As @JoCat said, it is ignorant and a knee-jerk reaction from a cultural upbringing.
I’m a straight white guy with a manly job.
And my favorite form of sexual activity is receiving anal.
Who cares I like what I like.
I did mention it to my wife once but she kinda shut it down quite quickly and I laughed it off, so might be one kink too far for some partners.
See I can somewhat understand that some people may not want to participate and that is totally their call and anyone and everyone should respect that…however it’s the judgment/accusations/and shaming of anyone, let alone someone you love that I fail to get my head round.
Maybe one day your partner will feel differently a few years ago I don’t think I may have be so open to participate if I’m totally honest.
Just wanted to edit to say @Latino_Caliente this Is my thought in general as I have seen it referred in this way many a time and is not a personal criticism to your OH or your situation
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The feeling of wife pegging me and the way that LH realistic veined cock feels inside me is simply too beautiful too go without.I generally find the most vociferous in the outside world decrying something are the ones who either have something to hide or they are jealous they too cannot indulge.Once again bigotry and ignorance still seem to prevail in this day and age.Thank goodness for forums like this LH one where we can all post and share our loves and likes.Keep on Pegging
Yep. I got shut down straight away.
So sad - I feel for you
My wife wouldn’t peg me properly she’s abit funny with it to be fair but then the other night she was giving me a proper good wank I was laying on my back and she put our small dildo in my bum and thrusted it in and out a few times and yeah made me cum while she was still wanking me. And she said I reckon I could make you come from doing that with the dildo alone lol. And I’m the thinking well why don’t you try pegging me then lol . Think she would look hot with a pair of them knickers on with the dildo hanging out of it lol.
Feel so lucky to have my OH who both knows and enjoys my needs same as you @batjamboree.Hopefully both @Northseaguy and @Fire_Ice1 partners will have a change of heart so they too can enjoy this wonderful experience.
It’s a nice look.
My wife looks wonderful with her awesome body and a large penis hanging out from her harness briefs.
She knows how much I love the look so if she pegs me or fxxcks my mouth in the evening she keeps the dildo on when we go to bed.
Normally I spoon her and hold one of her breasts but it’s nice to spoon her and find a penis instead.
Could not agree more,Extremely Erotic & Sexy as F*+K
Softly softly catchy monkey…she’s coming round to the idea herself, so let her!
I think she mite be cuz we were playing the other night and she had her vibrating dildo out and played with it then we got into the 69 position with me on top and got a load of lube and while she was sucking me she started playing with my ass and yeah the dildo was going in and out felt great while I was licking her lol. Then I lay on my back still with the dildo in while she rode on top then bent her over doggy and I still had the dildo in had to hold it in place mind you but when I came wow it was strong lol.
I am dreaming and hoping of having my wife peg me again . She is disabled and I am not too flexible . So I was skimming positions of the week for ideas . I think The Throne , Reverse Cowgirl (me) Babe bender (me again ) , Back in the Saddle and Freeway look the most likely . She can pick anything she would like me dressed in , hopefully lace stockings with or without a garter belt . She can pick from my anal dildos from the slim 6" to the mighty 9" . She has made some comments on our upcuming anniversary in about a week . We are still in the trial stages , this will be 36 years . Oh please !
The more I think about it , the more I would like the “Freeway” , with me in the middle and a real cock to suck . Position of the Week: Freeway
My partner very much wants me to do this for him. I am interested in learning more about it. Was there any special way to get started or tips you might have?
@Hedgemaid , since your partner already wants this, that is a good beginning. I would not say that wife and I took baby steps but it was a process. Started with a finger on my prostate during a bj, progressed to a vibrator and since we were both on board to me receiving my wife brought up pegging. We both agreed and did our homework. Ended up buying multiple different anal toys like butt plugs, prostate massagers along with a harness and dildos. Being pegged for me is just part of the joy of anal play for me as the man. We have been pegging for well over a decade and the whole process has been an evolution. The role reversal is a big turn on for both of us during pegging. But then there are time we both love me just having a prostate massager in and having play time that way. It’s opened up a whole new door for us sexually and as the man I have no issues with anal penetration from my wife at all.
So you can take baby steps or go all in right away. I would say if your man has not yet delved in anal play for himself, start with a finger or a prostate massager. The role reversal is a big turn on but when you as a man realize the joy and feeling of having your prostate stimulated that takes it to a different level.
We have some of that checked off. So a good start!
We had a bit of a set back when I read a review of the plugs we bought and someone claimed because of the small base it was “absorbed” and they had a 16 hour ER visit. I asked him to let me chuck them. I am petrified of them for him now as that would be awful. But its as simple as buying the plugs with a safety base. So I am on that one today if you suggested some ideas of types or brands?
Just was dissapointing to learn some thing scary could happen during play with some anal toys. I have had plugs before but this situation never occured to me. I asked him can we tie something to it like mountain climbers have in case of emergency retrieval. (But we ultimately chucked them they werent spendy. Lol. We laughed. I think he would be excited if we ordered a starter kit from this site and just go for it.
So a prostate stimulating O is like a internal O for a women? He would love that. He has been very optimistic about the idea here lately.
@Hedgemaid this is my favorite.
Prostate orgasms are unbelievable. Then when you finally ejaculate it’s literally for me mind blowing, like being on a super high. One of the things that really helped me is playing and exploring alone. When I learned what really gets me there we incorporated in the bedroom. Then I could tell my wife how I like it, best position and angle.
Don’t be disappointed if he doesn’t have a prostate orgasm straight away. It’s not always easy to achieve and not everyone has one. Pegging is still a wonderful experience even without a prostate orgasm though.
As mentioned on a different thread, I really recommend Ruby Ryder’s site and podcast (Pegging Paradise) to get more info and understanding about the practical and psychological elements of pegging for both giver and receiver.
When I started out on this with my OH, we found the XR University video (search ‘pegging with Mike Panic’) really good too, with a discussion between the actors and a commentary throughout.