I've never tried it on my oh but we would love to try it. Bought lovehoneys strap on in the 3 for £50 deal. I'm going to have to wait though because I'm in an ldr. Hope you enjoy it though :)
I was talking tomy oh about hair removal down there and he's apprehensive because it might burn. Personally I've never had any problems with veet only on my face however I would recommend you do a patch test on your inner thigh where the skin is quite thin.
If you at any point feel uncomfortable you can was it off :)
Very much into pegging. I love my wife pegging me and if at first she was a little hesitant about it she certainly is not now. She goes at it with great gusto and is strapped up without even suggesting it. It really turns her on.
No! I'll never do that with him ever again! he's destroyed it for me now!
So sorry it ended like this for you Ozz.
I'm sorry that he couldn't ride out his emotions, (no pun intended) he may have just liked the reversal and gone with the flow.
My first time was a roller coaster, it's letting go of all that macho stuff that we've carried for years, and then just enjoy each other.
:-( xx
Don't bin that strapon.
Hey hi.....I won't bin it, I may use it on another!
Yeah I'm gutted, and he was very clear how up for it he was. No matter what position he or I moved him into, he just wasn't feeling it. I could have blown had he been with me, but no! It was hot with the mmw bi porn on as I was watching that and him. Then he wouldn't fuck me. So I didn't even want to pleasure myself by then because I just felt like shit! xx
Strap on sex, such fun with , he dose not know what he had missed. Sure you are a tender person with the right amount of control to make you both enjoy the experience. You picture turns me on with your d vibe, know dout you could have a few /lot out side your door,waiting to be pegged. Stay positive my dear ozz.x
The fear of the unknown can be a killer for most things.
That's why forums like this can be invaluable, especially the anonymity. Lots of mental barriers can be removed, like. Will it feels strange? Will it hurt? Is it messy? Will I be less of a man if she peggs me?
Whatever you do, do it together. Comunicate so you are both on the same page. It may not be romantic or ring the bell first time but you will gain experience so you can work from there and progress, longer, fatter, slower, faster. Who knows unless we tell each other whats going on in our mind or body.
Ozz sit down with him and talk this over.
Glad you arn't binning that strapon. It looks OK with that curved dildo, I'd of thought it would have gave his prostate a massage if you done him face to face ankles on your shoulders and a hand job. Perfect for a first time, not too intimidating.
BrumGuy I hear what you're saying. I tried hjis ankles on my shoulders, legs down to waist, legs bent, me satnding at the end of the bed, me on the bed you name it. I could just see it wasn't going the way I had hoped. I was loving it, and more. I had a lovely gentle rhythm going, taking my time to build but no it wasn't to be.I did give a hand job too!
I should have realised something was a miss when he didn't even say anything when I first put it all on. I felt a bit strange at first, but it all felt comfy and I thought I looked hot! Obviously I didn't!
Then to not even touch me afterwards was a killer blow! :( xx
BrumGuy I hear what you're saying. I tried hjis ankles on my shoulders, legs down to waist, legs bent, me satnding at the end of the bed, me on the bed you name it. I could just see it wasn't going the way I had hoped. I was loving it, and more. I had a lovely gentle rhythm going, taking my time to build but no it wasn't to be.I did give a hand job too!
I should have realised something was a miss when he didn't even say anything when I first put it all on. I felt a bit strange at first, but it all felt comfy and I thought I looked hot! Obviously I didn't!
Then to not even touch me afterwards was a killer blow! :( xx
Ozz :-( xx
Perhaps he was overwhelmed and just could'nt manage the mixed feelings inside his head.
Tell him how you felt. before, during, and after. And how much it ment to you to have him like that.
To leave you cold like that was insensitive and wasn't fair.
BrumGuy I hear what you're saying. I tried hjis ankles on my shoulders, legs down to waist, legs bent, me satnding at the end of the bed, me on the bed you name it. I could just see it wasn't going the way I had hoped. I was loving it, and more. I had a lovely gentle rhythm going, taking my time to build but no it wasn't to be.I did give a hand job too!
I should have realised something was a miss when he didn't even say anything when I first put it all on. I felt a bit strange at first, but it all felt comfy and I thought I looked hot! Obviously I didn't!
Then to not even touch me afterwards was a killer blow! :( xx
Ozz :-( xx
Perhaps he was overwhelmed and just could'nt manage the mixed feelings inside his head.
Tell him how you felt. before, during, and after. And how much it ment to you to have him like that.
To leave you cold like that was insensitive and wasn't fair.
Speak to him. xx
I did! I told him he made me feel useless and like shit! I told him I thought I looked hot wearing it, yet he said nothing! I was even talking filthy to him at some points hoping this would spark something within! Nope!
I said to him why did you want to put yourself through that when really you didn't want to? He said it's fine, don't worry about it, we tried and it didn't do it for me! Now I know we don't have love between us or that connection now, but I receive more compliments on here than off him and it sucks! xx
BrumGuy I hear what you're saying. I tried hjis ankles on my shoulders, legs down to waist, legs bent, me satnding at the end of the bed, me on the bed you name it. I could just see it wasn't going the way I had hoped. I was loving it, and more. I had a lovely gentle rhythm going, taking my time to build but no it wasn't to be.I did give a hand job too!
I should have realised something was a miss when he didn't even say anything when I first put it all on. I felt a bit strange at first, but it all felt comfy and I thought I looked hot! Obviously I didn't!
Then to not even touch me afterwards was a killer blow! :( xx
Ozz :-( xx
Perhaps he was overwhelmed and just could'nt manage the mixed feelings inside his head.
Tell him how you felt. before, during, and after. And how much it ment to you to have him like that.
To leave you cold like that was insensitive and wasn't fair.
Speak to him. xx
I did! I told him he made me feel useless and like shit! I told him I thought I looked hot wearing it, yet he said nothing! I was even talking filthy to him at some points hoping this would spark something within! Nope!
I said to him why did you want to put yourself through that when really you didn't want to? He said it's fine, don't worry about it, we tried and it didn't do it for me! Now I know we don't have love between us or that connection now, but I receive more compliments on here than off him and it sucks! xx
What happened to kill the love between you two Ozz. Feel free to tell me to mind my own beeswax!
such a shame though, for the love and passion to just die though...anyway to bring it back? Maybe he likes you being submissive?