Thanks guys. I suppose I'm just super nervous about it all. It'll still be a wee while yet once the pennies have been saved so plenty of time to build up ye olde confidence! Expecting a refund cheque from the thieving leccy company soon so fingers crossed its good!
I'm sure you could use something like the Fun Factory Share (or a Feeldoe) with the RodioH panties if you wanted to try a double ender.
Northseaguy wrote:
I am so keen to try this with my OH. She's not so hot in the idea at the moment but we're just getting into the anal thing in general at the moment. I would love her to be wearing a harness and 'force' me to suck her off then have her peg me. Takes time and I have dropped a few hints that I'd like to try but no advance yet. I even went along the ' well I do your arse so you can do mine if you like'. Maybe she'll come round. If not I'll just have to pleasure myself anally.
Well last night we were getting down and dirty and I was dp ing her with myself and a butt plug when she said that something had to go in my arse. She grabbed another plug and lubed it up and tried but couldn't get the angle so when I took it and did it myself she nearly came there and then. She said it was the horniest thing she'd ever seen. I loved it but lived that she lined it more. Hopefully the start of good things to come.Alicia4Ever wrote:
Do your self in front of her, she may have a change of mind.
A question. Some dildos have a curve on it. With regards to pegging the dildo generally sits with the curve facing up so the tip is at the highest point. Now, if your sexy oh is taking you doggy style would the dildo be better off the other way up? Wouldn't this be better to hit the male g-spot?
Thanks.😊
hmmm good question, I can be penetrated deeper with the curve pointing toward my back. Still hits all the pleasure points. the beauty of a toy in a strap harness is it's easy to swivel it round and try it both ways. Not so easy with a real cock, I haven't met a guy who can anyway...
We have tried strap ons and ohh believe me, they are so much fun! But I'm not sexually attracted to men but when we let another man join in with us the feeling of extreme kinkyness with taking a dick in my mouth and bum was second to none!
Huge fan of pegging 😆 My Mrs loves it too as we both switch often its fun having her in control sometimes xx
If you have played with some anal before this is fantastic. If it is your first go get something small and work up to it.
It is a lot of fun so enjoy!
Hi Joe, even though it's called advanced, I'd consider the toy that comes with that harness as perfect for beginners :)
Enjoy!
This is something i just cant get into (possibly because i have never been penetrated except for just the edge of one of the OH fingers).
I know from reading all the comments on here that its a popular interest but for now, i'll pass.
I have discussed this with my OH, she often uses a small vibrator, beads, or a finger all of which i enjoy emensly, but its a big step to be pegged. I think i'll enjoy it, but scared to try!! but have yet to make the leap and but the toys.... what if we don't like it, would it be a waste of money!!
Advise please
If you don't like it you could always return it and get your money back thanks to Lovehoney's amazing returns policy :)
Moonsterblue
Great advice from sxleksaker. Plus I highly doubt you will not like it. If you like your oh to use toys on you, and are willing to try pegging and think you'll enjoy it too, chances are you're going to enjoy it. If not, still give it a few tries, because sometimes it can take more adaptation.
Start with a small dildo, don't try to go too big too fast. Use plenty of anal lube (water based since you use it with toys), and don't think any lube will do, I thought it would be the case but was surprised with the difference anal lube makes. I suggest the lovehoney discover one, it's great. If you do all this, I am sure you'll enjoy the experience. And if you don,t, as sxleksaker said, you can still send the toy back.
Edit: I've just seen Alicia's post. Great advice as well, but as an anal beginner myself, I'd start with a smaller dildo for anal play (like this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28425 )
It's fantastic, my wife nagged me for weeks, I played it cool, but I secretly couldn't wait, she's always slipped a finger inside whilst giving head..... WOW!
So so my advice to you is, buy a expensive realistic feeling strap on with a quality harness, not a cheap hard plastic one held in place by elastic!!!
im hooked on anal now, it's opened a whole new sexual side to me I didn't know existed, and it's great swapping roles from time to time.
Me and my partner have openly experimented with plugs on each other but the thought of getting pegged gets me going BIG time! Just ordered the 7 inch harness from LH http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30701
Really excited to try this and so is my partner. Hope it lives up to the expectation! Does it get easier to take over time at all?
straight couple here: we are new to pegging in fact we love it. wife loves giving it and loves the sense of power. i love reciving i love being under her control and wow best orgasms ever...
I would love to try pegging. Been hoping to get sent a strap on as a sex toy tester but no luck so far
My wife has used her buttplug on me and a prostate toy but she doesnt like the idea actually 'doing' me with a strap on as she says it would make her uncomfortable.
We recently bought this...
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34921
Got it for her but I'm secretly hoping she'll use it on me ;) maybe I'll even sit on it whilst she rides me.
My partner and I have never done this before, but we both find the idea quite attractive!
One day ;)
My oh says she is thinking about it but not sure if she would be topping I said I don't mind but I am going to let her make up her own mind she has used a dildo on me which I love but I am not going to push her to do it
Hello lovely people. Prince Charming asked me a few months ago if I would play with him and I was so happy he asked! We have already played a bit with my tongue and fingers and we both love it.
I have read a lot of your posts and thank you so much all of you for sharing so many personal things, experiences, tips and advice. I have bought this King Cock Ultra Realistic Dildo with Suction Cup 7.5 Inch | Realistic Dildos | Lovehoney
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33600 and I have a lovely strap on also from LH. It all works well. I wear it around the house to get used to it. Despite several wash with warm water and organic soap I do find the smell rather strong. Any advice?
We are doing it next week. He asked to be on his back so that's how we will do our first time. I have bought lots of lub and we both have so much love that it will only be wonderful...