Pegging

Does anyone have any idea how to get my wife to try this

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You could ask her?

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I have skirted on on it trying to get a bite but never get a response but she likes anal

Do you have any anal toys that you use on her? Could you ask if she would like to try using one of them on you? It would be a small step towards what you want to try without sounding too scary?

If not you might just have to tell her straight. She might not have picked up the hint or she might not be sure that you are being serious. An open conversation is the best way to go here I think x

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Good idea

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Be more direct and say it is something you would like to try and how would she feel about that.

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Some people find reading out bits of the forum a good ice-breaker if you’re stuck for an opener? Or browsing the site together, and chatting about some of the products.

There’s plenty of topics on pegging if you fancy having a browse before selecting a good one to read out? (rather than reading out this one :slightly_smiling_face:)

https://lovehoneyforum.com/search?q=pegging

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I just asked.
Hints have a way of being missed, ignored or misunderstood.

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Have you tried to ask her how it feels and tell her it’s something that you would like to try.You could also say I know what it feels like when your inside her and you were wondering what it it feels like with it inside you

I just came out and asked my wife, she was fine with it, only asking which strap on we were gonna buy

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Yeah reading from forum has started many discussions for us. But yeah I don’t know if you can just jump from her not touching your butt to straight to pound town. Baby steps, start with some external touching and then move to toys then if she is ok with that you can move on. We tried it many moons ago didn’t end up being good for either of us, granted we didn’t give it a that great go at the time.

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Maybe start watching some porn which heavily features pegging as the main focus, maybe seek out amateur instead of the pro stuff as this may have the opposite desired effect?

Just an idea… I know by watching the content myself on certain sexual acts has made me be more open-minded about various scenarios so may work but be mindful that just sometimes certain things aren’t for certain people and maybe the answer is to otherwise find a compromise instead.

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What about from a woman’s eyes do you enjoy doing this for your partner or would you not want to

I’ll reply for my wife here.

She is very open to anything but pain or bodily waste so her attitude is generally that if it gives me pleasure then she’s happy to go with it. More recently though, with our shift in relationship dynamics, she’s starting to enjoy pegging as an establishment of dominance too.

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This is really cringy now but it always worked.

So when we was first in a relationship, I use to tell my partner we got a ’ tester ’ and it needed reviewing :rofl: save myself the embarrassment of saying I brought it or that I wanted to try it out.

Luckily My partner is very open minded but I was shy at the time. :rofl:

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From a woman’s perspective yes, I would most definitely enjoy pegging. If I could see it was something that my partner was enjoying and getting pleasure from I most certainly would too.

I’ve never personally been in a position to try it out unfortunately but I’ve been in a voyeur type scenario where I masturbated watching my friend pegging her husband, that was a huge turn on! Maybe one day I’ll be the peg-ee :wink:

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I love to watch pegging porn but can’t seem to convince the wife to give it a go. Love anal play when I’m having solo play so pegging is 100% on the list to try. The goal is to have a hand free orgasm from just being pegged

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@Wifelover96 I can’t rightly recall how Sexterminatrix and I got into pegging. It was probably one of those spur-of-the-moment things, where I was being playfully obtuse, and she said something along the lines of, “I’ll stick it up your arse if you keep going…!” to which I replied, “Go on, then…!” and it kinda went from there.

Watch for the verbal cues everywhere! :wink:

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I remember we we’re having anal and I was buried deep in her ass and said I would love you to do this to me to which she replied I was hoping you would ask coz I’ve wanted to do your ass for ages and that’s where the fun started

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Watch TV shows together like The Bold Type or Broad City and when they mention pegging, say you want to try that. Also, if they ask you “what do you want for your birthday?” (Or other gift giving holiday) say you want pegging.