Partner not showing interest in sex

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After 9 years I’ve given up on ever having sex ever again . It’s too late for me but hope you can sort things out . By the way you are beautiful . Sending you love and hugs xxx @Yesjo

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My husband did that for a number of years. Then I came along hussy that I am and corrupted him. :bum3: :bunny_girl3: :stockings: :handcuffs:

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Good girl xx

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We had sex last night and it was OK but he didn’t get hard it was sort of a bit soft so now I’m wondering if he wasn’t turned on

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@Yesjo 1 small step in the right direction you may need to speak to him about it ? But I would suggest maybe wait a bit try again if you can and see if it is any better but it’s a step in the right direction :kissing_heart::baguette_bread::sweat_drops:

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I have waited a month before we had sex so thought he would be rock hard

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Lol maybe he needs it warming up lol ?

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I did try I even was kissing and licking and sucking on his dick

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Lucky him lol

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I must be doing it wrong lol

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@Yesjo I wouldn’t think so , I can’t say it can be done wrong lol I am normally on the other end lol

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I’m always the giver in oral but I don’t mind I like doing it but would be nice to receive

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@Yesjo I am an advocate of both hun to be honest love it :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: nothing better

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@Yesjo love the new pics hun he is a very lucky man ! Mmm sexy

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Please remember not to engage in 1-on-1 chat. Thank you! :slight_smile:

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OK so sorry

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@Yesjo you have written before about your OH being uninterested but watching porn.

Do you think he may be worried about not getting hard enough?

It might help to take the emphasis off penetrative sex for a while - try other ways of being close and intimate (him for you, as well as what you do for him)? It needs to be equal - Can you talk to him about this?

I think he would need to give the online porn a break at the same time.

You have posted some lovely photos - you are beautiful and confident.

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I have stopped putting pressure on him and he just likes other women and don’t think that will change. So going to look after myself and I have said how I feel and I do ask him what he likes in the bedroom and he says it’s good enough.

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Hi @Gazza_64 :slightly_smiling_face:

All comments about photos should be kept to Uploaded Pictures Thread Part 2. :+1: