It’s for me physically. Ridges should be nice. Should complete the lifelike look for GF. She said she likes the lifelike look better than non realistic when she is pounding me from behind. I don’t mind either way but it’s ace when she is really going for it.
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For aesthetics I prefer the look of a lifelike dildo inside me but, to be honest, once it’s inside my ass I can’t feel ridges, bumps or any details at all.
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Love to get Mrs to do to me, but if suggest she thinks i’m gay and want a guy???
@Scotsguylcy
That is such a shame - as a woman I find it so empowering to wear the strap on and my husband just loves it and it’s very sexual and always gets him extremely hard - so after I have fond him - he does me
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I have only just found this thread @batjamboree … Wow!!! such a hot read!!
I shall be tracking it from now on. I have used all sorts inside myself, including the LH Life Like Dildo, but am still waiting for Mrs LC to fulfil her promise and use our strapless dildo on me. One can live in hope 
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@Latino_Caliente
I find it sad that it can be a difficult conversation to have with your partner- but do it
While taboo it’s vital you live your best life and if taking a large penis shape dildo in your bottom is wrong - then why is the male g spot there …
I love to please my man - yes as a woman we should just lay back and let your husband fu*k - well no … it’s 2023 and I want to return the favour and provide pleasure to my man and he can also pleasure me
As you already use toys yourself- it’s an easy step to taking a strap on - but start thin - it’s not easy and a few times can hurt - but as time goes on - it’s just easier and a whole lot of fun
As a woman what do I get …. I get satisfaction that I’m open minded and able to please my man - but also I like to wear the strap on - it’s very kinky and just feels good
Just ask her …. 
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Thank you so much for your kind words of encouragement @batjamboree
When Mrs LC and I were first together 10 yrs ago, she was rampant and did most things that any man would want. Hence the reason for purchasing the various toys we have. (If you look at my main profile pic, you’ll see our small collection here)
But in recent years, her “passion” has dwindled and where in the early days, when sucking me she would put one or two fingers inside me, now, it’s different.
I’m told “That’s gay!”… We all know that when between consenting adults, it isn’t.
I wish she were more open minded like many of the supportive people on here.
But, I will take your advice, and in time, I’ll start up the conversation 
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Hi, just wanted to echo @batjamboree’s sentiments of just talk to your wife. Saying you’re gay if you want anal, is a silly statement to make and can be really damaging. So many people come to the forum and say things like ‘I like anal, but I’m straight’. There shouldn’t even be the need to say anything after liking anal. If you’re not sexually attracted to men, then you’re not gay, regardless of enjoying anal. If you enjoying anal makes you gay, what does it make me? See, stupid.
I had the strapless strap-on that you have in your profile cover photo and I really didn’t like it. Its heavy (and I have good pelvic floor muscles), its hard and very awkward to thrust with, in my opinion. I know people have their preferences with a harness or underwear and although I have a harness myself, I think the underwear would be more comfortable and natural to wear.
If you do have the conversation, I’d suggest you also discuss whether you have the right strap on for her. Good luck.
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Thanks @JoCat and @batjamboree for your kind and compassionate words and of course your understanding.
Yes, I do feel upset when she says “That’s gay” (when she didn’t at the start of our relationship)
As you say, just because I like the feelings there, as an erogenous zone, it doesn’t make me gay.
She even said to me when I bought the strapless strap-on, “I’m gonna f**k you with that one day”… so, the intent was there. I’m just saddened that those feelings she had have gone.
I wish I had friends like you guys out in the real world where I could discuss this issue, but there is no-one. At least here on LH, I can air my views and that helps.
Anyway, we have done this to death now. I will speak with my wife and post back here if there is any news. Enjoy your Sunday guys 
xxx
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pegging has nothing to do with your sexuality and isnt linked to being gay or not being gay. its about feeling pleasure from a different area/ situation. sounds like the persons isnt open minded enough to understand that or you have a fear of it being taken that way.
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Exactly, its just ignorance.
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I find it hard to understand how people still think like this especially in the day and age we live in now, but I really struggle to understand how a partner could throw that judgement at a loved one 
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I really would love for someone to explain there thinking, although I guess all on here are already a bit more open minded than that so I guess I’ll never know 
(Mrs)
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As @JoCat said, it is ignorant and a knee-jerk reaction from a cultural upbringing.
I’m a straight white guy with a manly job.
And my favorite form of sexual activity is receiving anal.
Who cares I like what I like.
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I did mention it to my wife once but she kinda shut it down quite quickly and I laughed it off, so might be one kink too far for some partners.
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See I can somewhat understand that some people may not want to participate and that is totally their call and anyone and everyone should respect that…however it’s the judgment/accusations/and shaming of anyone, let alone someone you love that I fail to get my head round.
Maybe one day your partner will feel differently a few years ago I don’t think I may have be so open to participate if I’m totally honest.
Just wanted to edit to say @Latino_Caliente this Is my thought in general as I have seen it referred in this way many a time and is not a personal criticism to your OH or your situation
(Mrs)
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The feeling of wife pegging me and the way that LH realistic veined cock feels inside me is simply too beautiful too go without.I generally find the most vociferous in the outside world decrying something are the ones who either have something to hide or they are jealous they too cannot indulge.Once again bigotry and ignorance still seem to prevail in this day and age.Thank goodness for forums like this LH one where we can all post and share our loves and likes.Keep on Pegging 
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Yep. I got shut down straight away. 
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So sad - I feel for you
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My wife wouldn’t peg me properly she’s abit funny with it to be fair but then the other night she was giving me a proper good wank I was laying on my back and she put our small dildo in my bum and thrusted it in and out a few times and yeah made me cum while she was still wanking me. And she said I reckon I could make you come from doing that with the dildo alone lol. And I’m the thinking well why don’t you try pegging me then lol . Think she would look hot with a pair of them knickers on with the dildo hanging out of it lol.
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Feel so lucky to have my OH who both knows and enjoys my needs same as you @batjamboree.Hopefully both @Northseaguy and @Fire_Ice1 partners will have a change of heart so they too can enjoy this wonderful experience.
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