Sad to hear that, never is masturbating wrong, maybe she thinks she isn’t enough, maybe it’s time to have a good little chat to let her know why you feel the need to masturbate. Being with someone certainty can make you more hornier.
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As always, only reveal and share what you want to and are comfortable doing.
I’ve recently started telling my OH when I need to or have masturbated. Sometimes she joins me and helps. Sometimes she joins me and is just present, doing her own thing in the room. Sometimes she leave me be. Sometimes I’ll send her a photo if she’s not here.
The honesty, sharing and removal of a long held but never acknowledged shame has become quite an important and intimate addition to our relationship.
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I should try that. I’ll send her a text when I’m horny. It will overload her in box.
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It’s.never wrong to masterbate try suggesting you do it together. Who knows she might enjoy it
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My respectful opinion is that saying masturbation is wrong. Is like saying you like a certain food but she doesn’t so you need to stop eating it. Keep trying. Mutual masturbation is such an awesome thing to do together. If she’s a little shy or embarrassed. Try wearing eye masks
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Sometimes she tells me, sometimes she doesn’t. Other times she’s sent me a video. I find it a huge turn on knowing that she masturbates and it’s very sexy to watch.
Mrs bustywife told me she masterbates 2 or 3 times a week, I have no problem with her doing it ,she knows i do it everyday
Hubby does it every day I’m pretty sure. uses the fleshlights a couple of times a week.
even tho i know he wouldn’t mind and would probley like it I usually only get the toys out when i know i wont be disrubted - when he is at footy or something
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I completely get you and I would be the same as the male in the situation I don’t like to be interrupted or run the risk of it! I’d even be cautious say if they were still in the house and I knew it was unlikely I’d get interrupted
I disagree with this as an unconditional statement, only in that there are circumstances where masturbation can interfere with showing up fully to a committed intimate relationship. If I started masturbating multiple times a day it would most likely impact my ability to be ready for sex as my wife wants it nightly. But that’s related more to decisions of relationship expectations, desires, and agreements, not the act itself.
So yes, the act itself is never wrong, but context may make it so.
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We all desire different levels of intimacy and respecting your partners desires should be the forefront of any relationship.
It’s slightly worrying that she would judge your sexual needs simply based on hers.
Maybe you could have a chat with her and let her know your feelings if you haven’t already.
I masturbate everyday and as long as it doesn’t take over the relationship or the normal intimacy, I really don’t see a problem with it - I truly believe its healthy for the body 
One of my favorite sayings is that context matters…
Not just about this, but anything, all topics.
You are spot on about context being able to make it wrong sometimes.
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I think you misunderstood my statement.
Masturbating is never wrong if someone is afraid to admit it, because a partner or friend thinks it’s wrong.
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If I was having sex daily, I probably wouldn’t be masturbating much if at all. Once a week or less isn’t enough however.
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My OH certainly does, and I don’t mind a bit, It’s important to just have time to yourself. She knows that I sometimes make time for myself too, so all’s equal. LOL