i wear for my other half and its deffo his favourite and ive had afew corsets & latex items. try it :)
