Don’t be disappointed as it may be his (or her) age - my husband years ago said he would never go anal but what a turn around - possibly suggest a vibrating butt plug and see how it goes from there
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Thanks for that i have tried lubing him.up and inserting a finger but he just seems to freeze glad your oh enjoys it nothing more powerful than seeing a woman wearing a strapon
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I love them - found myself trying them in with different lingerie yesterday when he was at work - just a game changer
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Have you a link to the ones you have so i can show him he may be more open then
Tried the flesh pink dildo in strap on me harness the other day. She did not comment on the new look but fucked me really hard with it. After I came she asked me to make her cum which I did with vibe. I will have to ask her if she preferred lifelike or non lifelike best. Thinking of getting black lifelike next??
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Glad you like it - for me it has to be lifelike when I’m pounding my husband - any colour but love the veins on the shaft 
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I’ve recently brought a really veiny lifelike dildo. Will give this a go and see what she thinks to that. 
@alboy. Is it for you or her - love a veiny dildo or strap on dildo when he needs it 
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It’s for me physically. Ridges should be nice. Should complete the lifelike look for GF. She said she likes the lifelike look better than non realistic when she is pounding me from behind. I don’t mind either way but it’s ace when she is really going for it.
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For aesthetics I prefer the look of a lifelike dildo inside me but, to be honest, once it’s inside my ass I can’t feel ridges, bumps or any details at all.
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Love to get Mrs to do to me, but if suggest she thinks i’m gay and want a guy???
@Scotsguylcy
That is such a shame - as a woman I find it so empowering to wear the strap on and my husband just loves it and it’s very sexual and always gets him extremely hard - so after I have fond him - he does me
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I have only just found this thread @batjamboree … Wow!!! such a hot read!!
I shall be tracking it from now on. I have used all sorts inside myself, including the LH Life Like Dildo, but am still waiting for Mrs LC to fulfil her promise and use our strapless dildo on me. One can live in hope 
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@Latino_Caliente
I find it sad that it can be a difficult conversation to have with your partner- but do it
While taboo it’s vital you live your best life and if taking a large penis shape dildo in your bottom is wrong - then why is the male g spot there …
I love to please my man - yes as a woman we should just lay back and let your husband fu*k - well no … it’s 2023 and I want to return the favour and provide pleasure to my man and he can also pleasure me
As you already use toys yourself- it’s an easy step to taking a strap on - but start thin - it’s not easy and a few times can hurt - but as time goes on - it’s just easier and a whole lot of fun
As a woman what do I get …. I get satisfaction that I’m open minded and able to please my man - but also I like to wear the strap on - it’s very kinky and just feels good
Just ask her ….
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Thank you so much for your kind words of encouragement @batjamboree
When Mrs LC and I were first together 10 yrs ago, she was rampant and did most things that any man would want. Hence the reason for purchasing the various toys we have. (If you look at my main profile pic, you’ll see our small collection here)
But in recent years, her “passion” has dwindled and where in the early days, when sucking me she would put one or two fingers inside me, now, it’s different.
I’m told “That’s gay!”… We all know that when between consenting adults, it isn’t.
I wish she were more open minded like many of the supportive people on here.
But, I will take your advice, and in time, I’ll start up the conversation 
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Hi, just wanted to echo @batjamboree’s sentiments of just talk to your wife. Saying you’re gay if you want anal, is a silly statement to make and can be really damaging. So many people come to the forum and say things like ‘I like anal, but I’m straight’. There shouldn’t even be the need to say anything after liking anal. If you’re not sexually attracted to men, then you’re not gay, regardless of enjoying anal. If you enjoying anal makes you gay, what does it make me? See, stupid.
I had the strapless strap-on that you have in your profile cover photo and I really didn’t like it. Its heavy (and I have good pelvic floor muscles), its hard and very awkward to thrust with, in my opinion. I know people have their preferences with a harness or underwear and although I have a harness myself, I think the underwear would be more comfortable and natural to wear.
If you do have the conversation, I’d suggest you also discuss whether you have the right strap on for her. Good luck.
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Thanks @JoCat and @batjamboree for your kind and compassionate words and of course your understanding.
Yes, I do feel upset when she says “That’s gay” (when she didn’t at the start of our relationship)
As you say, just because I like the feelings there, as an erogenous zone, it doesn’t make me gay.
She even said to me when I bought the strapless strap-on, “I’m gonna f**k you with that one day”… so, the intent was there. I’m just saddened that those feelings she had have gone.
I wish I had friends like you guys out in the real world where I could discuss this issue, but there is no-one. At least here on LH, I can air my views and that helps.
Anyway, we have done this to death now. I will speak with my wife and post back here if there is any news. Enjoy your Sunday guys 
xxx
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pegging has nothing to do with your sexuality and isnt linked to being gay or not being gay. its about feeling pleasure from a different area/ situation. sounds like the persons isnt open minded enough to understand that or you have a fear of it being taken that way.
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Exactly, its just ignorance.
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I find it hard to understand how people still think like this especially in the day and age we live in now, but I really struggle to understand how a partner could throw that judgement at a loved one 
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I really would love for someone to explain there thinking, although I guess all on here are already a bit more open minded than that so I guess I’ll never know 
(Mrs)
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